gals..have u met with a 'too good to be true' case?
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ya..if this guy is like everything u ever wish for, sensitive, thoughtful and romantic in every way imaginable, is he a playboy? or is there a possibility that he might be the real deal? pls share ur experiences! and is it ever true when a guy says (like in movies) ''i was a playboy, but u are the one and i want to settle down with u" oh my.cheesy.
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mi that kind of guy lor.. but.. no gal believe mi....
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kns see ur nick oso know u not that type of guy liao
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Originally posted by elementalangel:
kns see ur nick oso know u not that type of guy liao
v i am lah.. really.. trust mi gals... dun judge a person by his nick lah... -
lol beware!! wolf in a sheep clothing up there ^
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This is a beginning of an interesting thread.
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no harm trying out first. go out on dates like a friend and see what happens. who ever said a fairytale cant happen to you? human beings are contridicting creatures. when the right one doesnt appear, we wonder why he doesnt. or when someone before us isnt really what u want we complain. when he finally does, we think its too good to be true.
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How interesting it is.
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haha if he's too good to be true, it means that you're in love. cos no guy can be too good to be true and you're clearly blinded by love. but, saying so, you should go ahead and into the relationship cos well, that's what your true feelings are.
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Just be friends first and see how he fares.
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Originally posted by Xiao tianshi:
ya..if this guy is like everything u ever wish for, sensitive, thoughtful and romantic in every way imaginable, is he a playboy? or is there a possibility that he might be the real deal? pls share ur experiences! and is it ever true when a guy says (like in movies) ''i was a playboy, but u are the one and i want to settle down with u" oh my.cheesy.
It doesn't matter really isn't it? All it matters is "DO YOU LIKE HIM?"
If you like him, you don't mind even you became his personal whore.
Playboy don't really exist, you can't be out-played unless you want to play.
But Playgirl does exist.
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lol i agree with iwishiwilliwould....no matter what ppl will always think the opposite as a human reaction kinda thing...to guard urself from any harm that might come by...as much as it is safe to think so, it is oso impt that u dun put too much thought into it, or else u might b thinking too much in everything n ruin a potentially good ending for urself...
oso as the rest haf said bah, juz b frens first then see how loh, sometimes our emotions cloud our judgement oso de...observe how he behaves in front of others, like when ur not arnd, n mayb get that info from others...then u can see what kinda person he is, whether he is truly what u think of him...if that cant ease ur worries, then the best thing is still to think less...afterall, even if u keep pondering over it, ntg is goin to come of it rite?juz makes urself more stressed=p
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Originally posted by parn:
It doesn't matter really isn't it? All it matters is "DO YOU LIKE HIM?"
If you like him, you don't mind even you became his personal whore.
Playboy don't really exist, you can't be out-played unless you want to play.
But Playgirl does exist.
wahh...u playgirl?lol...i dun reali agree with what u say though=p, some ppl juz follow their emotions too blindly...not that they wanna play to, juz that they r not strong enuf to pull themselves out of the situation what...n doesnt mean if she likes him then wuldnt mind being his personal whore what...sounds...crude sia lol -
too good to be true..
scary..
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player........
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Originally posted by eyeballl:
haha if he's too good to be true, it means that you're in love. cos no guy can be too good to be true and you're clearly blinded by love. but, saying so, you should go ahead and into the relationship cos well, that's what your true feelings are.
U are right. It must fall in love deeply so feel he is too good go be true.I had. He is too good to be true and I'm too stupid to identify clearly. Just learn the experience...I'm not the princess so prince won't happen to me.
But falling in love with those people who are just ur ideal is really good. Get hurt but experienced and learnt.
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Originally posted by Xiao tianshi:
ya..if this guy is like everything u ever wish for, sensitive, thoughtful and romantic in every way imaginable, is he a playboy? or is there a possibility that he might be the real deal? pls share ur experiences! and is it ever true when a guy says (like in movies) ''i was a playboy, but u are the one and i want to settle down with u" oh my.cheesy.
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Originally posted by Nica_TW:
U are right. It must fall in love deeply so feel he is too good go be true.I had. He is too good to be true and I'm too stupid to identify clearly. Just learn the experience...I'm not the princess so prince won't happen to me.
But falling in love with those people who are just ur ideal is really good. Get hurt but experienced and learnt.
hmm...i wun say all cases oso mean the same bah....mayb u girls shld go watch or read the book "He's just not that into you"...interesting comments, but dun take all the advice in there coz its highly americanized, n not all comments shld b taken literally into singapore society=p...still if u think u always get urself attached for the wrong reasons...it shld b good to advise some guidelines on telling u how n when a guy isnt reali into u...
but...as i said...GUIDE...NOT follow whateva it says hor=p
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Originally posted by dangerboi:
This is a beginning of an interesting thread.
Indeed....
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Originally posted by darkhour:
wahh...u playgirl?lol...i dun reali agree with what u say though=p, some ppl juz follow their emotions too blindly...not that they wanna play to, juz that they r not strong enuf to pull themselves out of the situation what...n doesnt mean if she likes him then wuldnt mind being his personal whore what...sounds...crude sia lol
You're the first person to use this word on me, but anyway...girls who has the qualities to play should play. Not every girl can afford to play, how many girls do you think can afford to play? Same theory apply to guys also. It's a talent and a gift to you, if you don't use it, then you're just normal and destined to live a normal life.It matters how much she likes him though...even as forumers in here, if we allow ourselves to interfere with other people's destiny, then we're no difference from the third-party in the relationship, as guilty as the third-party if our advice causes the separation and severing of the bonds of destiny between a couple in a relationship.
My rule of the thumb is not to interfere with other people's destiny...and that has always been the believe in my families. Interfering with other people's destiny will only bring about retribution and karma for yourselves which you will collect them when the time arrives. I want to live a good life and I have been living a good life and I want to keep it that way. How you want to live yours is entirely up to you.
Ohh....I'm straightforward and direct, but I don't think that's my negative traits. It has helped many people and also killed off many people...and also attracted many people.
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girls will get frightened off, believe me
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Originally posted by parn:
You're the first person to use this word on me, but anyway...girls who has the qualities to play should play. Not every girl can afford to play, how many girls do you think can afford to play? Same theory apply to guys also. It's a talent and a gift to you, if you don't use it, then you're just normal and destined to live a normal life.It matters how much she likes him though...even as forumers in here, if we allow ourselves to interfere with other people's destiny, then we're no difference from the third-party in the relationship, as guilty as the third-party if our advice causes the separation and severing of the bonds of destiny between a couple in a relationship.
My rule of the thumb is not to interfere with other people's destiny...and that has always been the believe in my families. Interfering with other people's destiny will only bring about retribution and karma for yourselves which you will collect them when the time arrives. I want to live a good life and I have been living a good life and I want to keep it that way. How you want to live yours is entirely up to you.
Ohh....I'm straightforward and direct, but I don't think that's my negative traits. It has helped many people and also killed off many people...and also attracted many people.
?i was juz asking la not saying that ur one =x...n doesnt mean that if u can, u shld...there is so much more to what u shld do than what u can do...i can choose to play doesnt mean i haf to...there r consequences to everything u do, n its what kind of person u wan to become that decides what u shld or will do...a talent can b used in more ways than one, n i feel that its always better to use it in a way that no one gets hurt...
n yes as forumers, if we make irresponsible comments that cause ppl to seperate, we wuld b at fault, yet at the same time, if we were to keep quiet at something we could haf helped, we wuld b guilty of not helping a person as well...i believe that we shldnt tell her what she has to do, but suggestions on what other choices n the pros n cons of each choice can still b given, as it wuld still b her decision on whether she shld take up the suggestion or leave it behind as juz a plain comment...
hmm...i believe that everyone's destiny crosses many others in their whole lives, in a way or another u will affect others thru ur comments, ur actions, ur words...the fact that ur living, will interfere into another's destiny alrdy...i believe in helping if possible...but of course, we haf to b confident of what we r sayin as well as not to mislead others...any mistakes, said out can still b discussed...if juz kept to ourselves, we will onli think in our own way...
dun wry i dun think its negative either, being direct is good n i like talkin to ppl who r more direct as its easier to talk things out that way...
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wat does it means that "if this guy is like everything u ever wish for, sensitive, thoughtful and romantic in every way imaginable" ???
He may not be a playboy or watever.
It just means tat u have not truely understood or noe him... LOL
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see how long he can last tat way lor...most guys don noe wad they doing most of the time...
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Too good to be true kindda guys?? Pui!