Would you marry a social escort?

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 19:36

  Ok ok....say you met a social escort, pretty and well educated and both of you click ...so the question is can well paid escorts be wives?

  I mean they are human beings after all capable of loving and being loved..just wanna know any bros out fallen for any escorts share experience?

• SJS6638

  3 Feb 13, 19:47

  why?   You have a liking for a social escort?

• Dalforce 1941

  3 Feb 13, 19:50

  na big or small?

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 19:51

  Actually thinking of renting them for chinese new year , no grlfrd and dun want to be pestered by kaypoh relatives but on second thought I think no

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 19:53

  Later end up like Uncle toh being disturbed by young girls sad life for sgmen

• ditzy

  3 Feb 13, 20:40

  if you bring them to relatives house, they won't ask you about gf anymore, instead they ask you when getting married, when getting house, when having children. More questions than if you went single.

  I won't be around for the holidays, don't have to answer sh+t.

• Mr Milo

  3 Feb 13, 20:49

  if it's me, that's a huge leap of faith if i wan do so, i rather go to a society that supports such a union or doesn't discriminate it--the pressure is enormous if you do so otherwise
• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 20:58

   

  

   

  They prefer overseas jobs for anonymity and $25,000 pay cheques, but social escorts also risk physical abuse and sexual diseases.

  A Hong Kong-based woman, Ms Di Di, 36, recently found that out when she agreed to be an overseas social escort to a Singaporean here who allegedly promised to pay her 200,000 yuan ($38,000) for three days of her service in Singapore.

  But the man disappeared after they had sex without paying her, she claimed. Worse, the two got into a scuffle and Ms Di Di hurt herself.

  Social escorts The New Paper on Sunday spoke to related stories of those in the industry who had been badly abused by clients. But most say the money is too good - one recounted how she took home a $3,888 red packet on top of the negotiated $12,000 for a five-day trip to Germany with a Singaporean businessman.

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:03

  Escort agencies are companies that provide escorts for the agency's clients. The agency typically arranges a meeting between one of its escorts and the client at the customer's house or hotel room (outcall), or at the escort's residence (incall). Some agencies also provide escorts for longer durations, who may stay with the client or travel along on a holiday or business trip.^[1]

  While the escort agency is paid a fee for this booking and dispatch service, the customer must negotiate any additional fees or arrangements directly with the escort for any other services that are not provided by the agency involved, such as providing sexual services (regardless of the legality of these services).

  A call girl or female escort is a sex worker who (unlike a street walker) is not visible to the general public; nor does she usually work in an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an escort agency.^[1] The client must make an appointment, usually by calling a telephone number. Call girls often advertise their services in small ads in magazines and via the Internet, although an intermediary advertiser, such as an escort agency, may be involved in promoting escorts, while, less often, some may be handled by a pimp.^[2] Call girls may work either incall, where the client comes to them, or outcall, where they go to the client.

   

  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Escort_agency

• FireIce

  3 Feb 13, 21:08

  the ECA is extra charge 

  or else is relli just company only

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:19

  Think if you really married an escort who really loves you and decides to leave her past behind why not..

  People married courteseans in the past, why not escorts?

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:20

  they are doing this job because they mainly need to lead a high-class life, dine at posh fine dining places, buying branded goods, bags, shoes...etc.

  are you sure/ confident you can provide for her with a rich tai-tai life, and not that of a HDB tai-tai?

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:24

  Women tends to be swamped by materialism even the plain janes, but their maternal instinct towards men and children would take over,,if not their whole lives would seem barren and souless..just my thought...even supermodels need to hang up their Vic secrets underwear one day

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:26

  Maybe I'm idealistic but hoping even sex workers would find happiness one day..not in material terms but genuine love and concern ..

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:29

  A manager of a social escort agency interviewed revealed that these high-class call-girls 'had initially entered the trade because they needed to pay their bills or fees'.

  Ms Glenda claimed: 'Many of them later realise how lucrative or easy it is to make a fast buck and they become reluctant to leave the trade.

  The usual going rate for entry-level/ average girl is around $200 to $250 for an hour's work, while overnight rates usually hover around $1,000. Higher-grades girls are more expensive and exclusive to hire.

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:36

  I got the pic...but how long can a woman do this?After 30, it all the way down replaced by younger and hotter girls

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:36

  

   

  She’s a student in a local university – and she’s a call girl.

  The 23-year-old final-year student, who wants to be known only by her booking moniker, Alice, charges “anything from $800 to $1,200 an hour” for each booking she takes in.

   

  But it has now turned into an easy source of income for her, helping to pay for her car.

  She says she also enjoys the power and control she has over her clients.

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:38

  S'pore social escort earned $37,000 from 18-day trip

  The New Paper
  Tue, May 31, 2011

  SHE returned from an 18-day all expenses paid "working" trip to the US just two weeks ago.

  Yesterday, she set off for another "working trip" - a one-week trip to Saudi Arabia.

  When she is not jet-setting, the 26-year-old Chinese Singaporean works part-time as a therapist in a hotel spa.

  Or, models for editorial photos in women's and lifestyle magazines.

  But Uma - as she is popularly known - prefers her "other" job as a social escort.

  As she puts it: "I get to travel and make money at the same time."

  Even though the tall and attractive woman can easily apply to be a flight stewardess or turn full-time model,Uma prefers the short cut to riches.

  Take for example, the trip to the US. She was paid $26,000 (after the agency cut) in cash and nearly $11,000 for shopping expenses.

  For the Saudi Arabia trip, Uma will earn $15,000 after the agency's 35 per cent cut.

  But the job is not so rosy and comes with risks, admitted Uma, who spoke to The New Paper on Sunday on condition that we use only her escort name.

  Precisely what a Hong Kong-based woman, Ms Di Di, 36, found out recently when she agreed to be an overseas social escort to a Singaporean here who allegedly promised to pay her 200,000 yuan (S$38,000) for three days of her service in Singapore.

  But the man disappeared after they had sex without paying her, she claimed.

  Worse, the two got into a scuffle and Ms Di Di hurt herself.

  While Uma counts herself lucky for not having had such an encounter, she has heard of others who did.

  "It all depends on how 'insured' you are," she added, in fluent English.

  By that, she means the social escort agencies they work with.

  Said Uma: "As escorts, we won't usually know who our clients are until we turn up at the designated point of meeting.

  "Our managers are the ones who screen the clients, take on the assignments and send us to them."

  While some escorts accept private assignments, Uma prefers to let an agency handle her bookings.

  This, even though the agency can take a cut of up to 40 per cent of the fee.

  She said: "I prefer not to take the risk, and because I work at the spa, it's inconvenient sometimes to answer calls."

  She gets an average four local assignments a week - typically, they require her service for a few hours a day.

  At least one of the clients is a regular.

  Uma said "role-playing" is vital.

  Clients hire escorts for companionship, or "you can act as an interpreter or even role-play as a personal assistant", she explained.

  For overseas assignments, once the agency has cleared the client and they are linked up, Uma said: "We're on our own".

  She claimed that she had a "sister" (industry slang for those working together) who was so badly abused by a client that she was hospitalised for nearly a week.

  It was a case of rough sex gone wrong.

  In the end, the matter was privately settled after the agency intervened on the victim's behalf to seek compensation.

  Uma also knows of some who have contracted sexually transmitted diseases, which is why some escorts, such as Pond, 23, claimed they don't offer sex.

  She could easily pass off as a college student with her petite and child-like demeanour.

  "I'm in this because of the quick bucks, but it's not worth it if I catch any sexually-transmitted disease," said Pond, who was lured into the trade three years ago.

  For the love of branded bags

  Pond, who has a private secretary's diploma, said she earns $1,800 a month in her day job as a telemarketer - not enough to feed her love for travelling and branded bags.

  She claimed that even without the "extra services", she can easily make $5,000 a month.

  The earnings double during "peak seasons" such as when there's an event held here or during festive occasions.

  For those who offer sex, overseas assignments or clients are preferred for the sake of anonymity. Ling, 30, is anexample.

  She told The New Paper on Sunday: "Sex is an 'under-the-table arrangement - out of the agency's purview."

  But times are not as good for her now, said Ling, who has been working as a freelance escort for about six years.

  Ling said: "I used to get about one overseas job every two months, but I've only had one assignmentthis year."

  That was a five-day trip to Germany with a Singaporean- Chinese businessman.

  She was picked as she speaks German and English.

  Her client ended up sealing the million-dollar contract.

  Said Ling: "He was so happy that he gave me a thank-you red packet of $3,888."

  This was on top of the $12,000 she had picked up for the trip.

  Escorts who accompany clients overseas don't usually share rooms, though some may, if extra service is in the contract.

  Both Uma and Ling said that some clients may even require them to arrive separately for discretion.

  Uma added: "Sometimes, depending on the number of days engaged, we may either arrive later or depart earlier."

  What the escorts look forward to are the pockets of free time.

  Ling said: "That's when we really enjoy ourselves, doing whatever we want."

  Uma, who has a diploma in business administration, intends to run an online business - possibly in fashion -when she retires, say in two years.

  She said: "It's a very practical (industry), where one has an expiry date."

  So Uma, who is the sole breadwinner in her family, makes it a point to save at least half of the fees she makes from every job.

  Overseas assignments aside, her average monthly earnings from the other bookings can go up to $12,000 in a good month.

  A far cry from the $1,500 she earns a month as a therapist.

  Her mother, a housewife, does not now what Uma does. She has not seen her father since he walked out on the family when she was nine.

  Flexibility of working hours was also one reason that first attracted Uma,whose younger brother, 21, is mentally- subnormal.

  Said Uma: "Mama has her hands full in taking care of my brother. Sometimes, it can be very trying for her especially when he flies into a tantrum and starts attacking even strangers."

  When that happens, she has to put aside everything she is doing and dash home to her mother.

  But, said Uma: "My family background is no excuse for what I do."

  When Uma has to travel, she tells her mother that it's for work.

  She said: "For me, it's just a job. I don't dwell on whether it's morally right or wrong.

  "For that matter, I don't have sex with all my clients, so there are times when the service I provide is clean."

  Generous - and appreciative - clients add to the "perks" of the job for Uma, who has travelled to Paris, London, Vancouver, Toronto, Belgium, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, New York, Beijing, Shanghai and Hong Kong.

  Her recent trip to New York was to accompany her client to a convention.

  She was given two days off, when she went on the shopping spree that was paid for by the client. But not every client is this generous,Uma said.

  "It's only because he (the particular client) is a regular (for more than three years) and we've sort of developed some affection for each other to a certain extent," she added.

  Uma declined to give more details about the client, except that she knows he is "married with three young kids".

  But she dismissed the possibility of having a long-term affair with him.

  Uma said: "It's one thing to have an affection and another to be committed. This is the real world - it's highly impossible that the client will fall in love with his escort."

  Uma was initially reluctant to say if they had sex, but later admitted they had protected sex only on one night.

  Given the nature of her job, Uma said she also accepted that she would likely not settle down.

  All three past relationships failed each time after she came clean about her job.

  Said Uma: "None of them could accept what I do. And I accept that. But I would rather they heard from me than to find out from someone else.

  "So yes, this job comes with a price to pay."

  This article was first published in The New Paper.

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:38

  somehow the idea of paying sex even to a hot girl doesn't appeal to me, it's just not emotionally fulfilling maybe I'm getting old..sigh..Lovemaking should be a spiritual journey asides from physical stimulation

• SJS6638

  3 Feb 13, 21:38

  sigh!  the society places pressure on the unmarried .......................................

  ironically, this benefits the social escort.

  Twilight, if you and the social escort have yuan fen , it is ok to marry her.

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:40

  Life is sad even for pretty women. say they not born rich..either they do this or marry rich...most would not choose a simple life with a HDB dweller it just the harsh realities of a market based society

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:42

  
  maybe he is bewitched by her "kum cheng" (感情).

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:44

  frankly speaking if you're rich, can you bring her to meet the parents?and if you're not then can you maintain her lifestyle?

• Twilight SG

  3 Feb 13, 21:45

  Can't imagine if any wealthy families here in sg would approve their sons of this union unless he cut off?

• Rednano

  3 Feb 13, 21:49

   

  can you service her high-maintenance lifestyle?

  a local slang word is "GCP" or "Golden Cheesepie".

  it means that to be loved by her to get into her panties, you will need to shower her with entry-level expensive gifts such as LV, GUCCI, Hermes...etc first.