Marrige Problems in Singapore!!
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Why there is high rate of divorce in Singapore? Don't you know the family court is buzzily with live every day? What is the cause of the high rate of divorce?
(1) Women charter. nowsdays women are working, why need women charter. whether it is assets, childs, etc it is biased for women... a fail marriage is still a profitable investment for ladies. so no wonder many women taking advantage of this, marry only mah.. even fail, i will still win $$... man must take care of women.. buy this and buy that for her.. after that women can flirt around.. but if man flirt around, u lose big, ... but usually nowsdays man are more dumb than ever.... wake up guys....lololol.. at the end of day, women win childs and assets , etc ...
(2) Lack of community efforts to mend marriage. This is because the efforts are not pro-active... they wait for both parties to want to try to mend marriage...
(3) Lack of understanding what the marriage commitment and vow is ? They have no sense what is responsibility to the children for a broken family.
Easy solution is this
a) All joint-assets confiscated by government, if you can't settle amicably, regardless whether hdb, condo or private home..
b) Both parties will not be entitled to kids. The kids will be taken by child centre, until they obtain a Dip in polytechnic at least. Both will pay maintenance to the child centre. It is child right to follow whichever parent after he/she grows up or not to follow.
c) no need for grounds of divorce... just need the severity for breaching the marriage vow. if it is adultery, then charge as a crime separtely. if it is violent behaviour, then charge as a crime separtly.
RESPECT MARRIAGE VOW, DON'T LET FARKERS ABUSE THE LAW
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You have interesting points there! Have u consider a career in politics?
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Your counter points are completely retarded.
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so much for being smarter compared to Msia, India and Myanmar eh? 'F' also got problem. [img]http://static.kaskus.us/images/smilies/ngakak.gif[/img]
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its heart warming to know many have come to see the truth..... finally
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best is dun marry lah, so troublesome.
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Utter utopia.
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Singapore women should undergo 2 year domestic course while the guys for NS.
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The cause for divorce is marriage.
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. I cant help but to Lol-ed at this.
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Originally posted by gunner77:
The cause for divorce is marriage.
so dun marry. save all worries.
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Guys should really wake up their ideas and make a stance on marriage itself....why get married when the woman charter is totally against us...just stay together....if things dun work out...just part way...if she truly loves u, why would she need that piece of paper other then for $$$....><"
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Knn u marry ur wife or u marry woman chapter? If u dulan this dulan that, might as well forget abt marry. If u are in love the woman and you respect her, this kind of thing is not really in consideration. U are the one who should wake up ur idea, dont throw our man face!! Pui!!
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(a) benefits the government, (b) is bad for the kids
(c) however sounds pretty logical and implementable
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If govt confiscate your assets they will use the money to increase their own salaries nia
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your suggestions suck.
nobody in their right mind would take up what you suggested.
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as for point b, if that happens, i disappear from sgforums
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I think the country needs a stronger pool of counsellors & counselling organisations to mediate between couples in troubled marriages. Usually , issues get overtly out of hand by the time a marriage reaches the divorce stages.
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The divorce rate is even higher in Angmo countries! Singapore still ok. I think divorce usually happen becos of $ issues....next are infidelity issues.
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before marriage... consider consider consider....
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My points
A)If the father is taking care of all the children, the mother cannot take any propety from him. Because the father need money to raise the children, give them the best, and because of the women charter, the child may not get a chance to go university due to the monthly alimony given to the mother.
B) Which parent the child wants to go, let the child go. Don't interfere.
C) If the wife commit adultery, her assets half gone. If the husband commit adultery, his assets half-gone.
D)Also, the party which request for divorce for no good reason, cannot take anything from the other. Children? See where they go lor
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Now this is fair :D
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oh yeah, as for my point a, the mother must give monthly alimony to children.
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This is the reason SGForums is steadily losing more and more visitors.
Anyone can recommend a good forum ?
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ai .. yee.. this is good response.... let me compile the polls..
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Littlemissbonkers, Rock^Star, Seotblizzard, speedstear, Sweiz, dechange, dragg, veggie bao - 8 against harsh rules on divorce.
Jiani - 1 for more equitable rule on divorce, instead court rule reference on women charter.
DemonBane, Fcukpap, Friendlychap - 3 seems to support harsh rules on divorce.
AquaticCrystal - clarified what needs to be done for (2)
NocturnalOne, gunner77 - 2 takes negative stance for marriage
chefmae.org - 1 suggest "making serious considerations before marriage" as the key
maxsee - 1 suggests a good solution to the problem, however if there is child, you need to register the child, so it is out-of-society framework. furthermore not that feasible unless the other party agrees to such agreement.
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harsh rules = 3/(8+3+1) x 100 = 25%
equitable rules w/o women charter as basis = 1/(8+3+1) x 100 = 8.33% (meaning in need to revise the law ruling)
happy with current rules with women charter as basis = 100 - 25 - 8.33 = 66.67%