in need of help
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Hi guys, erm i hav dis problem. 2 days ago, i confessed to the girl i like, and she kinda didnt give an ans, so i asked her to think about it and tell me the next day. So last night, after a concert, i walked her home, and then asked her, and she still said she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift, and then she waved goodbye to me, and so i waved back while the doors were closing.
After that, i got a text from her, saying that she is really sorry as she didnt expect it, and that we'll be better friends. So i asked her do i have a chance, and her reply was, " i dno, coze i cant imagine the 2 of us together."
End of story, so until now, i have been feeling very very sad, i cried last night but didnt want to tell her as it will bother her. I dun wna trouble her anymore, but at the same time i really want to be with her, what shod i do?
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Originally posted by uber_troubled:
Hi guys, erm i hav dis problem. 2 days ago, i confessed to the girl i like, and she kinda didnt give an ans, so i asked her to think about it and tell me the next day. So last night, after a concert, i walked her home, and then asked her, and she still said she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift, and then she waved goodbye to me, and so i waved back while the doors were closing.
After that, i got a text from her, saying that she is really sorry as she didnt expect it, and that we'll be better friends. So i asked her do i have a chance, and her reply was, " i dno, coze i cant imagine the 2 of us together."
End of story, so until now, i have been feeling very very sad, i cried last night but didnt want to tell her as it will bother her. I dun wna trouble her anymore, but at the same time i really want to be with her, what shod i do?
Do that .... question is... are u disciplined enought to stick to it.... cos if not u could become irritating to her. If she changes her mind you will know about it.... persuasion is an unneccessary trait after uve expressed yer interest to her.Kind Regards
Genie
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u really cannot sense arr?
quoted " she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift,"
doesn't it hint u anything at all?...2 hints summore yet u can miss...
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OMG uber_troubled, girls dont like to be so direct and straight forward (i know i am) so we just left u an obvious hint to tell u indirectly, because hint is much more romantic then tell u in the face T-T. Like Da_dood said, that was so big and obvious hints she left. How come u didnt notice that? bet u first time hanging out with a girl
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im a casanova
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lets just say i was very very nervous=.= couldnt think properly...anyway sme of her frens say that theres a guy she likes now, and tt he is super rich...so i pale in comaprison...well things change...thx anyway =)
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Tui yi bu hai kuo tian kong. Your true love is not far from you. Use this as a experience for next time.
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Originally posted by uber_troubled:
lets just say i was very very nervous=.= couldnt think properly...anyway sme of her frens say that theres a guy she likes now, and tt he is super rich...so i pale in comaprison...well things change...thx anyway =)
From my experience as playboy magnate. I tell you this girl may look for super rich guy but she did not tell on you. Nobody is angry with what you did. So maybe the girl is nice person after all. You did right thing by telling her the truth and asking her if she want to be with you. Now you can live for the rest of your life knowing that you tried, no regrets. Be patience, you will find somebody special. -
TS,U GOT REJECTED.LIVE WTH IT.WHAT FOR U CRY?KNN CCB.DUN DISGRACE ME CAN?
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To you'll go bankrupt alone: relax dude, lets see how we can help the TS out alright? we're on the same community. Lets look out for each other okay? =)
to TS: I'm very proud of you that you have done something like that- letting your feelings known to someone you like. It takes balls. Love is a very magical thing. She may not be with you now but you will never know the future. I am not asking you to carry hopes that she will be with you ultimately, but to live your life, and be strong. You're a guy! =) we are all here for you, and definitely you can walk out of this, a stronger person. You can do it!
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Originally posted by uber_troubled:
Hi guys, erm i hav dis problem. 2 days ago, i confessed to the girl i like, and she kinda didnt give an ans, so i asked her to think about it and tell me the next day. So last night, after a concert, i walked her home, and then asked her, and she still said she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift, and then she waved goodbye to me, and so i waved back while the doors were closing.
After that, i got a text from her, saying that she is really sorry as she didnt expect it, and that we'll be better friends. So i asked her do i have a chance, and her reply was, " i dno, coze i cant imagine the 2 of us together."
End of story, so until now, i have been feeling very very sad, i cried last night but didnt want to tell her as it will bother her. I dun wna trouble her anymore, but at the same time i really want to be with her, what shod i do?
Forget her and start approaching other girls.