Turning 30 and at different life stages of my peers...
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Hi everyone! I am turning 30 this year, and am gradually realizing that I am at different life stages of my peers (i.e. friends I used to study with).
They are either married without kids, married with kids, single with BF or single without a BF but not really enjoying their life trying new things. Personally, there is nothing wrong with their life, because I am not here to critic. I am here to meet people who are at the same or similar life stage as me.
I am at the life stage whereby I am young (or I like the idea that I am still young!), well-educated, have a very successful career that pays me well, have the time and ability to try different things, ranging from going away for vacations (sometimes alone, sometimes with friends) at least once a month, to picking up new hobbies like horse-riding. Most of my (male & female) friends are foreigners and/or expats, but I am pretty sure that there are Singaporeans or maybe more foreigners, who are at the same life stage as me.
Anyone out there in this forum, who is in similar situation as me?
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I don't think the 30 here in this forum refers to "age"......"waist-line" might have been more accurate.
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That is very interesting, because I think the "Cult Leader" of the forum might beg to differ.
http://sgforums.com/forums/1769/topics/300776
Try reading the sticky notes sometimes. I am sure there is a reason why they are sticky notes, and listed before the other postings.
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That's nothing.
Anyway, enjoy your tour here.
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Originally posted by Girl_Next_Door:
That is very interesting, because I think the "Cult Leader" of the forum might beg to differ.
http://sgforums.com/forums/1769/topics/300776
Try reading the sticky notes sometimes. I am sure there is a reason why they are sticky notes, and listed before the other postings.
Wow you actually read the sticky. Most don't bother at all.
We have people here who are married, attached, with kids, without kids etc but we are all still enjoying life and experiencing new things.
Being married/attached doesn't mean the end of everything and not being able to do the things you want to do or love to do :)
I'm not sure if this forum is for you but just hang around and see for yourself.
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wow ..... yuppie lifestyle ......
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"They are either married without kids, married with kids, single with BF or single without a BF but not really enjoying their life trying new things."
u listed almost every category... so wat "life stage" r u?!
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Originally posted by tare:
"They are either married without kids, married with kids, single with BF or single without a BF but not really enjoying their life trying new things."
u listed almost every category... so wat "life stage" r u?!
she meant she got friends who are of those category, but they are not enjoying their life trying new things..
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i am 56, my sex slave is 55
we love to try new things
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Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:
she meant she got friends who are of those category, but they are not enjoying their life trying new things..
It seems to me that a lot of people think that your fun life ends after you have a BF or getting married >.<" -
Get a expat BF lah...
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Elindra> True, being married and having kids doesnt mean not being able to do things you love. I guess my friends just happen to fall under that category. Hence, I am here! :)
Tare> I am at the lifestage whereby I can enjoy my life, without living on a shoe string. I am sure there are guys or ladies out there we are similar as me, and looking for people who are similiar as well. Most of my friends are foreigners, so I thought it will be good to know other Singaporeans who are also at the similiar situation as me, or more friends regardless where you are from. I have quite a lot of hobbies, so am sure it will be more fun to try it with someone than doing it alone right? Unless everyone here only post on the forum and do not step 2m away from their PC, beside toilet breaks, then I might be in the wrong forum...
Chunseah> Getting an expat bf do not solve the problem. Relationships comes and goes. Friends tend to hang around longer. In any case, I actually prefer to date a (smart) chinese guy.
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i'm the guy next door.
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Congrats....
You just posted an invite for spammers! Enjoy your stay and do stay away from the 没用的东西�一�倒�person.
He is the can see cannot use kinda person in the forums.... Reputation is totally down the drain kind!
:D
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we all post in forums and do not step 2m from our PCs
look at all the OTs they are doing
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Originally posted by shrekho:
Congrats....
You just posted an invite for spammers! Enjoy your stay and do stay away from the 没用的东西�一�倒�person.
He is the can see cannot use kinda person in the forums.... Reputation is totally down the drain kind!
:D
Somebody have a bad day...
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Originally posted by Girl_Next_Door:
Elindra> True, being married and having kids doesnt mean not being able to do things you love. I guess my friends just happen to fall under that category. Hence, I am here! :)
Tare> I am at the lifestage whereby I can enjoy my life, without living on a shoe string. I am sure there are guys or ladies out there we are similar as me, and looking for people who are similiar as well. Most of my friends are foreigners, so I thought it will be good to know other Singaporeans who are also at the similiar situation as me, or more friends regardless where you are from. I have quite a lot of hobbies, so am sure it will be more fun to try it with someone than doing it alone right? Unless everyone here only post on the forum and do not step 2m away from their PC, beside toilet breaks, then I might be in the wrong forum...
Chunseah> Getting an expat bf do not solve the problem. Relationships comes and goes. Friends tend to hang around longer. In any case, I actually prefer to date a (smart) chinese guy.
well.. just explore the forums.. if you want to make friends with people, join in the outing sessions..
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Originally posted by shrekho:
Congrats....
You just posted an invite for spammers! Enjoy your stay and do stay away from the 没用的东西�一�倒�person.
He is the can see cannot use kinda person in the forums.... Reputation is totally down the drain kind!
:D
siang?????
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
siang?????
he toking abt himself la..
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I smell a quarter life crisis ........
time to pick up a new hobby ....
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Kopio
Maybe for you when you work on your photos
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
i am 56, my sex slave is 55
we love to try new things
wah.. i didn't know ah lau is 55
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Originally posted by the Bear:
wah.. i didn't know ah lau is 55
I thought he's just the surrogate father ...
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Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:
he toking abt himself la..
tamade, why he use 3rd person perspective
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
tamade, why he use 3rd person perspective
how i know??