I am a 24 year old girl in the office. I am a bit petit and a bit overweight but I have a lot of friends. Recently the company hired this 30 year old single guy to the office. He is nice and quiet person. Me and my lady friends want to get his attention but the ladies in the office want to help me to go after him. He is average looking but I am desperate. At first I try talking to him and he seem nice. I also invited him to join us to disco and to the pub to drink. He always decline my offer. Make me so angry. I try to be nice to him but he only give me one word answer. I think he is playing harder to get. How come I got so many friend girl and guy but this guy is so lukewarm to me?
So, I get the co-worker around to gang up on him. We purposely boycott him to make him angry. When we go out lunch we purposely avoid him because we want to punish him for rejecting my invitation. I want to get closer to him but he always stay away. Why? Then when we see him come to the office, he greet us good morning, we purposely ignore him. Then we plan in such way, that when I come I purposely say good morning very loud and I behave very chirpy. All the co-worker greet me and we make a lot of joke so that he can hear us. This way, he will feel marginalised and we can force him to come to me. We also organise a lot of birthday cake function but we purposely don't want to call him so we celebrate among ourself. But until now, he still keep quiet and don't want to socialise with me. Why?
I want to disturb him and give him chance to date me. Why he cannot see my good character? THe whole office support me and we got so many parties but still he show no reaction. I am so frustrated.
Then I get a manager to cause trouble with him. I know he needed to work closely with that manager to get his work done. So I get the manager to purposely talk very sarcastic at him and delay his work and make him suffer. That day, he got into a big argument with the manager because the manager cause delay to his work and the manager spoke very rudely to him. Good, now he is agitated. So at the company canteen I purposely chose the time he always go to lunch alone (since we boycott him), and when he is there, I purposely sit there alone eating lunch to invite him to eat with me. But he still go to the other table. So frustrating. Why?
What should I do to get his attention? He is trying to play harder to get or is he not interested? If he is not interested, I want face. I am losing face, I feel ashame at being rejected by this guy. I must win ! But he is so strong, he keep on showing no reaction. He is so invincible, I cannot get across to him. How now?
WTF
What kinda shit is this?
GROW UP RETARD
The guy probably knows you're a bloody bimbotic bitch that's why he refuses to come near you.
wah bonkers so fierce eh u
Originally posted by Desperate Belinda:I am a 24 year old girl in the office. I am a bit petit and a bit overweight but I have a lot of friends. Recently the company hired this 30 year old single guy to the office. He is nice and quiet person. Me and my lady friends want to get his attention but the ladies in the office want to help me to go after him. He is average looking but I am desperate. At first I try talking to him and he seem nice. I also invited him to join us to disco and to the pub to drink. He always decline my offer. Make me so angry. I try to be nice to him but he only give me one word answer. I think he is playing harder to get. How come I got so many friend girl and guy but this guy is so lukewarm to me?
So, I get the co-worker around to gang up on him. We purposely boycott him to make him angry. When we go out lunch we purposely avoid him because we want to punish him for rejecting my invitation. I want to get closer to him but he always stay away. Why? Then when we see him come to the office, he greet us good morning, we purposely ignore him. Then we plan in such way, that when I come I purposely say good morning very loud and I behave very chirpy. All the co-worker greet me and we make a lot of joke so that he can hear us. This way, he will feel marginalised and we can force him to come to me. We also organise a lot of birthday cake function but we purposely don't want to call him so we celebrate among ourself. But until now, he still keep quiet and don't want to socialise with me. Why?
I want to disturb him and give him chance to date me. Why he cannot see my good character? THe whole office support me and we got so many parties but still he show no reaction. I am so frustrated.
Then I get a manager to cause trouble with him. I know he needed to work closely with that manager to get his work done. So I get the manager to purposely talk very sarcastic at him and delay his work and make him suffer. That day, he got into a big argument with the manager because the manager cause delay to his work and the manager spoke very rudely to him. Good, now he is agitated. So at the company canteen I purposely chose the time he always go to lunch alone (since we boycott him), and when he is there, I purposely sit there alone eating lunch to invite him to eat with me. But he still go to the other table. So frustrating. Why?
What should I do to get his attention? He is trying to play harder to get or is he not interested? If he is not interested, I want face. I am losing face, I feel ashame at being rejected by this guy. I must win ! But he is so strong, he keep on showing no reaction. He is so invincible, I cannot get across to him. How now?
He cannot refuse. Our society very look down on 30 year old unmarry guy. So many woman not marry. I am 24, my elder sister is 28, it is because of this kind of guy, we are not married.
I have support from whole office, it is part of the game, he must give me attention. I am losing face. You are woman, you must understand my thinking and my pride. But he is so far withstand all our attack. Last time we also disturb another 32 year old guy freshly join. This guy very fun to disturb because he so easily phobia at us. When he try to avoid me, I get my co worker lady friend to boycott him and also disturb him. So even the marry woman join in and disturb him because he is so fun to disturb. Not even 9 month, he quit his job. So lousy cannot take pressure. I want his attention but he don't want to give, serve him right. I hear he still looking for job. Never hell hath stir woman anger or else this kind of unmarry man will pay.
But this 30 year old guy so frustrating. We purposely go and hide his stationery and he so stupid stupid ask around for his stapler and his files but we smart smart ignore him. Then we purposely play game so all the co worker make me centre of attention. Everybody come to my table and talk to me and make it sound so fun. We laugh so loud because we want to make him jealous. But he still give no reaction. He still give me no reaction.
Originally posted by Desperate Belinda:He cannot refuse. Our society very look down on 30 year old unmarry guy. So many woman not marry. I am 24, my elder sister is 28, it is because of this kind of guy, we are not married.
I have support from whole office, it is part of the game, he must give me attention. I am losing face. You are woman, you must understand my thinking and my pride. But he is so far withstand all our attack. Last time we also disturb another 32 year old guy freshly join. This guy very fun to disturb because he so easily phobia at us. When he try to avoid me, I get my co worker lady friend to boycott him and also disturb him. So even the marry woman join in and disturb him because he is so fun to disturb. Not even 9 month, he quit his job. So lousy cannot take pressure. I want his attention but he don't want to give, serve him right. I hear he still looking for job. Never hell hath stir woman anger or else this kind of unmarry man will pay.
But this 30 year old guy so frustrating. We purposely go and hide his stationery and he so stupid stupid ask around for his stapler and his files but we smart smart ignore him. Then we purposely play game so all the co worker make me centre of attention. Everybody come to my table and talk to me and make it sound so fun. We laugh so loud because we want to make him jealous. But he still give no reaction. He still give me no reaction.
WTF you sound like a retarded primary school kid.
And no, after seeing this post I'm ashamed of being female.
I didn't know there is a company which specializes in hiring special ed people.
I pity that guy you're after. I hope he doesn't wake up one day chained to your bed just because you want to seduce him and get him to date you.
Get a life...
this is a forum page...
not your personal blog....
btw... you ARE FAT ? (overweight)....?
Stalking a guy won't make you thin....
Go to Expression for some Exercise....
He may has phobias of hogs...
is this for real?i guess the reason why u are not married is because you are crazy...u force people to be near you?playing games in the office?oh god..that was insane..you're 24 but you sound like an idiot...
Overweight is fine you know...it's your personality that people are after..not your..erm..æ»ç¼ 烂打
he is right to avoid you...i am sure you will SM him...lolx..grow up..
fwah. more hiong than me.
good luck
but i think it's more like u are scaring him away...........
But he still give no reaction. He still give me no reaction.
At least he never pukes.... good for you....
To TS...what u do is wrong. You cannot forced someone to get attention on you. Afterall, you both are colleagues, nothing else. I do hope you can wake up and dont push your luck too far. It may backfire.
He cannot refuse. Our society very look down on 30 year old unmarry guy. So many woman not marry. I am 24, my elder sister is 28, it is because of this kind of guy, we are not married.
I have support from whole office, it is part of the game, he must give me attention. I am losing face. You are woman, you must understand my thinking and my pride. But he is so far withstand all our attack. Last time we also disturb another 32 year old guy freshly join. This guy very fun to disturb because he so easily phobia at us. When he try to avoid me, I get my co worker lady friend to boycott him and also disturb him. So even the marry woman join in and disturb him because he is so fun to disturb. Not even 9 month, he quit his job. So lousy cannot take pressure. I want his attention but he don't want to give, serve him right. I hear he still looking for job. Never hell hath stir woman anger or else this kind of unmarry man will pay.
But this 30 year old guy so frustrating. We purposely go and hide his stationery and he so stupid stupid ask around for his stapler and his files but we smart smart ignore him. Then we purposely play game so all the co worker make me centre of attention. Everybody come to my table and talk to me and make it sound so fun. We laugh so loud because we want to make him jealous. But he still give no reaction. He still give me no reaction.
Your character sucks, thats why :)
& it's his misfortune to be in a company of imbercile, immature & unreasonable people.
You should stop being desperate & trying so hard to get his attention. By doing that you are wasting your youth.
Leave it to fate & leave the poor guy alone. Stop pressurising him to the point that he kills himself.
GET A LIFE and reflect upon yourself.
Originally posted by Grey36:Your character sucks, thats why :)
& it's his misfortune to be in a company of imbercile, immature & unreasonable people.
You should stop being desperate & trying so hard to get his attention. By doing that you are wasting your youth.
Leave it to fate & leave the poor guy alone. Stop pressurising him to the point that he kills himself.
GET A LIFE and reflect upon yourself.
Agreed.
You smart meh. From the post, you reek of stupidity.
Mayeb you are fat, ugly and stupid, that's why no guys want you but only retarded people like your colleagues attract like-minded people like you so maybe perhaps you can go seduce your colleague's husband or what lor...got more chance since you have same thinking like them, i'm pretty sure they will support you de, hahahaha.
Wtf, what a bitch.
Can't you see he is trying to make a living....
Some pple love to be alone, lunch alone, work alone, and not get use to having together, eat together or go out after work.
Some pple have their own program, own committment.
So, I would strongly suggest TS to leave him alone. Dont act childish. TS are making a fool of herself.
Why dont TS talk to him nicely, treat him nicely? Rather than gang up and attack him? If he found out that you are the one who initiated the bad move, he will more want to avoid you at all cost. You will leave a very bad impression on him.
Please STOP YOUR NONSENSE.
And you're 24. Almost a decade older than me, but yet so immature. This world does not revolve around a fat bitch like you. What you're doing is retardedly retarded(i dont know what i mean). Just because everyone is "supporting" you doesn't mean you can push your luck and test shit on people. You'd never know when you offend the wrong guy. I hope you do though, then you'll learn a lesson and stop being such a whiny, desperate, crazy bitch on a public forum. And back off the man. All he wants to, is make a living.
"because of this kind of guy, we are not married"
And, because of people like you, men do not want to marry.
Your colleagues are making you a fool, instead of helping you!
What a colleagues you have. All so immature and childish.
Originally posted by Desperate Belinda:He cannot refuse. Our society very look down on 30 year old unmarry guy. So many woman not marry. I am 24, my elder sister is 28, it is because of this kind of guy, we are not married.
I have support from whole office, it is part of the game, he must give me attention. I am losing face. You are woman, you must understand my thinking and my pride. But he is so far withstand all our attack. Last time we also disturb another 32 year old guy freshly join. This guy very fun to disturb because he so easily phobia at us. When he try to avoid me, I get my co worker lady friend to boycott him and also disturb him. So even the marry woman join in and disturb him because he is so fun to disturb. Not even 9 month, he quit his job. So lousy cannot take pressure. I want his attention but he don't want to give, serve him right. I hear he still looking for job. Never hell hath stir woman anger or else this kind of unmarry man will pay.
But this 30 year old guy so frustrating. We purposely go and hide his stationery and he so stupid stupid ask around for his stapler and his files but we smart smart ignore him. Then we purposely play game so all the co worker make me centre of attention. Everybody come to my table and talk to me and make it sound so fun. We laugh so loud because we want to make him jealous. But he still give no reaction. He still give me no reaction.
Sounds so fake. As if everyone in the office is so free nothing to do everyday play such games.
Originally posted by FireIce:fwah. more hiong than me.
good luck
but i think it's more like u are scaring him away...........
I don't think so.
I think you will just rape any guys that you fancy
Poor guy...
I pity that guy.