Chio bu has her problems too!
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Problem with the world has always been like this. Whenever someone think differently, act differently, look differently, has more money or less money that the majority of the people, then others will either fear them, laugh at them, redicule them, be hostile to them. Such is human nature, and there is little you can do to change that.
Just ask her to be true to herself and others and people will know. If she is sincere, people will feel it. -
Devils...Originally posted by moongster:Problem with the world has always been like this. Whenever someone think differently, act differently, look differently, has more money or less money that the majority of the people, then others will either fear them, laugh at them, redicule them, be hostile to them. Such is human nature, and there is little you can do to change that.
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Tat is y picking up pretty girls is easy.
Let all the guys make the mistakes. U come in to the rescue.
Attract the pretty girl , n have her go after u.
The game is to know the weakness of the pretty girls. By understanding thier mindset n thier life, u can create a way to have her to fall in love with u.
Alot of guys make the mistakes of chasing after girls. The problem is when u chase , all type of girls will run. Even ugly girls also suddenly feel the pressure.
Get the girls to come to u, n then let them go after u. -
1 more thing....
for the girls, n for guys,
usually the type of guys who r expert in getting girls, create in a way to have the girls or pretty girls just for the sake of the "kick" of winning over the girls heart.
After they got the girls , they move on for new girls for new "kicks". But, remember , the expert picker-upper don't "go after" the girls, they have the girls " go after them". That is the 1st rule of picking up girls.
Usually the experts don't "go after girls", they hav the pretty girls go after him. They know the weakness of pretty girls or any girls... such as loneliness, need to feel pretty(for not pretty ones) , (pretty girls need some 1 to truly appreciate who she is, need ppl to make her feel she is a brainy girl) etc.
Most girls hate despo guys. Despo guys r those who use "bull rush attack" method, chasing , pestering etc.
But , girls remember, usually these type of guys r more secure, because they don't have other girls to go after him n he depend on just 1 girl to make him feel good.
The problem is ... most girls won't treasure a "free gift". The minute the guy go after the girl, the girl feel he got no value.
So for KuKu guys who want to get pretty girls... 1st rule is do not go after them. Ask yourself " What does she lack of now? How's her life like being a pretty girl?" In what way will i attract her unconsciously which make her wanted me in her life?"
Alot of idiots will ask, "wah... like dis u have many pretty girl friends lor?"
N brothers (including most of my kuku friends n colleagues), once u get enlightened , u will realise u r not desperate of having no girls anymore. You will realise, u can get any type of girls for love, for making love etc.
Some kukus who got pretty girls, or being made use by pretty girls... without realising it... N' some r so afraid of loosing away her pretty gf, which make gf use him to test him to see whether he is a man to be able to walk away...
so end up the guys become more cringy... n make even more girls shunt loser guys out.... which make the guys even more despo just for any girls...
it's a vicious cycle.
"then what happen, when i found out.. i can get any type of girls for love, for making love?? n i no need them anymore? How?"
This is the time, when even more girls r crazy over u. N u simply sit down alone (yet feeling good) on a table so cool so relax (not acting cool , feeling out of place like most ah bengs or act class guys do).
U simply go to the dance floor, dance alone when even no 1 there. Dis time... u don't even look at the girls, The girls r looking at u... getting wet n high... wish to rub her body against u... but, u just smile to everyone , including the girls... n say hi n walk away .... in a " i don't need girls to make my life to make me happy" attitude.
So girls, u choose, do u want a despo guy who will never stray?? or a lovely guy who don't need u? u choose. -
While I must agree with your advice, I think it would be better if you had posted at Dating tips for Men (and Women) Instead.
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U noe there's this Tua Neh Bu in my lecture hall... I dunno whats so interesting about her...but so many boys are going gaga after her... She not even chio...a little pump...but her Boobs are really damn big...she looks digusting to me...but I dunno why there's always a flock of boys after her...
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Milk.Originally posted by Ayukat:U noe there's this Tua Neh Bu in my lecture hall... I dunno whats so interesting about her...but so many boys are going gaga after her... She not even chio...a little pump...but her Boobs are really damn big...she looks digusting to me...but I dunno why there's always a flock of boys after her... -
Yea, they need milk for their bones. They want an unlimited supply of it.Originally posted by Ayukat:U noe there's this Tua Neh Bu in my lecture hall... I dunno whats so interesting about her...but so many boys are going gaga after her... She not even chio...a little pump...but her Boobs are really damn big...she looks digusting to me...but I dunno why there's always a flock of boys after her...
Other than that, don't know why also. Maybe their dark fantasies revolve around big boobs? -
Originally posted by Magnus:Milk.
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cmon guys, this is like so simple, hang out with the FAGGOTS!!!
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Okay, since I have only one month here, I think I can help. What you do is introduce to me and I'll do the complete opposite of what the guys are doing. I'll reject her right of the bat and treat her badly. LOL She can send me home and go home by herself. Do her a favour she needs something fresh new stuff.Originally posted by Ah-Ken:Is anyone out there feeling bothered cos you think you're not good-looking enough? Bothered cos no one will fancy you? I guess it must have been one hell of a life. But being pretty has their problems too. I had a friend who's like that.
Being chio, she naturally attracted all the guy's attention. All the guys who fancy her treats her super well. That may sound great on the surface, getting all sorts of presents and expensive treats all the time. Most of her guy friends end up falling for her and she couldn't possibly accept all of them. So she often has to be harsh on them and reject them. If she rejects them nicely, the guys will still be persistant. If she rejetcs them harshly, she will lose a friend. Telling them that she's attached (she was) isn't very effective. Some guys are just damn persistant. And because of that, she does not have many guy friends. She still has got girl friends right? Not really. Because of the attention she gets from the guys, some girls get a bit jealous or misunderstood her. They think she is making use of all the guys to do things for her. She became an outcast from the girl's group as well. Her social life is heavily affected. This dear friend of mine is a bubbly and cheerful girl. One thing she cannot stand is to be all alone. And it seem that she is heading towards that direction. She's a kind-hearted person by nature. But she's now being looked upon as heartless, arragont, teacher's pet, using guys, all sorts of bad things.
What could she have done? I am totally clueless on what advice to give her, I mean TOTALLY! Then only thing I can say to her is "poor thing". Anyone got simillar experience? Can tell me how you often handle these things?
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+1Originally posted by sylvester134:1 more thing....
for the girls, n for guys,
usually the type of guys who r expert in getting girls, create in a way to have the girls or pretty girls just for the sake of the "kick" of winning over the girls heart.
After they got the girls , they move on for new girls for new "kicks". But, remember , the expert picker-upper don't "go after" the girls, they have the girls " go after them". That is the 1st rule of picking up girls.
Usually the experts don't "go after girls", they hav the pretty girls go after him. They know the weakness of pretty girls or any girls... such as loneliness, need to feel pretty(for not pretty ones) , (pretty girls need some 1 to truly appreciate who she is, need ppl to make her feel she is a brainy girl) etc.
Most girls hate despo guys. Despo guys r those who use "bull rush attack" method, chasing , pestering etc.
But , girls remember, usually these type of guys r more secure, because they don't have other girls to go after him n he depend on just 1 girl to make him feel good.
The problem is ... most girls won't treasure a "free gift". The minute the guy go after the girl, the girl feel he got no value.
So for KuKu guys who want to get pretty girls... 1st rule is do not go after them. Ask yourself " What does she lack of now? How's her life like being a pretty girl?" In what way will i attract her unconsciously which make her wanted me in her life?"
Alot of idiots will ask, "wah... like dis u have many pretty girl friends lor?"
N brothers (including most of my kuku friends n colleagues), once u get enlightened , u will realise u r not desperate of having no girls anymore. You will realise, u can get any type of girls for love, for making love etc.
Some kukus who got pretty girls, or being made use by pretty girls... without realising it... N' some r so afraid of loosing away her pretty gf, which make gf use him to test him to see whether he is a man to be able to walk away...
so end up the guys become more cringy... n make even more girls shunt loser guys out.... which make the guys even more despo just for any girls...
it's a vicious cycle.
"then what happen, when i found out.. i can get any type of girls for love, for making love?? n i no need them anymore? How?"
This is the time, when even more girls r crazy over u. N u simply sit down alone (yet feeling good) on a table so cool so relax (not acting cool , feeling out of place like most ah bengs or act class guys do).
U simply go to the dance floor, dance alone when even no 1 there. Dis time... u don't even look at the girls, The girls r looking at u... getting wet n high... wish to rub her body against u... but, u just smile to everyone , including the girls... n say hi n walk away .... in a " i don't need girls to make my life to make me happy" attitude.
So girls, u choose, do u want a despo guy who will never stray?? or a lovely guy who don't need u? u choose. -
well said, i am with you on this.Originally posted by gerrykoh:With the girls: The way to handle is to be non-threathening, not to seek out guy's attention by her dressing & behaviour. Girls don't like it when u behave flirty when there are guys around. Sometimes hang out & talk girls' stuff like manicure, make-up etc.
With the guys: Treat them as normal frens, don't show favour to anyone in particular cos the guys can also get jealous. Tell the pesistent ones she is not ready for r/s. Act serious, talk to them abt sch. work, projects.
Don't encourage SMS/ chatting cos give guys wrong idea.
If she gets gifts from the guys, she shd share with everyone. If the guys invite her to go out, she shd incl. the girls & make it into class outing.
This way, she learn to balance- giving both sexes her attention.
but sometimes it is not so easy to put these into action.
in singapore, and i am sure in our neighbouring countries orso (i see them people working here behaving the same) the meaning of love has been changed and it seems like everyone one is rushing into getting a steady (even after marriage too!), sometimes i wonder if it is reallly lov or peer pressure that u die die have to get one. i prefer the westener's way of practising lov...truely what Valentine's mean.