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• Space1999

  23 Nov 06, 13:57

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  wow righteous statements.
  
  morals? are you trying to say your morals are the right way to go? that you are the authority?
  
  so whatever animals do is considered right? or jsut becuase animals do it we should? are then just common animals?
  
  no yes or no? so you are now ambivalent about the responsibility? "you fuck you pay" means you are regarding it as a monetary transaction? now lets try to recall your comments regarding geylang. make up your mind man.

  i dont think that the responsibility of raising your own kid is an issue that you have to argue about, if you have to argue about that. guess you are in a league of your own.
  
  good luck dude,
• hisoka

  23 Nov 06, 14:01

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  i dont think that the responsibility of raising your own kid is an issue that you have to argue about, if you have to argue about that. guess you are in a league of your own.
  
  good luck dude,

  thanks glad to know have pple who appreciate my uniqueness
• Space1999

  23 Nov 06, 14:03

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  thanks glad to know have pple who appreciate my uniqueness

  oh sorry , its not appreciation,
  its kinda like looks of disgust.
  
  and when i say good luck, i think you going to need it.
  
  karma!
• Space1999

  23 Nov 06, 14:14

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Think im quite lucky. the men i meet are usually more patient than me Maybe cos i am actually not so patient Usually i have the mindset that if i see what i dun like, i will say "next please". No need to 'ask him to change', so i wont even communicate with the person about what i dun like at times.
  
  That said, i do try to accomodate to what they like. And of cos, thru my previous postings, you will know that i do have certain pet peeves that i am trying to manage. Still striving!!!

  sorry to inform you , your pet peeves are major pet peeves. hope you can resolve them.seriously before you reach 50
• littlefishtan!

  23 Nov 06, 15:32

  the son damn poor thing leh.... he will grow up to be different because lack of mummy attention and have hostility from her
• blu_sky

  23 Nov 06, 15:58

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  sorry to inform you , your pet peeves are major pet peeves. hope you can resolve them.seriously before you reach 50

  Please elaborate?
• fymk

  23 Nov 06, 16:04

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  as i said the right to what should be done to the women's body should be with the women, but the caring for the child is another problem. when one has a child would you agree that you need to consider the resources you have to take care of the child? is a unilateral decision to leech off another person's resources a right thing to have happen? what if the resouces are scheduled for other purposes?
  
  i understand about the stress on women's health which is why i say the other party hold partial responsibility but reduced because of the lack of consultation and free will.
  
  i don't think they did discuss that if pregant --->abort, but neither did they aagree or discuss if pregnat ---> not abort.
  

  Well , that leech of a kid ...could be one day supporting you under law.
  
  If you don't want to risk having "leeches" , remain celibate for the rest of your life . That is a 100% guarantee of no "leeches".
• Squiggly

  24 Nov 06, 17:45

  Originally posted by littlefishtan!:

  the son damn poor thing leh.... he will grow up to be different because lack of mummy attention and have hostility from her

  Hopefully love from the rest of the family will more than make up for it.... I think she loves her kid, maybe she will start to soften when her baby's first words are "mama"... that's always a tear-jerker... According to my cousins, that's one of the greatest moments in life...
  
  Maybe, one day she will be able to see beyond herself, and start to work hard on her family... salvage whatever that's left....