Iamstress

• ifish

  30 Jul 08, 16:25

  dont really have any other place for me to like voice out my thoughts.. so i hope you guys dont mind me whining here..

   

  I'll be having my practical exam retest and 2 presentations tmr.

  The prac exams, i havent really practise yet and i doubt i'll be practising today. it's actually a retest. I flunked my first try. I was having a bad day..

  My 2 presentations are not completed.. only done up the skeleton.

   

  Lately so much been happening, a good fren death, politics in school, gal problem..

  I feel like I cannot cope. I cant seems to be able to focus on anything..

  Final year in poly, last sem in school before going attachment next sem. It just felt so fast.. Before I know it, 2 weeks later are my exams. Again, I'm not prepared

  I seem aimless this few days. At home only want to go out while outside only want to go home. Sleeping in the evening only to be wide awake in the wee hours of the morning.

  Losing sleep, losing appetite, I know I need to take care of myself.. Been telling myself to take one thing at a time but I cant even seems to get anything started.

  Sigh..

  I want to see sunshine again. I miss my own smile

• newcomer

  30 Jul 08, 16:29

  ur fren jeryln?

• ifish

  30 Jul 08, 16:30

  nope.. it's a he

• deathwish

  30 Jul 08, 16:34

  Just tell yourself that after roughing it out for this period, you will be a load off your chest.

• newcomer

  30 Jul 08, 16:37

  hw ur fren passed away?

• song-of-life

  30 Jul 08, 16:44

  Originally posted by ifish:

  dont really have any other place for me to like voice out my thoughts.. so i hope you guys dont mind me whining here..

   

  I'll be having my practical exam retest and 2 presentations tmr.

  The prac exams, i havent really practise yet and i doubt i'll be practising today. it's actually a retest. I flunked my first try. I was having a bad day..

  My 2 presentations are not completed.. only done up the skeleton.

   

  Lately so much been happening, a good fren death, politics in school, gal problem..

  I feel like I cannot cope. I cant seems to be able to focus on anything..

  Final year in poly, last sem in school before going attachment next sem. It just felt so fast.. Before I know it, 2 weeks later are my exams. Again, I'm not prepared

  I seem aimless this few days. At home only want to go out while outside only want to go home. Sleeping in the evening only to be wide awake in the wee hours of the morning.

  Losing sleep, losing appetite, I know I need to take care of myself.. Been telling myself to take one thing at a time but I cant even seems to get anything started.

  Sigh..

  I want to see sunshine again. I miss my own smile

  You should sit down, calm yourself down and write down CLEARLY what are your things to do.

  when you are too stressed, you can achieve nothing.

  Tell yourself how much time is left, and plan realistically what time to finish your agendas on time.

  Finally, have the discipline to finish them at a go! (u will be super tired but hang in there)

  It's good to reward youself along the way.

   

  If you are afraid you will face this kind of situation again, anticipate the important highlights of the week early and get started to prevent yourself form feeling so stressed.

  The only person who can save you is the thinking of your mind. If you think positive,  your friend may be a angel in heaven watching you and giving u luck. Treat those politics as though they were meant to pull you down, so brace yourself up and not get down. If you think it is not worth your time investing on the time on the girl for the time being, make it clear to her and she should understand your priorities now.

   

  Stress is an emotion brought upon yourself, so only you can make it go away.

   

  JIA YOU!

• XxYaNxX

  30 Jul 08, 17:41

  Relax  , think positive

• ifish

  30 Jul 08, 18:01

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  hw ur fren passed away?

  
  car accident..

• 00king00

  30 Jul 08, 20:06

  live strong, no matter how tough, bad times will be over

• Karma88

  30 Jul 08, 23:12

  Omg i`m like you man .

  But i`m just having my exams tmr .

  If i fail this exam or get less then 70 i would fail and have to retake .

  this i because my lecturer is a freaking bitch .

  I always come late only she kp kp . At least i come . And late is not very late like half an hour late only .

  She fuking keep telling me i`ll fail . SCREWW AOOP

• JianLun

  31 Jul 08, 00:51

  take things easily..

  u shud read a book called tuesdays with morrie..

  read it! its good ;)

• parn

  31 Jul 08, 01:50

  Originally posted by ifish:

  dont really have any other place for me to like voice out my thoughts.. so i hope you guys dont mind me whining here..

   

  I'll be having my practical exam retest and 2 presentations tmr.

  The prac exams, i havent really practise yet and i doubt i'll be practising today. it's actually a retest. I flunked my first try. I was having a bad day..

  My 2 presentations are not completed.. only done up the skeleton.

   

  Lately so much been happening, a good fren death, politics in school, gal problem..

  I feel like I cannot cope. I cant seems to be able to focus on anything..

  Final year in poly, last sem in school before going attachment next sem. It just felt so fast.. Before I know it, 2 weeks later are my exams. Again, I'm not prepared

  I seem aimless this few days. At home only want to go out while outside only want to go home. Sleeping in the evening only to be wide awake in the wee hours of the morning.

  Losing sleep, losing appetite, I know I need to take care of myself.. Been telling myself to take one thing at a time but I cant even seems to get anything started.

  Sigh..

  I want to see sunshine again. I miss my own smile

  It's perfectly normal for people to have problems and downtimes in their lives.

  But it's not really beyond your own control to overcome them. It's a lifestyle problem, how you treat yourself will determine your abilities to handle/deal with your own downtimes in life.

  Despite how people in your environment treated you in your life, always remember to treat yourself right is how you maintain a healthy mind and soul.

  Give yourself a treat, watch a comedy, go window shopping with your friends, indulged in your hobbies, go ktv, learn dancing, learn golf, have a religion. Have activities that you will enjoys and will make you happy and satisfied for the day.

  I understand that money are not easy to come by these days, but if your money are not good enough to make you happy when you're down, then what's the point of collecting them when you can't even afford cheer yourself up when you needed to?

  You need to have a change of lifestyle and that will need to start from your mindset, only then will you be able to have a break-out and outgrow from your emotional cycle.

  You can do it, believe for all the good things that will come in your life and they will happen if you wished hard for them to happen.

  It's not our destiny that guides us in our lives, it's our thoughts that we believed in which will form our destiny if we wished hard enough for them to happen.

  Be positive and you will be guided down the positive path towards your destiny.

   

   

• xavier1979

  1 Aug 08, 12:30

  I think you are overwhelmed.

  1. Take time out.
  2. Sort out those tasks that need to be completed.
  3. Prioritize them.
  4. Tackle them one by one.

  Hopefully by focusing one task at a time, the stress level can be reduced.

  If you keep thinking about it, the feeling will just get worse.

  "In the darkest night, the stars shine the brightest."

  What doesn't kill you will make you stronger.

• ifish

  1 Aug 08, 16:07

  Thanks guys.. for those word of encouragement

   

  yea..

   im trying to do things one at a time. finishing wads necessary first.

   

• EvolutionPIG

  1 Aug 08, 22:57

  cheer up! cheer cheer cheer!        v ^o^ v