Backstabbed
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Pat pat..
Don be too sad k.. Backstabbin from friends, esp ur gd friends.. Is extremely.. Hmm.. Heart wrenchin.. LIk a knife stabbin thru e heart...
Tak it easy.. Wat done cannot be undone.. But hmm.. Treat it as a blessin in disguise? Tat u have seen thru ur friend true colours.. Now mayb a small harm.. But who knows wat else damage he could have done?
It may be difficult.. BUt give them ur blessin.. There isn anythin u can do.. U can choose to ignore ur friend.. Or u could choose to replace hatred with hmm friendship.. I mean those hi and bye kinda..
Haha.. I feel tat.. He will feel better if u treat him mean.. Whereas if u treat him still with politeness.. He feel worst?
Cheer up.. Friends are few, but mus be gd.. Losin one lik tat.. Betrayal of trust will only be better.. Tak care ya..
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Wat if u treat him good and he feels good? Wat if he pretends he noes nth?Originally posted by ahkico:Pat pat..
Don be too sad k.. Backstabbin from friends, esp ur gd friends.. Is extremely.. Hmm.. Heart wrenchin.. LIk a knife stabbin thru e heart...
Tak it easy.. Wat done cannot be undone.. But hmm.. Treat it as a blessin in disguise? Tat u have seen thru ur friend true colours.. Now mayb a small harm.. But who knows wat else damage he could have done?
It may be difficult.. BUt give them ur blessin.. There isn anythin u can do.. U can choose to ignore ur friend.. Or u could choose to replace hatred with hmm friendship.. I mean those hi and bye kinda..
Haha.. I feel tat.. He will feel better if u treat him mean.. Whereas if u treat him still with politeness.. He feel worst?
Cheer up.. Friends are few, but mus be gd.. Losin one lik tat.. Betrayal of trust will only be better.. Tak care ya.. -
Originally posted by BonJovi:Hey....ani1 here have been backstabb by close frens b4?? share ur stories
REPLY!!!!!!!!!!
those pple who backstabbed you or anyone of us is not "our true friend" and don't ever and ever call them a "friend" just call them colleagues or whatever lah.......... a "friend" don't do that to hurt your feelings, they normaly care and concern for you and they will support you all the way 
Yes, I've been backstabbed before 
because these ugly people they're not happy wif me, sometimes I will confront them if I have to and sometimes I will just avoid or ignore them, that really helps.. 
So open your eyes BIG BIG also lah....or buka your mata BIG BIG hehe... 
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Revenge is sweet.
Just remain as good friends and treat nothing has happened.. and just wait for the right timing..
Introduce him other girls too.. if you can. Make his GF jealous.
Always appear to be the victim somehow.. rather than the culprit..
the rest.. see how creative you are. -
Me taking revenge now, am not going to sit down and do nothing, am not stupid, am so cleverOriginally posted by aH_v:Revenge is sweet.
Just remain as good friends and treat nothing has happened.. and just wait for the right timing..
Introduce him other girls too.. if you can. Make his GF jealous.
Always appear to be the victim somehow.. rather than the culprit..
the rest.. see how creative you are. -
Sometimes it's good to take revenge well sometimes it's not good, it depends, honestly I have so many friends around me they're mix of Malays, Chinese, Indians and Expats. But then, I found out that the local pple loves to backstab their own kind of pple especially to those innocent ones not once but many times as and when they feel unhappy about something, but for the expats they are much more understanding pple well hey I'm not siding Expats but this is true. I love to say "Hi's" to pple early in the morning to make them feel good rather than bacstabbing them, well if you do this often you feel good too, always think positiveOriginally posted by moccaz:Me taking revenge now, am not going to sit down and do nothing, am not stupid, am so clever -
me have too.. =( by someone i tot was close to me....
cos that time my bf just broke up with his ex for about 4 months... then got together with me... i know his ex too... for one month, we keep everything in the dark cos afraid that the ex will be hurt... then we were sent to perth for performance with 7 other dancers... then it kinda leaked out...
we were in perth for 2 weeks.. by then, the 7 ppl know about two of us le... then this friend, A, whom i tot was my best bud, messaged the ex back in spore.. it went something like this
"hey.. i feel so sorrie for ya.. seeing bunnie and XX(my bf) together... reminds me of the happie times you guys had before bunnie comes into the picture... sorrie but i reallie feel sad for ya... bunnie that slut... broke you guys up.. will never forgive her"
when my plane touched down in spore, the first message was "bunnie you F***er!! have you slept with him yet!!! how can you do this to me!!!"
sigh.... kinda sad... and rumors fly like nobody's business... say that i was the cause of their break up.. mm.. life is kinda unfair....
and A actully have the cheek to tell me.... "hey i messaged XX's ex say you guys together... sorrie and good luck"
sobzz...
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Originally posted by bunnie boink:
don't be sad, you're not alone, you're not the only victim, sometimes I feel the world is unfair to me and to those who are innocent and fragile
me have too.. =( [b]by someone i tot was close to me....
cos that time my bf just broke up with his ex for about 4 months... then got together with me... i know his ex too... for one month, we keep everything in the dark cos afraid that the ex will be hurt... then we were sent to perth for performance with 7 other dancers... then it kinda leaked out...
we were in perth for 2 weeks.. by then, the 7 ppl know about two of us le... then this friend, A, whom i tot was my best bud, messaged the ex back in spore.. it went something like this
"hey.. i feel so sorrie for ya.. seeing bunnie and XX(my bf) together... reminds me of the happie times you guys had before bunnie comes into the picture... sorrie but i reallie feel sad for ya... bunnie that slut... broke you guys up.. will never forgive her"
when my plane touched down in spore, the first message was "bunnie you F***er!! have you slept with him yet!!! how can you do this to me!!!"
sigh.... kinda sad... and rumors fly like nobody's business... say that i was the cause of their break up.. mm.. life is kinda unfair....
and A actully have the cheek to tell me.... "hey i messaged XX's ex say you guys together... sorrie and good luck"
sobzz... [/b] -
Life is but of some 'gives' and 'takes'... Don't take it hard....Originally posted by bunnie boink:me have too.. =( by someone i tot was close to me....
cos that time my bf just broke up with his ex for about 4 months... then got together with me... i know his ex too... for one month, we keep everything in the dark cos afraid that the ex will be hurt... then we were sent to perth for performance with 7 other dancers... then it kinda leaked out...
we were in perth for 2 weeks.. by then, the 7 ppl know about two of us le... then this friend, A, whom i tot was my best bud, messaged the ex back in spore.. it went something like this
"hey.. i feel so sorrie for ya.. seeing bunnie and XX(my bf) together... reminds me of the happie times you guys had before bunnie comes into the picture... sorrie but i reallie feel sad for ya... bunnie that slut... broke you guys up.. will never forgive her"
when my plane touched down in spore, the first message was "bunnie you F***er!! have you slept with him yet!!! how can you do this to me!!!"
sigh.... kinda sad... and rumors fly like nobody's business... say that i was the cause of their break up.. mm.. life is kinda unfair....
and A actully have the cheek to tell me.... "hey i messaged XX's ex say you guys together... sorrie and good luck"
sobzz... -
mm... well... at least things are better... i hope... after his ex left my life for about 10 months, she is now back again... sigh...
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You can't stop people from talking...Originally posted by bunnie boink:mm... well... at least things are better... i hope... after his ex left my life for about 10 months, she is now back again... sigh...
Build up on your foundation.... -
yah.... the only thing i can do is not get affected....
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if the backstabber is ur (or rather, used to be) good friend,
treat him/her nice nice like the stabbing never occur.
let his/her own conscience stab him and make him feel very very very guilty.
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?? like in survivor?Originally posted by ditzy:You have to backstab them before they backstab you.
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right. people tend to backstab others because they feel insecure about themselves. we are not perfect, so we get backstabbed every now and then. the only plausible reaction is to remind ourselves of the person that we really are and take the backstabbing in our stride.Originally posted by Devil1976:You can't stop people from talking...
Build up on your foundation.... -
the more they bakstabbed you the stronger you become.. stronger and stronger everyday, i'm a survivorOriginally posted by devoid05:right. people tend to backstab others because they feel insecure about themselves. we are not perfect, so we get backstabbed every now and then. the only plausible reaction is to remind ourselves of the person that we really are and take the backstabbing in our stride. -
my fren n i were walking along orchard rd after he bought a swiss army knife for a mutual fren's birthday but he accidentally tripped on one of those cables for new year deco n he jammed the knife into my back....there...back stabbed....
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literally... lol.Originally posted by harryryan:my fren n i were walking along orchard rd after he bought a swiss army knife for a mutual fren's birthday but he accidentally tripped on one of those cables for new year deco n he jammed the knife into my back....there...back stabbed.... -
tried that.... you know.... wad goes ard comes ard??? it called kama baby.... ^^Originally posted by sh|t:if the backstabber is ur (or rather, used to be) good friend,
treat him/her nice nice like the stabbing never occur.
let his/her own conscience stab him and make him feel very very very guilty.
that person who back stabbed me is getting back stabbed herself like nobody's business..... mm... reallie... kama....