Yozz my fren....Originally posted by Frozen_Throne:Fren, easy for you to say becos this thing never happen to you...
How would you feel when you are betrayed by the woman u love most.... Dfiferent people have different way of reacting wat... In this case, the husband had made his choice.....
of course not... it's not worth it.Originally posted by Frozen_Throne:Yozz my fren....
Weather u have been betrayed or not is actually none of my bloody business. No need verification from others lah... Don have to get the whole world involved...The message Im trying to convey is highlighted in red as quoted above... No hard feelings pal!
Originally posted by jOhO:RELAX dude...
of course not... it's not worth it.
but i've seen too many blatant posts that get rebutted by me and then they reel back and say no hard feelings, are apologetic, etc etc
u got personal by saying it has never happened to me, and now u smile and tell me, aiyah, no hard feelings lar... nice teeth by the way.
yes i see ur point in red, as i have seen it b4 i replied in my last post. my response is ALSO in red:
the husband has made a choice in his own free will, by which he can, or thinks he would be able to, express himself. however the choice he made is MORALLY and possibly LEGALLY.... [b]wrong.
being moral is subjective, since it's up to our society and upbringing. but if u would, type out (and agree with) this sentence if u can, "There is nothing wrong with a husband knowingly and intentionally infecting his wife with HIV" IF you do, then i got nothing to say, except that morals in this world, or at least yours, are totally opposite to wat i expect.[/b]
Originally posted by eveline:KENAPA MAU MATI MATI MATI........ SUDAH TAKDA KEJA KA?...
Well, before I start, I would like to let you know, this is not another relationship story, but this is a real story.
A guy knows a girl for several years. They have been together and love each other for years. That guy work hard to give the best to the girl, and she is the only one he love.
Finally, they married. The husband has been working hard to give the wife a better lifestyle. He donÂ’t want the wife to work, as he love her, he want her to relax at home, and perhaps do some housework, and cook some food. But if the wife is tired, he will ask her to rest, and take her out for meal. In order not for her to feel bored at home, the husband encourage her to learn something new, and he found some MMORPG for her to kill her free time. He encourages her to know more people.
Few months after they married, the husband has been suffered from stress of work, he feel very depress. He hopes and begs his wife to understand him more, but the wife has changed. She has thousands of requests, she demands more and more. Not materialistic, but she demands more loves, cares, and times. The husband still tries hard to fulfill.
At this time, the wife knows a stranger on the net through an online game. She told the stranger every problem between her and her husband. She trusted the stranger. As time pass, they propose to meet each other. She plans, when her husband is at work, she invited the stranger come to her house. She gives him her heart, and eventually her body.
The husband trusted her so much, and he never and will never know that her wife loving another man. He still is trying hard on how to fulfill his wife.
One day, the husband is at work, and suddenly he has a thought. He knocks off early, go to a jewelry shop to buy a diamond chain for his wife, and plan to have a good dinner with his wife. When he reach home earlier than usual hour, when he is at font of the door and about to use his key to open the doorÂ… he heard some sounds, yes, as you guess, his wife and a guyÂ…
He walks off, he feels extremely sad, and upset. The only thing in his life is she, the only thing to motivate him is she, whatever he does is for her, and he never unfaithful to his wife. ButÂ…
As he feel there are no more hope in his life, he decided to revenge.
For subsequent months, he has been having unprotected s3x with lots of pros, what he wanted is to get infected. What he wants is to pass all this to the wife.
Â…
Â… there are still lots of things happen at this period of time, including the wife decided to stay, but the guy still donÂ’t want to let go, and reveal their affair to the husband. And the husband take no action and give no reaction, because he has already know all this.
Â… blah blah blah
Â…
and now, they been tested
Husband: HIV - Positive, HepB - Positive, and other diseases (I canÂ’t actually remember those name)
Wife: HepB - Positive, HIV result unknown yet (because has to wait for a period of time for the result to be accurate)
The Stranger: No idea. But good luck to him and to the one he love.
The husband has no regret, and he told the wife, even she decided to stay, but her decision are too late. He said, “[b]when you decided to open the door for that guy, and when he decided to step in our house, both of you are decided to have this tragedy. There are no reasons, no explanations, no excuses, because you are my wife, if you really love him, and he really love you, there are something call divorce in this world.”
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Originally posted by jOhO:Yozz!!!
of course not... it's not worth it.
but i've seen too many blatant posts that get rebutted by me and then they reel back and say no hard feelings, are apologetic, etc etc
u got personal by saying it has never happened to me, and now u smile and tell me, aiyah, no hard feelings lar... nice teeth by the way.
yes i see ur point in red, as i have seen it b4 i replied in my last post. my response is ALSO in red:
the husband has made a choice in his own free will, by which he can, or thinks he would be able to, express himself. however the choice he made is MORALLY and possibly LEGALLY.... [b]wrong.
being moral is subjective, since it's up to our society and upbringing. but if u would, type out (and agree with) this sentence if u can, "There is nothing wrong with a husband knowingly and intentionally infecting his wife with HIV" IF you do, then i got nothing to say, except that morals in this world, or at least yours, are totally opposite to wat i expect.[/b]
Originally posted by eveline:
Well, before I start, I would like to let you know, this is not another relationship story, but this is a real story.
A guy knows a girl for several years. They have been together and love each other for years. That guy work hard to give the best to the girl, and she is the only one he love.
Finally, they married. The husband has been working hard to give the wife a better lifestyle. He donÂ’t want the wife to work, as he love her, he want her to relax at home, and perhaps do some housework, and cook some food. But if the wife is tired, he will ask her to rest, and take her out for meal. In order not for her to feel bored at home, the husband encourage her to learn something new, and he found some MMORPG for her to kill her free time. He encourages her to know more people.
Few months after they married, the husband has been suffered from stress of work, he feel very depress. He hopes and begs his wife to understand him more, but the wife has changed. She has thousands of requests, she demands more and more. Not materialistic, but she demands more loves, cares, and times. The husband still tries hard to fulfill.
At this time, the wife knows a stranger on the net through an online game. She told the stranger every problem between her and her husband. She trusted the stranger. As time pass, they propose to meet each other. She plans, when her husband is at work, she invited the stranger come to her house. She gives him her heart, and eventually her body.
The husband trusted her so much, and he never and will never know that her wife loving another man. He still is trying hard on how to fulfill his wife.
One day, the husband is at work, and suddenly he has a thought. He knocks off early, go to a jewelry shop to buy a diamond chain for his wife, and plan to have a good dinner with his wife. When he reach home earlier than usual hour, when he is at font of the door and about to use his key to open the doorÂ… he heard some sounds, yes, as you guess, his wife and a guyÂ…
He walks off, he feels extremely sad, and upset. The only thing in his life is she, the only thing to motivate him is she, whatever he does is for her, and he never unfaithful to his wife. ButÂ…
As he feel there are no more hope in his life, he decided to revenge.
For subsequent months, he has been having unprotected s3x with lots of pros, what he wanted is to get infected. What he wants is to pass all this to the wife.
Â…
Â… there are still lots of things happen at this period of time, including the wife decided to stay, but the guy still donÂ’t want to let go, and reveal their affair to the husband. And the husband take no action and give no reaction, because he has already know all this.
Â… blah blah blah
Â…
and now, they been tested
Husband: HIV - Positive, HepB - Positive, and other diseases (I canÂ’t actually remember those name)
Wife: HepB - Positive, HIV result unknown yet (because has to wait for a period of time for the result to be accurate)
The Stranger: No idea. But good luck to him and to the one he love.
The husband has no regret, and he told the wife, even she decided to stay, but her decision are too late. He said, “[b]when you decided to open the door for that guy, and when he decided to step in our house, both of you are decided to have this tragedy. There are no reasons, no explanations, no excuses, because you are my wife, if you really love him, and he really love you, there are something call divorce in this world.”
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Hi kid, I think you are lacking of money badly?Originally posted by Xenthar:Well he should have seen it coming all along. In SG you got no money want to start a family. HA HA HA HA. Dream on!
Anyway, it's no longer important whether is love or possessiveness.Originally posted by neuros:that's not love...
that's possessiveness...
Originally posted by eveline:
Hi kid, I think you are lacking of money badly?
The husband is hardworking doesn't mean he is a poor guy. He earns about 5k per month. The wife don't need lot of money, her father is a millionaire doing business in Malaysia, and Thailand.
Anyway, just to let you know, [b]the a$$hole is not rich either. He don't have a car, I doubt whether his earning is enough for himself alone, he bought cheap stuff for gift, when I saw him I wanted to laugh, in my mind “huh? This kind of guy also got people want ar?”
Had consulted a local lawyer, adultery is illegal in Singapore. For this case, the a$$hole has no evidence to show that the husband “intended” to spread the HIV to the a$$hole. What can he do? Frankly speaking, the lawley said, "Nothing he can do".
Law is not at the a$$hole side, this time, is up to the couple whether to bring this case to court.
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Hmm... Wonder where ya heard this from? You sure about this?Originally posted by eveline:Hi kid, I think you are lacking of money badly?
The husband is hardworking doesn't mean he is a poor guy. He earns about 5k per month. The wife don't need lot of money, her father is a millionaire doing business in Malaysia, and Thailand.
Anyway, just to let you know, the a$$hole is not rich either. He don't have a car, I doubt whether his earning is enough for himself alone, he bought cheap stuff for gift, when I saw him I wanted to laugh, in my mind “huh? This kind of guy also got people want ar?”
Had consulted a local lawyer, adultery is illegal in Singapore. For this case, the a$$hole has no evidence to show that the husband “intended” to spread the HIV to the a$$hole. What can he do? Frankly speaking, the lawley said, "Nothing he can do".
Law is not at the a$$hole side, this time, is up to the couple whether to bring this case to court.