True Story - Husband revenge to unfaithful wife & her lover
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I admit, this incident, actually affected my emotion.Originally posted by jOhO:it doesn't matter if u don't, i just hope to really put it thru clearly and precisely to you.
and honestly, yeah, i think u DO care.
My friend, she is collapsed. Not because what her husband did, but she regretted what she has done, and she blame herself awake too late.
I feel very very sad for them. Because, eventually, I mean at least now, the husband is still with the wife, and he is taking care of her. Well, my tears fall whenever I saw the husband taking care of the wife, he cook her favorite foods, and blah blah blah. -
i see...Originally posted by eveline:I admit, this incident, actually affected my emotion.
My friend, she is collapsed. Not because what her husband did, but she regretted what she has done, and she blame herself awake too late.
I feel very very sad for them. Because, eventually, I mean at least now, the husband is still with the wife, and he is taking care of her. Well, my tears fall whenever I saw the husband taking care of the wife, he cook her favorite foods, and blah blah blah.
u're alrite.
one thing: i just hope it's really your friend, and not YOU.
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As a woman, I can understand, during that period, the wife needed a friend that she can speak to, more than a s3x partner. But that guy take advantage on her, and he know that she will do whatever in order to keep this secret from the husband.Originally posted by jOhO:u're indeed disillusioned.
so the hubby did wat he did for love? wat about the consequences of his actions?
and another thing, to wait for the divorce part, wat the fUck's the difference? the marriage still ends BECOS of the third party (since u mentioned there is "love" between the adulterous couple) just that u delay the sex?
cmon, get with it... chin up, be logical, help your fren go thru this prob with a clear head. i mean she's prob all freaked out now; she sure would need a clear head of a fren to help her thru this.
The A$$hole deserved HIV, and for those who step into other marriage, do you believe retribution? -
i think whether i believe in retribution or not isn't the point here, but off the record, no i dun believe in that, i'm too logical for it.Originally posted by eveline:As a woman, I can understand, during that period, the wife needed a friend that she can speak to, more than a s3x partner. But that guy take advantage on her, and he know that she will do whatever in order to keep this secret from the husband.
The A$$hole deserved HIV, and for those who step into other marriage, do you believe retribution?
i hope u can understand, becos i sincerely do not want to waste my time and sincerity in trying to put a very plain and simple point across to you, and to many women who think like you:
that it takes two to clap. yes, i dun deny that the guy took advantage of her weak state. it has happened to me, my gf, while weak, sought solace in another guy and lead to her betrayal. this was YEARS back and it's over, but i never blamed her or the guy. i was happy that we were once in love. but i digress.
i think u should get a grip and stop cursing him either. it does not do any good to how pple look at you, when i believe deep down u are good and want to help and stand up for your friend. putting other pple down does not lift you and your loved ones up.
concentrate your energy and angst on helping your friend, rather than being vexed over what is out of your control, ie, the "asshole-ness" of the third party, taken from your own words. -
like a nice virgin Ass.Originally posted by jOhO:heng, your posts always devirginises the page... makes it so spread so wide!
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anyways, to be honest, the man is kinda Fucked. There has gotta be a better way instead of contributing to the spread of aids.
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Hmmm... let me think slowly what I want to say...Originally posted by jOhO:...that it takes two to clap. yes, i dun deny that the guy took advantage of her weak state. it has happened to me, my gf, while weak, sought solace in another guy and lead to her betrayal. this was YEARS back and it's over, but i never blamed her or the guy. i was happy that we were once in love. but i digress....
Sorry about what I wrote if it's too emotional.
I have aborted 2 babies for the one I love, I have gave big portion of my salary to the one I love to support him to complete his studies, and he left when he met the right one for him. I had face all by myself. I feel lost and lonely, I have no friend, as he is my only world.
and yes, I survive. But to compare my case with this, my case are actually = nothing.
But why I am cursing that a$$hole? Not because I hate 3rd party, as I have someone to hate more than this guy in my life. But I really hope people can be more responsible to the society. If you know that they are married, why you want to step into their marriage? If the a$$hole want screw some married women, there are this place call Geylang in Singapore. When she said game over, and she want to break up, why donÂ’t that a$$hole just leave her alone?
DonÂ’t blame the society, there is nothing wrong, the society are made up from human, and human is the one to blame, means, you (yeah yeah yeah, I mean all a$$holes who step into somebody marriage.) -
AIDS are everywhere, the question is: whether you want to get them.Originally posted by HENG@:anyways, to be honest, the man is kinda Fucked. There has gotta be a better way instead of contributing to the spread of aids. -
uh uh. Like, that ain't so man. Anyways, to choose to infect himself with aids so he can infect others... well I can tell u that maybe the law won't get him for it, but somewhere after he dies, he's gonna burn.Originally posted by eveline:AIDS are everywhere, the question is: whether you want to get them. -
What if that guy infects his faithful wife and baby in her stomach if he has a wife who is pregnant?Originally posted by eveline:AIDS are everywhere, the question is: whether you want to get them.
His wife and kid didn't ask to be infected. -
No... because he never force the a$$hole to get it, the a$$hole want to get it. I have no pity over him.Originally posted by HENG@:uh uh. Like, that ain't so man. Anyways, to choose to infect himself with aids so he can infect others... well I can tell u that maybe the law won't get him for it, but somewhere after he dies, he's gonna burn.
About the husband and wife, the husband has decided to die together with the wife at the moment his heart broke. Whether killing both with a knife or AIDS, make no difference to them.her with her -
sometimes U can be a really nice guy but when U really really want to take revenge...U cannot afford to be too considerate.Originally posted by elindra:His wife and kid didn't ask to be infected.
I guess I am a more ning4 ke3 wo3 fu4 tian1 xia4 ren2 ye3 bu4 ke3 tian1 xia4 ren3 fu4 wo3 kind of person when I am in a revengeful mood...
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i have no pity over the Asshole either. but i pity the wife, and i pity the man himself, for being up Shit's creek without a paddle. He was simply irrational. 1stly, IT'S WRONG TO KILL HIMSELF AND THE WIFE, so by knife or by aids, is not the point. U're supposed to decide to grow old and die with the one u love when u get married, so the point highlighted in red is kinda moot innit? Seems like he wasn't rational enuf to include old age as one of the options. Anyways, LOTS of people have their hearts broken, but not many do stupid things like he does. So nope. I disagree with his actions.Originally posted by eveline:No... because he never force the a$$hole to get it, the a$$hole want to get it. I have no pity over him.
About the husband and wife, the husband has decided to die together with the wife at the moment his heart broke. Whether killing both with a knife or AIDS, make no difference to them.her with her -
cherly, if u want revenge, go out with a bang! get a nice MG and start shooting the Shit outta ppl.Originally posted by Xcert:sometimes U can be a really nice guy but when U really really want to take revenge...U cannot afford to be too considerate.
I guess I am a more ning4 ke3 wo3 fu4 tian1 xia4 ren2 ye3 bu4 ke3 tian1 xia4 ren3 fu4 wo3 kind of person when I am in a revengeful mood... -
well thanx for sharing ur experiences, proves one thing, both of us have loved, so that's something to be proud of. many pple don't know wat it is, after all those years.Originally posted by eveline:Hmmm... let me think slowly what I want to say...
Sorry about what I wrote if it's too emotional.
I have aborted 2 babies for the one I love, I have gave big portion of my salary to the one I love to support him to complete his studies, and he left when he met the right one for him. I had face all by myself. I feel lost and lonely, I have no friend, as he is my only world.
and yes, I survive. But to compare my case with this, my case are actually = nothing.
But why I am cursing that a$$hole? Not because I hate 3rd party, as I have someone to hate more than this guy in my life. But I really hope people can be more responsible to the society. If you know that they are married, why you want to step into their marriage? If the a$$hole want screw some married women, there are this place call Geylang in Singapore. When she said game over, and she want to break up, why donÂ’t that a$$hole just leave her alone?
DonÂ’t blame the society, there is nothing wrong, the society are made up from human, and human is the one to blame, means, you (yeah yeah yeah, I mean all a$$holes who step into somebody marriage.)
back to the point however, if you can't help your friend, (or yourself, for that matter) how can you change the world? then of course, the question begs, do you want to change the world? are you capable? is it worth it?
yes, you're upset because your friend is hurt. it is different from being upset at the world for being so fUcked up. so which one is it that you're feeling?
i will tell u straight that if the latter is the case, you will never ever seek redress. NEVER. and my advise is STILL, yet again, to use your energy on something that matters, YOUR FRIEND. there's no use crucifying the guy when your friend is possibly infected with a life-threatening disease. and revenge? revenge is what started off all this crap.
you reckon your friend has changed, and wants to love her husband again. wouldn't it be a happy ending if that were true, WITHOUT her husband infecting himself and possibly her with HIV? but then perhaps, without these actions, she might not wake up, who knows eh?
it seems like we're flipping coins here, except you don't want it to land heads or tails, u want it on it's side. -
stastically speaking... there is a 0.000000000000001% chance it might happen.Originally posted by jOhO:it seems like we're flipping coins here, except you don't want it to land heads or tails, u want it on it's side.
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She is awake before the a$$hole (sorry, I don't have any better replacement for this) reveal anything, and before her husband went to HIV test. ThatÂ’s why she asks for break up. But everything is too late.Originally posted by jOhO:...you reckon your friend has changed, and wants to love her husband again. wouldn't it be a happy ending if that were true, WITHOUT her husband infecting himself and possibly her with HIV? but then perhaps, without these actions, she might not wake up, who knows eh?
it seems like we're flipping coins here, except you don't want it to land heads or tails, u want it on it's side.
I canÂ’t change the world, I am not able to, and I never thought of it. Because, even at this second, there are still lots of a$$holes wanted and planning on how to screw somebody wife. If they want to be infected by HIV, let them be. Who cares?
My friend doesnÂ’t need my help, and I donÂ’t think I can help much either. At this point of time, all she needs is her husband, and he is with her, he is beside her.
Sometime, I really wonder, what is in a guyÂ’s mind? -
geez..
can i just have your phone number?
after everything, it's just that men are bastards.
ok lar i agree with you lar. -
shut up and eat ur fish and chips wrapped in newspaper..Originally posted by HENG@:stastically speaking... there is a 0.000000000000001% chance it might happen. -
To me is not the A$hole or the husband fault. It is the wife fault. The wife allow all this to happen. The wife choose to fall in love with the a$hole.
Conclusion, women just need to be screw constantly by different men kakakaka......men don't get married and receive green hat....... -
Why my number? The BBQ thing again...??Originally posted by jOhO:geez..
can i just have your phone number?
after everything, it's just that men are bastards.
ok lar i agree with you lar.
Sorry to say that, I have no mood to do or to go anywhere.
Sorry....
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Yeah, as you wish, hurt more women, and be ready to get HIV.Originally posted by Demolition:To me is not the A$hole or the husband fault. It is the wife fault. The wife allow all this to happen. The wife choose to fall in love with the a$hole.
Conclusion, women just need to be screw constantly by different men kakakaka......men don't get married and receive green hat....... -
Just because you or your friend had met a bastard, certainly don't mean that all guys are bastards...?Originally posted by eveline:Hmmm... let me think slowly what I want to say...
Sorry about what I wrote if it's too emotional.
I have aborted 2 babies for the one I love, I have gave big portion of my salary to the one I love to support him to complete his studies, and he left when he met the right one for him. I had face all by myself. I feel lost and lonely, I have no friend, as he is my only world.
and yes, I survive. But to compare my case with this, my case are actually = nothing.
But why I am cursing that a$$hole? Not because I hate 3rd party, as I have someone to hate more than this guy in my life. But I really hope people can be more responsible to the society. If you know that they are married, why you want to step into their marriage? If the a$$hole want screw some married women, there are this place call Geylang in Singapore. When she said game over, and she want to break up, why donÂ’t that a$$hole just leave her alone?
DonÂ’t blame the society, there is nothing wrong, the society are made up from human, and human is the one to blame, means, you (yeah yeah yeah, I mean all a$$holes who step into somebody marriage.)
And marriages... Have you seen really BROKEN MARRIAGES before...?
About stepping into others' marriages... I AGREE with you that there're as*holes out there just waiting ONLY to screw people's wives... But I cannot agree with you that ALL guys who step into others' marriage are AS*HOLES....
Whether ya like it or not, that's MY STAND... And you're entitled to KEEP YOURS.... -
Where ya heard that from? In SingaporeOriginally posted by applesweetgirl:ha! i think the wife is very bad!
i got another true story to tell you too!
it's similar to yours..i mean the front part.
this man loves his wife very much and works hard to provide for her. but this wife met this guy and they had an affair...blahblahblah...same as your story.
when this guy knew the wife had an affair, he became very angry and felt very betrayed!!! he kept thinking about it and the more he thought about it, the angrier he felt. until he couldn't stand it anymore. he was overwhelmed with fury. he thought of ways to confront his wife and he finally thought up of an idea!
the next day, the wife woke up. and on her chest was the head of her lover. she screamed. her husband was sitting beside her laughing madly at her reaction and he said, "since you love him so much, this is his head. you can bring it wherever you go now!"
yeaps. true story.
the husband was sentenced to death of course.
but very poor thing, huh?
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Hmm... Some cases are not as simple as just 'divorce'.. What makes you think that the husband won't go after the couple even if they're 'divorced'Originally posted by eveline:The theory is very simple:
Never ever step into other marriage, no matter their marriage is successful one. Be a human, be responsible to the society. If you really love him/her, be patient to wait for them to divorce.
Because the consequences is not just you alone, even though you are the only one who did the wrong thing.
This kind of story is not new, everyday you can find tones in the newspaper, yeah, what I mean is everyday.
Today we are all well educated, but can't even think of this kind of simple thing.
Just do for "love??" without thinking about the consequences?