Before she return to philippines, I ask her to be my girlfriend, she thought for a while and finally agrees. It's been a week now and I phone her once in a few days and I begin to addict myself to her, I'm a lovesick men who fall in love easily and be serious very fast. So I'm always a victim of a relationship.
Do you know something? She actually had a boyfriend in philippines before agrees to me, I'm just being a devil trying to break them apart and get involve in a third party relationship. She has been with him for 3 years and they were a childhood friend, she says.
Well, 3 years vs 3 days? who will win ultimately? I've been going out with her for constant 3 days while she's in Singapore, I bring her around with my bike and finally romance at Yishun Dam. Gosh, she enjoys the moment with me.
But right now what worried me is that I'm afraid she might return to her ex-boyfriend in due time, she can dump her boyfriend for me and I'm no doubt that she can dump me for someone else too. Perhaps I need to learn to relax, I've been too serious lately. I do not know whether is this just a crush or a truth love reveals? I won't be seeing her at the moment as she return to school in philippines, her course is degree in business/admin, she is here in Singapore for attachment.
She says she'll return to Singapore and find a job here after she graduate in Nov, I do not know how true but I'll just wait till the end to find out.
She say she have chosen me and tried to forget about her boyfriend, all the sweet smses and e-mail from her containing those confidence message. Sigh, sometimes I just don't really understand what going on with girls mind. I have heard of friend saying that girls decision is always final and seldom back off but how true? For example, if you having affair with another girl and your wife finds out, she initial to break off and that's it. FINAL! Even though you grab a moon from the sky and deliver it to her home, she wouldn't be impress. You buy her a diamond ring, she wouldn't give a damn!
Should I continue to wait or should I give other girl a chance?
It's the feeling I suppose....
wa u sure u 100% love her? or is it jus a puppy love.. in 3 days only u wan her be ur gf? sure anot.. u know what she like to eat? what colours she like? what she hates? etc.. if not.. its jus infatuation..
Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
Before she return to philippines, I ask her to be my girlfriend, she thought for a while and finally agrees. It's been a week now and I phone her once in a few days and I begin to addict myself to her, I'm a lovesick men who fall in love easily and be serious very fast. So I'm always a victim of a relationship.
Do you know something? She actually had a boyfriend in philippines before agrees to me, I'm just being a devil trying to break them apart and get involve in a third party relationship. She has been with him for 3 years and they were a childhood friend, she says.
Well, 3 years vs 3 days? who will win ultimately? I've been going out with her for constant 3 days while she's in Singapore, I bring her around with my bike and finally romance at Yishun Dam. Gosh, she enjoys the moment with me.
But right now what worried me is that I'm afraid she might return to her ex-boyfriend in due time, she can dump her boyfriend for me and I'm no doubt that she can dump me for someone else too. Perhaps I need to learn to relax, I've been too serious lately. I do not know whether is this just a crush or a truth love reveals? I won't be seeing her at the moment as she return to school in philippines, her course is degree in business/admin, she is here in Singapore for attachment.
She says she'll return to Singapore and find a job here after she graduate in Nov, I do not know how true but I'll just wait till the end to find out.
She say she have chosen me and tried to forget about her boyfriend, all the sweet smses and e-mail from her containing those confidence message. Sigh, sometimes I just don't really understand what going on with girls mind. I have heard of friend saying that girls decision is always final and seldom back off but how true? For example, if you having affair with another girl and your wife finds out, she initial to break off and that's it. FINAL! Even though you grab a moon from the sky and deliver it to her home, she wouldn't be impress. You buy her a diamond ring, she wouldn't give a damn!
Should I continue to wait or should I give other girl a chance?
It's the feeling I suppose....
Just relax and don't stress urself so much. She said Nov so for now give her the benefit of the doubt and wait. 4 months more is not really that long. During this period just remain in contact with her, continue chatting and remaining close.
Don't betray her by starting to look for a girl now just because shes away. Thats being unfaithful.
Just wait and see how things progress ok?
TS, u really bei pi! eeeeeee!
Do you really love each other? Time is your answer.
Originally posted by cassie:Hasn’t this been posted before? What happened to previous thread?
Somewhere around, TS just started a new thread as he can't be bothered to dig the old one up.
http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/365537
To TS, are you sure you want a girl who just dump her bf like this? After 3 years, maybe she will dump you as well. You better think carefully before you make any decision.
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:Somewhere around, TS just started a new thread as he can't be bothered to dig the old one up.
http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/365537
To TS, are you sure you want a girl who just dump her bf like this? After 3 years, maybe she will dump you as well. You better think carefully before you make any decision.
what's wrong with the previous thread? why can't he continue from there? starting a new thread seems (at least to me) like emulating someone else in AA who continuously post the same problem (over and over and over and over and over again) and refusing to heed the advice given.
Nothing wrong dumping a bf for a better guy. That's what courtship is about.
She is not married to that guy yet. So may the best man win.
Well i guess the same goes vice versa. May the best gal win.
My heartfelt congratulations.
You're so gonna be 'victimized' again - either by the chick who took it as a 'dreamy holiday fantasy' or a furious bf who will take it in his hands dish out some punishment. I hope it will be former though, it's more romantic ![]()
p.s. see that pic in my avatar? that's the wheel of karma, amigo ![]()
Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:wa u sure u 100% love her? or is it jus a puppy love.. in 3 days only u wan her be ur gf? sure anot.. u know what she like to eat? what colours she like? what she hates? etc.. if not.. its jus infatuation..
He wanted a GF in 3 days not a maid for 3 years.
Originally posted by Short Ninja:He wanted a GF in 3 days not a maid for 3 years.
May be he only wants fling with her
TS just want to win competition with the girl's bf.
TS just got regional interests.
knn. she just want a good fuck la.
philipino how can be trusted.
anyway u fucked her before that should be good enough
Originally posted by Short Ninja:He wanted a GF in 3 days not a maid for 3 years.
short mother fuck ass hole. you mum fucked you for 3 secs u cum already.
curse u striked by lightning.