Best way to ask for a date

• Joe.tan81

  4 Jun 08, 20:56

  Just like to know if anyone has ideas of what are the ways which could be uses in singapore, or as for ladys, in which way would you feel appropriate and comfortable as for you to say yes? As for guys , what is you do think us guys should or shoulden't consider doing?

• QX179R

  4 Jun 08, 20:59

  Originally posted by Joe.tan81:

  Just like to know if anyone has ideas of what are the ways which could be uses in singapore, or as for ladys, in which way would you feel appropriate and comfortable as for you to say yes? As for guys , what is you do think us guys should or shoulden't consider doing?

  firstly must check your spelling & use of language then you can ask the lady if she's available for a meal..

• Daisuke-kun

  4 Jun 08, 20:59

  eh                                   

  tonight free or not?

  i treat u  dinner

• rlsh07

  4 Jun 08, 21:06

  Originally posted by Joe.tan81:

  Just like to know if anyone has ideas of what are the ways which could be uses in singapore, or as for ladys, in which way would you feel appropriate and comfortable as for you to say yes? As for guys , what is you do think us guys should or shoulden't consider doing?

  call the person to have a bit conservation then ask her, be precise abt the date n time though n meet at where?

• newcomer

  4 Jun 08, 21:08

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  call the person to have a bit conservation then ask her, be precise abt the date n time though n meet at where?

  
  so wrong.

   

  just suggest something like, "hey i'd like to have dinner or go out with you some time." wait for a response before giving date.

   

  n nv go out on weekends for the first few dates.

• rlsh07

  4 Jun 08, 21:09

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  
  so wrong.

   

  just suggest something like, "hey i'd like to have dinner or go out with you some time." wait for a response before giving date.

   

  n nv go out on weekends for the first few dates.

  
  oh well... different approachs for different people though

• purpledragon84

  4 Jun 08, 21:18

  Originally posted by QX179R:

  firstly must check your spelling & use of language then you can ask the lady if she's available for a meal..

  LOL!

  eh anw.. just ask? it's just a dinner, don't try to put too much meaning and hope into it.. because the lady probably doesn't read too much into it either..

  take it as a chance to know her better, and not as a do-or-die situation yah..

  EDITED: pls at least do some reservations at the restaurant.. which means u gonna ask her in advance and not last minute.. make the dinner smooth going.. cheers!

• 16/f/lonely

  4 Jun 08, 21:24

  So simple.

  Ask in exact words: Is it the 4th today?

• fairlady_xoxo

  4 Jun 08, 21:26

  Just say...i think its been a while since i last saw you...wanna catch a movie?

• purpledragon84

  4 Jun 08, 21:28

  Originally posted by 16/f/lonely:

  So simple.

  Ask in exact words: Is it the 4th today?

  HAHAHAHA.! i was SO tempted to type that too! i wanted to type "what's the date today?"

• 16/f/lonely

  4 Jun 08, 21:41

  Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

  Just say...i think its been a while since i last saw you...wanna catch a movie?not like to.

  
  No thank you.

• playboy_1985

  4 Jun 08, 22:14

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  
  so wrong.

   

  just suggest something like, "hey i'd like to have dinner or go out with you some time." wait for a response before giving date.

   

  n nv go out on weekends for the first few dates.

  why cannot go out on first few date on weekends ?

• Cowbaycowboo

  4 Jun 08, 22:23

  walau...macham in 70s movies liddat.....jus go straight and ask lar..."Free to see show at yangtze?" or wat

• newcomer

  4 Jun 08, 22:33

  Originally posted by playboy_1985:

  why cannot go out on first few date on weekends ?

  
  bcuz dates on wkends (unless u guys r already comfortable wif ewach other) r more like... official dates.

  wkdays better bcuz it's more casual and afterwork thing. the mood will be more relaxed n u won't worry much abt looking stupid n wat not.

• Joe.tan81

  4 Jun 08, 22:58

  what-if?.... the person are in sales line work, and weekend would be out of the question.
• ChiBet

  4 Jun 08, 23:30

  There is a party in my pants and you are invited

• ChoCoChips

  5 Jun 08, 03:44

  got raisin? no?

  how bout a date?

• xavier1979

  5 Jun 08, 06:55

  Find a reason to celebrate. Then ask her out.

• newcomer

  5 Jun 08, 07:59

  Originally posted by Joe.tan81:

  what-if?.... the person are in sales line work, and weekend would be out of the question.

  
  if the person likes you he/she will make time for u no matter what. if not, y dun u just move one

• JerryYan

  5 Jun 08, 08:12

  remind us of our first date having dinner at garden hotel

  so romantic & sweet  

• playboy_1985

  5 Jun 08, 08:42

  thanks for the advice

• Devil1976

  5 Jun 08, 08:52

  You people need some good advices from an experienced guy like me man...

   

  "Jiak ba buay?"

• Daisuke-kun

  5 Jun 08, 08:54

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  You people need some good advices from an experienced guy like me man...

   

  "Jiak ba buay?"

  u pick up ah lians & old aunties lar u

• Lorry`

  5 Jun 08, 09:47

  Depends.... How often do you all meet up?

  If didn't see each other for some time, use fairlady's

  If see pretty often, then just ask casually.

  Eg. Watching Movie
  "Hey, this movie looks good, what do you think?" (i think so too)
  "Let's watch together some day shall we?" (alrite)
  "How bout this Friday night? Is that okay for you?" (that'd be perfect)

  else
  (i dont think so....)
  "Oh, which appeals better to you then? / Any movies that caught your eyes recently?"
  (this one looks better)
  "Looks good, you sure have fine taste in movies. Shall we catch this this week?"
  (yes/no)
  

  If kept rejecting all the way, then too bad la. She doesnt want to watch with you.

• Lorry`

  5 Jun 08, 09:49

  diff girls work differently.... and you also nv specify what you all gonna do