it goes like this..
i betray my friend by 挑拨离间 him and his gf...not once not twice but thrice..i feel very bad why is it that i cant change...actually before that i was together with my friend..but broken off becoz of my character i guess..now that i have change...and i betray him is also becoz i still have feeling for him..which is why i always threaten him to tell his gf about us last time...he forgive me alot of times..
but this time rd he seems determined to leave me..which i seriously cannot take it..all the while i am always with him..hang out..hav fun and even working together..now without him my life is like...super dull lo...
any idea to fix this relationship?for now i only wan to maintain friends with him nia..no other motive..i have already apologies to him many times...and i never seen him for very long liao...i miss him..*as a friend nia la*
find a new guy.
Talk to him lah. If he refuses to remain as a friend to u, then too bad, you are reaping what you sow earlier, congrats.
grats yr fruit is ripe
Originally posted by icyboiz:grats yr fruit is ripe
She is enjoy the fruit of her labour. Great harvest.
Originally posted by Fantagf:Talk to him lah. If he refuses to remain as a friend to u, then too bad, you are reaping what you sow earlier, congrats.
in another view, u r a 3rd party...
Hmm, I have read the tarot for you.The advise is for you to be discrete, so you should not go too close to him for a period of time. Instead, go with your other friends instead, and your problem will be solved after a while. Thought it will not be in a way that you expected.
If you get a chance to be friends with him again, you must be more careful and avoid his girlfriend. But I do not promise that.
Originally posted by Rednano:
in another view, u r a 3rd party...
You mean TS or me? I don't know her guy friend hor. She sounds bitchy and self centred.
Originally posted by Beautiful951:Hmm, I have read the tarot for you.The advise is for you to be discrete, so you should not go too close to him for a period of time. Instead, go with your other friends instead, and your problem will be solved after a while. Thought it will not be in a way that you expected.
If you get a chance to be friends with him again, you must be more careful and avoid his girlfriend. But I do not promise that.
Tarot master, when will she get a new bf then?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Tarot master, when will she get a new bf then?
I don't know. I did not read that for her. Timelines are harder to read.
Originally posted by Fantagf:You mean TS or me? I don't know her guy friend hor. She sounds bitchy and self centred.
TS lor.. 挑拨离间 leh...
Hope TS learns her lesson.
Don't be like this. She is now asking for help, we should help her first.
Originally posted by Beautiful951:Don't be like this. She is now asking for help, we should help her first.
lay low for the moment of time, then after some months later... then talk.
Originally posted by Rednano:
lay low for the moment of time, then after some months later... then talk.
Even if you say that, should she say sorry again or appear as if nothing has happened?
Originally posted by Beautiful951:Even if you say that, should she say sorry again or appear as if nothing has happened?
minimise the bringin up of the story, say somethin like 'let bygones by bygones' kinda lines at the meeting that will happen after months later
Originally posted by Rednano:
minimise the bringin up of the story, say somethin like 'let bygones by bygones' kinda lines at the meeting that will happen after months later
Well, but the TS is not here to see our comments.
ok la~i know i am a bitch...frankly and seriously..i feel that way too..now super duper regret liao...just wan to mend this relationship..haix..i so stupid..
relax. just find a new guy.
it's not ez to find someone whom you can hang out and have common interest..when we were out, we can do everything together..it's like..we like the same thing..have the same hobby..neither of us will feel bored when we were together...there is always alot of laughter...suddenly he is gone..i am like..lost track...damn sad..
man u girls are vicious!
Originally posted by themoment86:it's not ez to find someone whom you can hang out and have common interest..when we were out, we can do everything together..it's like..we like the same thing..have the same hobby..neither of us will feel bored when we were together...there is always alot of laughter...suddenly he is gone..i am like..lost track...damn sad..
not easy, but it has to be done.
find a new guy.
Originally posted by skythewood:not easy, but it has to be done.
find a new guy.
wood, u want to volunteer to be her new bf? This one not asking for diamond ring at all.
Originally posted by Fantagf:
wood, u want to volunteer to be her new bf? This one not asking for diamond ring at all.
2 options, find a new guy or patch back.
i don't recommend patch back.
or you can just keep telling her she got what she deserved, over and over and over.....
Originally posted by skythewood:2 options, find a new guy or patch back.
i don't recommend patch back.
or you can just keep telling her she got what she deserved, over and over and over.....
Now u come out with option, just now told her to get new bf. OK, let her decide. BTW, what forumers said she agree leh. I believe she will put in effort to change for the better. If she does not, it is her that will suffer not us.