True Story - Husband revenge to unfaithful wife & her lover
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This I agree.... Divorce sometimes aint the end of the road....Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Some cases are not as simple as just 'divorce'.. What makes you think that the husband won't go after the couple even if they're 'divorced'
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Whether that is your stand is not important to anyone. People step into somebody marriage is definitely wrong. Do you know that they can sue you for having adultery?Just because you or your friend had met a bastard, certainly don't mean that all guys are bastards...?
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First of all, I think you are confused, and drunk. Because you came into the wrong thread to talk about: whether guys are bustards. Hi brother, this thread is just for me to tell you a true story, from where you see me say that guys = bustards?
Yes, I had seen too many of them.
And marriages... Have you seen really BROKEN MARRIAGES before...?
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About stepping into others' marriages... I AGREE with you that there're as*holes out there just waiting ONLY to screw people's wives... But I cannot agree with you that ALL guys who step into others' marriage are AS*HOLES....
Whether ya like it or not, that's MY STAND... And you're entitled to KEEP YOURS....
Lets check this:
Sec 498 Chapter 224
Whoever takes or entices away any woman who is and whom he knows, or has reason to believe, to be the wife of any other man, from that man, or from any person having the care of her on behalf of that man, with intent that she may have illicit intercourse with any person, or conceals, or detains, with that intent any such woman, shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 2 years, or with fine, or with both.
If you would like to know more:
http://www.agc.gov.sg/
Or you may challenge the law. -
So what now..? After what the husband has done and inflicted "pain" or "HIV" or watever on the wife.... What the wife needs is her husband..??!!! Not friends???!!!
hmmm so 2 HIV positive people decided to live life happily ever after????? kaoz... distorted world... 
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Perhaps, but at least you made your stand clear when you ask for divorce.Originally posted by p|nk:This I agree.... Divorce sometimes aint the end of the road.... -
Originally posted by eveline:
First of all, I think you are confused, and drunk. Because you came into the wrong thread to talk about: whether guys are bustards. Hi brother, this thread is just for me to tell you a true story, from where you see me say that guys = bustards?
Oh yeah... Sure... I'm sure I'm pretty drunk... But I really wonder what's the confusion one here...? And err... As our conversation carries on, I just wanna let you know that you're beginning to BORE me...?
Surely I know that you're seen and experienced pretty much... But from your form of emotional outbursts and mentality...? Don't take it too personal here... But giving proper advices and comments would probably be still a long way for you to go...?
Okie... So no 'all guys are bastards' in this thread... (Though I'm still trying to reckon where ya got that kinda mentality and even to advise people with that from.... ) But in your STORY... Husband, wife, that 'as*hole' you've mentioned.. Everyone has contributed their own form of 'fault(s)'... But humans make mistakes and it's not up to me to point a finger as I'm very much a 'sinner' myself...
I just don't see your point in pushing all the blames to the GUY...? In every happenings in this world, participants play a PART...
And marriages... Have you seen really BROKEN MARRIAGES before...?
Yes, I had seen too many of them.
TOO MANY INDEED... So much that it's not enough to keep your rationality in check....?
So what if you've seen 'too much'...? Some people just don't figure...?
Whether that is your stand is not important to anyone. People step into somebody marriage is definitely wrong. Do you know that they can sue you for having adultery?
Lets check this:
Sec 498 Chapter 224
Whoever takes or entices away any woman who is and whom he knows, or has reason to believe, to be the wife of any other man, from that man, or from any person having the care of her on behalf of that man, with intent that she may have illicit intercourse with any person, or conceals, or detains, with that intent any such woman, shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 2 years, or with fine, or with both.
If you would like to know more:
http://www.agc.gov.sg/
Or you can try the law.
My stand is not important...? Yeah... I can KINDA AGREE with this.. Just DON'T feel like it when someone throwing 'NONSENSE' from a NARROW point of view just sees it (and even use it to advise others) as if it's the 'truth'...?
By the way, I think that law might have been CHANGED ALREADY... Not sure if that's updated... You better go and reconfirm with them again...?
Talk about 'law'...? Manslaughter is also an offence... It's not like people ain't doing it yeah...? -
And so..?Originally posted by eveline:Perhaps, but at least you made your stand clear when you ask for divorce. -
your number because you managed to make me take time out of my busy day to banter with you, with not much success...Originally posted by eveline:Why my number? The BBQ thing again...??
Sorry to say that, I have no mood to do or to go anywhere.
Sorry....
u can ask regulars here how often i bother to post thoughtful messages in the last six months, during office hours... -
Hahahahaaaaaaa U took the words right outta my mouth hahhaaaaaOriginally posted by Devil1976: 
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Originally posted by jOhO:your number because you managed to make me take time out of my busy day to banter with you, with not much success...
u can ask regulars here how often i bother to post thoughtful messages in the last six months, during office hours...
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ahhaha... i like her courage when she's standing in front of the firing squad.
NUMBER PLEASE! -
Don't worry... SOON I'll be throwing in my 'white flag'.... Think I've wasted enough of my time on this already... Some people just won't wanna listen to others... And like I've always said... It's not like I care yeah...?Originally posted by jOhO:ahhaha... i like her courage when she's standing in front of the firing squad.
NUMBER PLEASE!
If she comes back at me again, I'll be throwing in my white flag and begging for mercy...
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Okie...
Sorry everybody....hmmm.... I think I came to the wrong place to post the wrong thing.....
Sorry for wasting your time. -
If this is a true story, it is just a tragedy....no one wrong no one right.
Retribution or not, no one deserves to be inflicted with HIV this way but yet no husband deserves to be treated that way. So well to me, its just a sad tragic ending. -
It's okie eveline...Originally posted by eveline:Okie...
Sorry everybody....hmmm.... I think I came to the wrong place to post the wrong thing.....
Sorry for wasting your time. We know that you're just at the 'peak' and experiencing too much for now... Life is like that... Sometimes it just overwhelms ya... You just feel like you've 'lost balance'... Don't be afraid... Slowly pick yourself up... Regain your 'confidence' in life again... -
aiyah dun be like this, if we didn't wanna help we wouldn't have "wasted" our time.Originally posted by eveline:Okie...
Sorry everybody....hmmm.... I think I came to the wrong place to post the wrong thing.....
Sorry for wasting your time.
do YOU think you've wasted our time? well, apparently you have a point to bring across too, right? doesn't mean it's not well-received that it is a waste of time. unless of course, you think so lar. -
I'll scream if i see one more serving of fish n chips!Originally posted by jOhO:shut up and eat ur fish and chips wrapped in newspaper.. -
Well , in america, australia and UK , I think there is precedents set for HIV infected individuals to receive manslaughter charges based on the fact that if they knowingly infected the person (who doesn't know that they are infected) with a motive (like revenge) - the said individual will be dealt with the full force of the law.Originally posted by eveline:I have no position to judge who's right and who's wrong over this tragedy. But sometimes, law just won't help.
The husband know, even he confronted the wife, that a$$hole will not be punished. If he kill his wife, or suicide, that a$$hole will be escaped and left unpunished, and he might go on and step into other marriage again. Do that a$$hole know how to love? Or he just wants to take advantage or screwing some married and lonely wives?
The husband knows, his wife still have a place for him. No matter what his wife done, he will be able to forgive her.
Whether to put the husband into jail, I think is no long important to him. I hope those who want to step into other marriages, think twice.
Nowadays people just don't care, do you think love can really take control over everything? I don't think so, at least, this incident, the wife can divorce, and that a$$hole can wait for that, but not to have affairs with the woman before they have done what need to be done.
Law wonÂ’t send that a$$hole to jail, and now, retribution to him, he canÂ’t send the husband to jail either, if he also tested HIV positive.
I donÂ’t agree with what the husband done, because the wife is my close friend. But punishment on that a$$hole has justified that, the husband do the right thing.
Well, if you want to step into somebody marriage, or you want to screw some married women, you have decided to take the risk, what for sending the husband to jail? -
Originally posted by eveline:
Well, before I start, I would like to let you know, this is not another relationship story, but this is a real story.
A guy knows a girl for several years. They have been together and love each other for years. That guy work hard to give the best to the girl, and she is the only one he love.
Finally, they married. The husband has been working hard to give the wife a better lifestyle. He donÂ’t want the wife to work, as he love her, he want her to relax at home, and perhaps do some housework, and cook some food. But if the wife is tired, he will ask her to rest, and take her out for meal. In order not for her to feel bored at home, the husband encourage her to learn something new, and he found some MMORPG for her to kill her free time. He encourages her to know more people.
Few months after they married, the husband has been suffered from stress of work, he feel very depress. He hopes and begs his wife to understand him more, but the wife has changed. She has thousands of requests, she demands more and more. Not materialistic, but she demands more loves, cares, and times. The husband still tries hard to fulfill.
At this time, the wife knows a stranger on the net through an online game. She told the stranger every problem between her and her husband. She trusted the stranger. As time pass, they propose to meet each other. She plans, when her husband is at work, she invited the stranger come to her house. She gives him her heart, and eventually her body.
The husband trusted her so much, and he never and will never know that her wife loving another man. He still is trying hard on how to fulfill his wife.
One day, the husband is at work, and suddenly he has a thought. He knocks off early, go to a jewelry shop to buy a diamond chain for his wife, and plan to have a good dinner with his wife. When he reach home earlier than usual hour, when he is at font of the door and about to use his key to open the doorÂ… he heard some sounds, yes, as you guess, his wife and a guyÂ…
He walks off, he feels extremely sad, and upset. The only thing in his life is she, the only thing to motivate him is she, whatever he does is for her, and he never unfaithful to his wife. ButÂ…
As he feel there are no more hope in his life, he decided to revenge.
For subsequent months, he has been having unprotected s3x with lots of pros, what he wanted is to get infected. What he wants is to pass all this to the wife.
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Â… there are still lots of things happen at this period of time, including the wife decided to stay, but the guy still donÂ’t want to let go, and reveal their affair to the husband. And the husband take no action and give no reaction, because he has already know all this.
Â… blah blah blah
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and now, they been tested
Husband: HIV - Positive, HepB - Positive, and other diseases (I canÂ’t actually remember those name)
Wife: HepB - Positive, HIV result unknown yet (because has to wait for a period of time for the result to be accurate)
The Stranger: No idea. But good luck to him and to the one he love.
The husband has no regret, and he told the wife, even she decided to stay, but her decision are too late. He said, “[b]when you decided to open the door for that guy, and when he decided to step in our house, both of you are decided to have this tragedy. There are no reasons, no explanations, no excuses, because you are my wife, if you really love him, and he really love you, there are something call divorce in this world.”
[/b] All the time, no Love will be smooth - even puppy love has its own difficulty, despite disproval from adults. It doesn't even matter if the couple has a long history of relationship prior before the marriage, in love, usually what matters is the present. You can have a wonderful past, but when the present is screwed, the future is tilted and deviated from its original course. This relationship will eventually slammed into some love wicked cosmic lessons at the side of the route, waiting to pound onto the relationship like hungry wolfhounds.
Its so interesting... so interesting to note how loving a man could be, trying to provide and give all his world to the woman of his love, yet this relationship lack the soul communication, which is the ultimate fall of the marriage. There is not even a mentioned attempt of having a soul talk with one another in trying to decide the fate of the relationship, instead, he resort to his own form of conclusion and option based on his depressed & confused mode of thinking.
In simple - for what?
He has a good relationship seriously, yet he has forgotten the basic of handling one? His own tragedy was, truely, forged from his own hands. Why wait until when the effect take place, did he pour his emotions to his wife? A marriage is a bond where we learn MUCH from our primary relationship - there is no reason for such drastic measures to inflict into the learning process.
Is that loving? It came from the core of hatred, which is the opposite side of Love's coin.
P.S: To employ destructive options in critical times is to weaken yourself and our relationship eventually. The more Cupid wants to challenge the relationship, stand like a rock. If confusion slips into the mind, by default - always do what's better of the future of the relationship ultimately.
Cheers -
i think we chased her away.
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You are right, but too bad, we are in Singapore.Originally posted by fymk:Well , in america, australia and UK , I think there is precedents set for HIV infected individuals to receive manslaughter charges based on the fact that if they knowingly infected the person (who doesn't know that they are infected) with a motive (like revenge) - the said individual will be dealt with the full force of the law.
1) Legal action on "Husband" can't be taken. He has no "direct" intention to spread the virus to ashole. Unless, he used a niddle to poke the ashole directly. He can, however declare that he do not know he infected by HIV at the point of time when he has intercourse with his wife. Anyway, is the ashole who asking for HIV, no one in this scenario "has intention" to spread HIV.
2) Legal action can be taken against ashole, he has intention to screw a merried woman, and he obviously does something against the law.
OK, we talk about US, UK, Australia, then lets talk about Saudi Arabia, Iraq, or any muslin countries, having affairs with married women, you can have your little brother chop-off. If you dare to, you can try to have an affair with a married woman in Indonesia, or Malaysia.
From legal perspective, ashole can be in trouble. eveline, if you need consultaion or know more about law, pm me, I can give you some advices. -
In a 3 person relationship.. there's always someone who will ultimately get hurts. Happy endings are rare.
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Viewed from another perspective, the 'HIV revenge' thing may come only as an afterthought. It may not be 'planned'.
Sometimes, as friends, we tend to side the person telling us. We may get a very biased view based on the friend's account of the whole episode.
The husband might have vent his frustration elsewhere and contracted HIV in the first place.
And who knows, the lover may already have it.
Actually, it does not matter who got the HIV first..
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It's always difficult to face your own 'mistake' and admit to it... Takes LOTS of COURAGE... Just part of growing up....Originally posted by jOhO:i think we chased her away. -
Fren, easy for you to say becos this thing never happen to you...Originally posted by jOhO:honestly if i have to find fault, it has to be with the husband..
you say he loves his wife? yet he INTENTIONALLY infects her?
but u cannot forgive the actions of a man who is sleeping with someone else's woman.
not that i'm using society as an excuse, but do you know how many pple sleep around while being in a reln????? not that i approve of it, but it's almost a norm.
seriously, in the context of this case, IMO, wat the "aSShole" has done PALES in comparison with wat the husband has done. honestly i think the hubby has gone psycho, but that does not liberate him from the great wrong doing he has done, taking up to possibly three lives. yes.. they WILL die.
use ur brains b4 sprouting emotional shIt.....
i feel for your case, your friend, your stand, but you can't expect all of us to feel so emotionally as you are towards this issue. perhaps my posts will be harsh, but it's exactly wat the FACTS are.
and, finally, this is nothing personal to you, your friend, her husband and her lover.
How would you feel when you are betrayed by the woman u love most.... Dfiferent people have different way of reacting wat... In this case, the husband had made his choice..... -
ahha you're not me, how would u know i won't say the same thing if it happened to me.Originally posted by Frozen_Throne:Fren, easy for you to say becos this thing never happen to you...
How would you feel when you are betrayed by the woman u love most.... Dfiferent people have different way of reacting wat... In this case, the husband had made his choice.....
and also.. how the fUck do u know it hasn't happened to me b4, FRIEND?
ok let's be objective. the husband has every right to show his anger, hurt, pain etc etc in whichever way he deems fit. but wat he deems fit may not be fit in the eyes of the law, and of the public.
how about this, i go around with a syringe infected with HIV, and poke pple with it. but he goes around with his cock filled with HIV and screws his wife with it. both of us have intent, to infect other pple with HIV.
but becos he has been betrayed (and i haven't??) he's ok, but i'm a murderer?
for the record, i've ever been betrayed by the one that i've loved the most. i'm not saying that becos i need to rebutt you. many of the forummers here know my story, if you need verification.