How do you heal people?

• DaExodus

  4 Oct 08, 03:38

  How do you heal someone who is heartbroken.

  Actually, this is a nice way of saying "I wana date the girl but she's heartbroken over her ex, can't get over and etc etc."

  But the main point is, how do you do that? I think this is a phase everyone go through whenever we know and start paying attention to people.

• soleachip

  4 Oct 08, 03:41

  A listening ear.

  Tissue paper.

  Lots of alcohol.

  No judgement.

  These usually do the trick.

• Detached

  4 Oct 08, 05:46

  The question is: 'do they want to be healed?'

  Don't destroy her status quo just because of your own intentions.

• RedizAlertz

  4 Oct 08, 05:51

  As above the 1st two posts. 

  Only when she's ready to be healed, then u can make the approach.  Patient is the key word.

• parn

  4 Oct 08, 06:39

  Originally posted by DaExodus:

  How do you heal someone who is heartbroken.

  Actually, this is a nice way of saying "I wana date the girl but she's heartbroken over her ex, can't get over and etc etc."

  But the main point is, how do you do that? I think this is a phase everyone go through whenever we know and start paying attention to people.

  
  You like her is it?

  Then CHU all your romantic stunts on her ok?

  Like you already said the answer "start paying attention to people". When Anyone is upset, despite whether they got a VAGINA or not, they NEED alot alot of attention. They may not express instant gratitude, but they will be secretly consoled by you.

  One good tip, go and copy alot of GOOD Jokes from the Jokes & Humour Forums. You are going to need alot of that up your sleeves if you want to cheer her up.

  But that's just me, I would be so annoyed and also secretly happy if a guy come and force me to laugh with his funny jokes when I'm upset.

  Cos I'm not supposed to be laughing and happy when I'm upset.......

• asprea

  5 Oct 08, 20:01

  
  Better than mother's milk.

   

• rlsh07

  5 Oct 08, 20:16

  i think that do not go into a relationship with her or even like chase her or anything yet. she might have just gone through a break up and still carrying the emotional baggage. this means that until the day she let go of the baggage, she is not ready yet. the thing you can do is just be her fren, go out with groups of people, back off and give her some time ba.