Anti social.....

• lopperpower

  11 Nov 08, 15:36

  i have trouble meeting friends...i alway like to be at home alone.ppl alway tell me to pick up a hobby.but i dun no where and what to pick up as hobby.i think i am a anti social..so wad can i do

• skythewood

  11 Nov 08, 15:40

  give me all your money. go home. wait.

• cherrycola

  11 Nov 08, 15:40

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  i have trouble meeting friends...i alway like to be at home alone.ppl alway tell me to pick up a hobby.but i dun no where and what to pick up as hobby.i think i am a anti social..so wad can i do

  
  What do you like to do during your free time?

• lopperpower

  11 Nov 08, 15:48

  at home i would sleep....or spend my time infront the com

• cherrycola

  11 Nov 08, 15:56

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  at home i would sleep....or spend my time infront the com

  
  Do you meet up with your friends for dinner?

• TalkToTheScreen

  11 Nov 08, 15:56

  You how old? Want come out slack?

• Cool-gal

  11 Nov 08, 16:01

  surf more forums..

  watch more jacky wu's show.

  u will be a cheerful n lively person..

• dumbdumb!

  11 Nov 08, 16:06

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  surf more forums..

  watch more jacky wu's show.

  u will be a cheerful n lively person..

  hmm. i don't understand jacky wu show. except the food chasing show

• EarlNeo

  11 Nov 08, 16:21

  there is a different between anti social and introvert. In your case, i believe itis the latter. Often taking the 1st step is the hard part. But once done, the rest are easy.

  Try starting with ur existing pool of friends or relatives. Try ur inmediate social circles such as schoolmate/ workmate or even playmate.

• de_middle

  11 Nov 08, 16:31

  hope you are not faced with some inferiority complex....if not, should be fine otherwise.

• Bak la va

  11 Nov 08, 16:40

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  i have trouble meeting friends...i alway like to be at home alone.ppl alway tell me to pick up a hobby.but i dun no where and what to pick up as hobby.i think i am a anti social..so wad can i do

  
  Are u a quiet guy? Perhaps u can try going out with your good friend 1st. Then slowly move to a small group.

  If u are at school, then pick up an ECA to know more ppl. From there, u might have some good mingling friends.

  Or u are just too lazy to move around, then this no one can help u de........

• actualization~

  11 Nov 08, 16:44

  i am zai nan and i dun see anything wrong with it~

• Fantagf

  11 Nov 08, 16:45

  Originally posted by skythewood:

  give me all your money. go home. wait.

  
  ha ha ha, you sound like robber.

• Fantagf

  11 Nov 08, 16:47

  zai nan also needs friends and people whom they can share, talk.   At least, get one friend to chat with.    No need to make many friends, if you have one good friend is good enough.

• Fantagf

  11 Nov 08, 16:48

  Originally posted by EarlNeo:

  there is a different between anti social and introvert. In your case, i believe itis the latter. Often taking the 1st step is the hard part. But once done, the rest are easy.

  Try starting with ur existing pool of friends or relatives. Try ur inmediate social circles such as schoolmate/ workmate or even playmate.

  Earl, you are sharp to spot the difference, clap clap.    Thank goodness both anti social and introvert can seek help.

• EarlNeo

  11 Nov 08, 16:59

  Originally posted by Fantagf:

  Earl, you are sharp to spot the difference, clap clap.    Thank goodness both anti social and introvert can seek help.

  thank you...

• lopperpower

  11 Nov 08, 17:00

  i am think of join a club or something so to make friend.

• oldbreadstinks

  11 Nov 08, 17:07

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  i have trouble meeting friends...i alway like to be at home alone.ppl alway tell me to pick up a hobby.but i dun no where and what to pick up as hobby.i think i am a anti social..so wad can i do

  if you're anti social you won't be posting this here, maybe you're just the shy quiet type. just try to mix around more.

• lopperpower

  11 Nov 08, 17:09

  hey anyone knw where can i go when i am alone cause it boring at home

   

• JerryYan

  11 Nov 08, 17:10

  go to library to read books or watch video

• ulquiorra87

  11 Nov 08, 17:19

  There is really nothing wrong with liking to be alone at home it doesnt mean you're anti social

• oldbreadstinks

  11 Nov 08, 17:36

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  hey anyone knw where can i go when i am alone cause it boring at home

   

  look for your friends lah, can't be no one at all to talk to right still got people from school? if not just go downstairs to talk to people of your own age. even old man lonely also know how to go downstairs to sit with other old men or go look for prc girl. if teenager can go basketball court/soccer court to ask if can join. go sports/community center play badminton/table tennis also can

  if you're in your twenties you should be working and can make friends from there also.

  bottomline is whether you want to take the first step

   

• TalkToTheScreen

  11 Nov 08, 17:40

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  hey anyone knw where can i go when i am alone cause it boring at home

   

  Cycling. Library.

• Bak la va

  12 Nov 08, 17:16

  Originally posted by lopperpower:

  i am think of join a club or something so to make friend.

  U can join some free running club or join friends for KTV, movies etc...

  SC has a every sun event at ECP. U can ask around.

• EarlNeo

  12 Nov 08, 17:52

  yup, sc have a cycling /skating thing every sunday at ecp.