Guessing the contents of a letter?
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Originally posted by libraguy78:
Macha, What kind of confession you mean? If it is something important, why wont she just call me up and chat or just sms me? I mean she sounded quite cool, when she wanted to pass me the letter.
Guys, Anyway, the letter is not with me now....
Sigh!
I am not David Blaine, either.
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why dont you open the letter and have it posted here so that all of us can read and then provide you with more valuable comments...
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libraguy,
If I am you.. I will read the letter .. then make a few copies and send one to her current BF.
Two foolish adults having an affair = DISASTER.
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JUST READ IT.
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Originally posted by cApitaland:
JUST READ IT.
did he not just say...the letter is not with him......?
for all you know...the letter says
'hi. i know you have not been speaking to me. and mebbe you wish to forget me. but i have broken up with the bf. wanna get together?'
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Originally posted by udontknowme:
did he not just say...the letter is not with him......?
for all you know...the letter says
'hi. i know you have not been speaking to me. and mebbe you wish to forget me. but i have broken up with the bf. wanna get together?'
my bad. slightly blur in the morning.
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u should open the letter
she might have sent u this
Hello,
I am the gal u are dating, a Personal Assistant to Mikhail Khodorkovsky. I got
your email address from the Ministry of Commerce Directory. I have a
profiling sum in an excess of $25M (Twenty Five Million United States
Dollars) which I seek your partnership in accommodating for me. The said
funds has been in fixed deposit for five years in a Bank in the United
Kingdom (name of the Bank undisclosed for now), before the fund was
deposited, my boss has long given me Power of Attorney to carry out
financial dealings on his behalf and that of the company before he was
arrested for his involvement in politics especially financing the leading
and opposing political parties. You can catch more of the story on this in
the below link; http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/business/3213505.stm
I have been contacted by the Bank as the P.A. to Mr. Mikhail Khodorkovsky
that the fund has matured hence ready for profiling. All I need from you
is to stand as the beneficiary of the above quoted sum. With the Power of
Attorney, I will arrange for the documentation at my expense which will
enable transfer of the sum to you. You will be rewarded with 30% for your
partnership, 5% has been mapped out for any expenses that might be
incurred during the transaction while 15% will be spent on taxes in your
country. I have decided to use my share of this transaction to relocate
and invest on the Real Estate Venture. The transaction has to be
concluded within a week. As soon as I get your willingness to comply, I
will give you more details, sites for verification, your role, how legal
and genuine this transaction is and as we progresses you shall see all
the legal documents.
Thank you so much for your time. I look forward to hearing from you soonest.
Yours truly,
the gal u been dating(- -) errr just for fun ...... dont scold me hoh..... -
Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
*burn*
If she can be with a bf who is her to be husband and still be with you...what makes you think that being with you...she might not cheat on you behind your back with another guy and have the same above scenario?I tottally agree with you. The girl who have eyes on another guy while she's in 8 years r/s with her Bf (some more she's getting married next year!!! Dang..) is really can not be trusted. I'm sorry to say this, but the girl most prolly is being bored in her r/s with her Bf and looking for something thrilling. Maybe That's why she's doing this. She might be doing the same to you if you get together with her.
I think better find another decent girl. There're still so many nice girls out there :p
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if it is closure u looking for. all the more u shd read it. be it in the healing process or wat, it dun really matters. thing dun really end if there is always a "?" hanging there...
what is worse that might happen after reading the letter? Itis a letter address to u by her. Meaning there is something that she want u to know and itis only rite to atleast see what she had to say.
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Ms. shells--> I kinda realized that, that's why I backout, but sometimes said is easier than done. :)
Hwaimeng--> That was funny! Thanks! haha
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so obvious that she wants to "1 leg step 2 boats"..trying to stall time for her to make a decision as in who is a better choice for her..
pass the letter to me..i read on ur behalf =D i ish a helpful girl =D
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Dumb ass shit, spoil pple's r/s dare still come here and post. I feel sorry for the bf aka the future husband.
Rest assured the Karma will work itself on you. Reminds me of Water Margin's adulterous pair Ximen Qing and Pan Jinlian, where Wu Da Lang was such a great husband.
And guess what? Both died at the hands of Wu Song eventually, a horrible end.
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I read the letter ppl! :) expected.....
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expected wat? game over? haha
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Originally posted by libraguy78:
I read the letter ppl! :) expected.....
expected wat she really wrote this ??????
Hello,
I am the gal u are dating, a Personal Assistant to Mikhail Khodorkovsky. I got
your email address from the Ministry of Commerce Directory. I have a
profiling sum in an excess of $25M (Twenty Five Million United States
Dollars) which I seek your partnership in accommodating for me. The said
funds has been in fixed deposit for five years in a Bank in the United
Kingdom (name of the Bank undisclosed for now), before the fund was
deposited, my boss has long given me Power of Attorney to carry out
financial dealings on his behalf and that of the company before he was
arrested for his involvement in politics especially financing the leading
and opposing political parties. You can catch more of the story on this in
the below link; http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/business/3213505.stm
I have been contacted by the Bank as the P.A. to Mr. Mikhail Khodorkovsky
that the fund has matured hence ready for profiling. All I need from you
is to stand as the beneficiary of the above quoted sum. With the Power of
Attorney, I will arrange for the documentation at my expense which will
enable transfer of the sum to you. You will be rewarded with 30% for your
partnership, 5% has been mapped out for any expenses that might be
incurred during the transaction while 15% will be spent on taxes in your
country. I have decided to use my share of this transaction to relocate
and invest on the Real Estate Venture. The transaction has to be
concluded within a week. As soon as I get your willingness to comply, I
will give you more details, sites for verification, your role, how legal
and genuine this transaction is and as we progresses you shall see all
the legal documents.
Thank you so much for your time. I look forward to hearing from you soonest.
Yours truly,
the gal u been datingOMG she really trying to ask u to sent some $$$ to other country ???? -
Hwaimeng---> Of course not.
EarlNeo--> Expected a farewell letter. ok?
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新欢敌�了旧爱得啦
good luck
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Originally posted by libraguy78:
i was involved with a girl who has a bf for 8 yrs. we were quite intimate for about 2 months ++ she said she loves me alot and feels very hard to breakup with her bf, as her bf is treating her very nice. she finds no reason to break up with him and yet due to family and friend's obligations, she couldn't break up with him. At certain time, she said she really would wanna consider me, but she felt more practical with him.
They are suppose to get married in 1 yr time. I felt really bad and realized this finally after a big battle of myself, and sort of ended this "grey" relationship with her. She was quite sad about it either. For 3 days I resist from talking and communicating with her in anyways but in the end she wrote me a letter. Should I read it? I had already missing her badly but I know I've got to move on. So I am not sure if I should read the letter? My friends adviced me not to read as it will not do me any good during this healing period.
Would like to know if anyone has any comments on what will the contents be? Will it do me more harm to read it? Or should I give each other another chance?
There are times when a relationship running on seemingly endless marathon will find fatigue sinking in and start questioning its very existence. We all need reasons to function, regardless of how absurd the explaination might be.There are a couple of possibilities for the advert of such phenomenon. For some might think that if fate doesn't allow you both to be together, why even allow you two to meet in the first place?
Your sub-rosa relationship is a litmus test for her to examine if this man, she is currently dating, is really the one for her. As much as you have enjoys her physical (which includes sexual affairs, if any) and emotional presence, this episode is but circumstances to understand the competitive landscape. By rational thinking, most people slipped back to their comfort zone because if she has chosen you, it's entirely a leap of faith. Blind faith.
Freedom? Yes. But you are an untested ground.
Furthermore, she also puts herself at risk of being negatively branded socially (disloyalty). This creates a situation where the risk is far too great and the returns are perceived as low. As we grow older, we become more adverse to risk because the fear of falling will overshadow the need to succeed and her situation is as such.
A relationship, at best, is merely an imaginary structure that held itself by substances we coined as Love. However, few relationships are running entirely on this fuel alone. The less concrete the identity of the relationship, the less stable the foundation. In fact, we are into a relationship for variety of reasons and as you have learned, she remains with him because of security - a proven track record. Hence, dating you effectively reinforced the identity of her own relationship and thus, you are unfortunately discarded once her conclusion is finalized.
The farewell letter might symbolize the end of this sub-rosa relationship, but more importantly, it suggested that she has 'graduated from this short course' and you are no longer needed, in any ways, to provide growth. The learning has ended because she has gain enlightenment by taking actions toward a given direction.
P.S: In Love, we have a choice to play between the main cast or the side cast. In your case, you opt for the latter. Perhaps in time to come, you might have the wisdom to begin your role as the former.
Problem doesn't lie with the people we meet, it rest with the choice we make... from the people we meet.
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a very thorough philosophical post of yours, Yunhaier. We are back together again. So what's your best advice?
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haix.. i think that being 3rd party to break up others is always wrong... but its always take 2 hands to clap, although shes willing, but is it right for you to step in and break the couple when they are getting married in about a year or so? if i was you, i will try all ways to avoid her, previously i saw your post, you got a farewell letter from her, and you said you expected, i kind of felt relive for the couple for the moment and glad you are not pursuing it anymore, and could move on but this morning , not within a month, you said you are back to her again -.-" Yeah... maybe sometimes many said love is selfish, you have to fight for yourself, but building your happiness on others people pain isn't one of the option isn't it... Imagine even you manage to have her in the end, what will her family think of you, humans tend to compare between people, they will take you to compare with her boyfriend. Which i think her boyfriend had already established quite a strong rapport with her family... My conclusion, leave her alone, making friends is ok, but try not to, cause relationship develops, and when its time to break up, u will feel the pinch even more.. Its up to you to decide... i just giving my point of view.. good luck to every decision you made...
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Originally posted by libraguy78:
a very thorough philosophical post of yours, Yunhaier. We are back together again. So what's your best advice?
Best of luck & hope we dun see u here complainin tat the r'ship doesnt work out as u expected & she breaks off with u. -
read read read.
Very important imo.