Nowadays y guys r like tat? no offence...

He77AnGeL

3 Nov 04, 13:08

i m kinda "chim sim" wif guys le dunno y cos frm wat i see frm my fren's bf n some of the guys outside or even fren's fren make mi no faith in them..

those guys fling ard eventho got gf, or even bed gers outside or go look for pro.some even got 2-3 gfs at 1 time..haiz...wat on earth is goin on?it really makes mi no confidence of my relationship..

y cant guys jus stay faithful to their gf?y muz they fling ard?izit v diff to stay to 1 gf after many yrs tgr?

i m sorry guys if i have offended u but tats my pt of view...

Fuqua

3 Nov 04, 13:25

Feelings change. Love happens.
BUT I just wish, guys or girls have more guts to stand up and end the relationship properly before moving on to their next relationship.

MeoW_MeoW

3 Nov 04, 13:27

not all guys like that... i know many guys who are very faithful to their gf and wife... are you mixing with the wrong types? Rolling Eyes

icyprincess

3 Nov 04, 13:28

not just guys. sum gals are like that oso.
i can say that even when all the guys I have met so far are jerks. Amazing.
It actually depends on the person's personality lor...if he/she is the play-play type, then they will find it harder to be faithful. Or mebbe cos they haven't met the right person yet. But I have always believed that what goes around, will come around.

i.c.y

Devil1976

3 Nov 04, 13:30

leilan84

3 Nov 04, 15:29

guys are not the only ones...
sometime, gals do that...

i'm faithful to her... but... in the end?
she left me for another guy after nearly one year of
relationship... how long she cheated on me?
i have no idea....

but i still love her..
i don't hate her... but just hate myself from being naive and
silly. she's not worthy of my love..
but then again, there's no such thing as worthy or
not worthy when it comes to love..

darrendon

3 Nov 04, 15:52

I agree with you that some guys are never satisfied with what they already have... But it goes both ways. Some of the girls also have the thinkings that they are young and pretty. Why stay on with just 1 guy? I think this is a never ending argument.

I will think that if you met the right person whom you love and suits you, the two of you will be able to find happiness together. If you have met the wrong person, even if the guy doesn't fool around, both of you won't be happy.

Wink

Goondu74

3 Nov 04, 16:32

Dun like that leh, me with my gf for 12 years liao before she no more my gf. not every one like to change partners one hor? Embarassed

elindra

3 Nov 04, 16:33

It can be guy or gal
From my experience, both are equally bad Razz

And its usually after they get married.....wonder why.......

men_@_arms

3 Nov 04, 17:36

But i tot u girls LIKE these kind of jerks wad. No?
Dun like jerks? JErks are hip and cool and freely bounce from 1 ger to another?

And so do girls too =)
Most girls also have many boyfriends at a time. So haiz to girls too Smile

haha.

U really should admit it. The fact that guys actually do this kind of thing makes them more attractive to girls in general.. which is why jerks get laid easier and more often =) think about it!!

windjammer

3 Nov 04, 17:43

all guys got 2 heads and most of them succumb to their dickhead emotion...

Laughing

AngGuKuay

3 Nov 04, 19:06

wah~ cannot yi zhu gan da fan zhen chuan ren wat.... there are still gd guys around wat...

foxwalk

3 Nov 04, 19:18

yup i agree... they seem to just want physical stuff...

*Dante*

3 Nov 04, 20:42

[quote]Originally posted by foxwalk:

yup i agree... they seem to just want physical stuff...[/quote

A couple that just got together usually are in a stage of romantic love. Their love is filled with lust, physical contact etc. However, they do have very close emotional link between them, just like very good friends who can talk about anything under the sun.

So it's not surprising that they do need/want physical touches.

101wish

4 Nov 04, 02:27

[quote]Originally posted by icyprincess:
[b]not just guys. sum gals are like that oso.

yeah..feelings is somthg u can't explain, u may lik > 1 person, well, if ur mind is not able to control urself to be loyal to 1 partner, then u tend to fickle...

SGpork

4 Nov 04, 02:28

not all guys do that
n btw..not only guys do this ..girls too...

HENG@

4 Nov 04, 03:32

humans are all lidat. It would be lovely to become a vampire.

SunRisE

4 Nov 04, 09:55

Nan ren bu huai.. Nu ren bu ai.. Rolling Eyes

If both are satisfied with each other.. there's no other reasons that he/she would go out and look for another.. This is too general.. not many guys are like that.. it jus that those around you tend to be like this.. Like everyone says.. aiyah.. all good men either are married with kids.. or attached liao.. or died liao.. -CHOY!- Mr. Green

Is not easy to maintain a long relationship.. when this comes.. it not only being together so simple.. there's a number of things that you must consider.. jus like marriage.. but not to the extend..

Cheers.. Wink

alien_04

4 Nov 04, 10:27

I read under buddhist study, the type of man/woman u meet is caused by your karma. So u are destined to meet this same type of man/woman in your life. To change your karma, you will need to reflect upon yourself first, any bad qualities that you need to change in order to attract the right type of man/woman.

There was one fortune teller say I have a male character so I tend to attract men who listen to me and if i say 1, they do not dare to say 2. He say it's not good because even though they are nice in front of me, they tend to stray behind my back. So I must be more feminine and try to accomodate so
that I can attract man with strong character. Confused

How true issit is up to individual to believe.

Parka

4 Nov 04, 10:30

I come in there expecting a sweeping statement and I got it.

10 points for me.

Demolition

4 Nov 04, 10:59

For me is the other way round. Excluding Playboy, many of my guy colleagues and friends stay faithful, but the gf flirt around leh...

Devil1976

4 Nov 04, 12:21

Think Yunhaier said that he's a vampire... Question

blurger

4 Nov 04, 12:29

all the good women are married
all the handsome men are gays

Laughing

HENG@

4 Nov 04, 16:18

ok i want to be a vampyre then.

Devil1976

4 Nov 04, 16:48

For more information, ask Yun when he gets back....

Hmm... Why not be a Devil? Twisted Evil