6 years Fiance Being seduced by woman from car forum

• Arkansaw

  29 Dec 08, 14:05

  Originally posted by Nelstar:

  What makes you think he will settle for two.

  

  
  gahmen says stop at two mah
• bubbly79

  29 Dec 08, 17:32

  yah,.. just forget abt him and move onz.. just happen that the guy i married was the same... forum... chatline.. then "zhao sai" then come back again beg for forgiveness want to patch.. but patch liao  few month later same things happen... Dog cannot change eat shit.. i guess this kinda of ppl they will never change.. once they are like that they will continue to be like that... unless miracle happen if not.. this kinda of ppl will never change.. at less u are still single u know...

• Pentaxdude90

  29 Dec 08, 18:29

  the whole thing somehow reeks of nonsense.

• Kai ph2002

  30 Dec 08, 10:32

  yeah, thats good girl..its better to shake him off in ur life rather than suffering for his philandering way of life...

• The Jolly Kiasu

  31 Dec 08, 00:51

  I know a babe who went out with a guy for 10 years, only to have him break up with her. She was in her mid 30's by then, and expected him to propose, not break up, with her.

   

  Of course, she was able to get another guy later in the year, but it devastated her at the time.

   

• Pitot

  31 Dec 08, 00:53

  its simple to get married.

   

  all u need to do is say i do.

   

  but are you, really happy?

• miNty`

  2 Jan 09, 16:19

  Originally posted by bizzkit0102:

  Honestly, if I was your friend's bf, I would leave her, regardless whether there is a 3rd party or not.

  If I were to say, her possessive acts actually made the situation worse. The way she act, the relationship was doomed to fail from the start. If there is no level of faith in each other at all, why bother having an intimate relationship?

  
  cuz my friend's BF is considered as a good catch..

  wealthy family, rich, yandao, gentleman & a good character (i ain't sure if  he is a putting up a front or what..but..on those few occassions where we met up with her & her bf..this guy is amicable & sociable..1 of those rare gentleman guy)

   

  so can understand why my friend fear that he might get seduced bah..so she keeps a tight control over her BF to ensure that ain't "traps" to lure him.. =x

• nehpyh

  2 Jan 09, 17:12

  Can guys really be in a monogamy?

   

  Is lust different from love?

  What is love?

  Will you die for your love one but still lust over others?

  Why like dat?

• Medicated Oil

  2 Jan 09, 17:40

  I guess it is a matter of common topic.

  Maybe both the party have taken things for granted and forgot to build on the relationship.

  I guess the sacrifice of 6 years applies to both parties.

  Both of you have good time within these 6 years.

  So, it is not just to blame the guy for your choice.

  No one can force you to be with this guy and no one can predict what will happen after 6 years.

  Be glad that you are now single and remember to communicate always during any relationship.