Why the good guys are attached, gay, dead.
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Really? i doubt it. Attraction is like being in the cold war, u gotta treat the other party nicely but not too nice, and u gotta treat them like dirt once in a while, that is what keeps it going. Kinda like tug of war every now and then. And as a guy u've gotta possess the manly qualities as i have mentioned above and in my seminars.Originally posted by verloren:Sweeeeet! Looks like you've got the idea of how attraction works, men_@_arms!
But if wat u say is genuine. Then i am glad to have got the idea of attraction at 19, when i see many other men at over 25 still haven got it and are still NICE guys.
Its ok to be nice, but what is important is not to give the perception of being nice, know wad i mean? i am genuinely nice, we all are, but there is no such thing as truth.. only perception
yup. Coz 1 important item of being attractive to girls is to be full of yourself.Originally posted by FeowFeow:SEMINAR???????????????????????????
Do u haf delusions of grandeur???
Unless ur seminar involves 1 talker & 1 listener, & both r the same person?
*gigglez*
FeowFeow
I am genuinely not full of myself because i suffer from an inferiority complex due to shit in the past.
But if i want pussy, i gotta be MANLy and attractive and JERKY, so i gotta put up this front of being all ful of myself and all that shit. Know wad i mean>? -
Who cares? Gross over-simplification.
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I always believe in screwing the gal as soon as possible after u get into a relationship. they will be more devoted to u after making love with ya.
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The real jerk is here sial... how can u think this way? Indirectly forcing ppl to love u more, more devoted. Oh mann... how could u think this way sial... really cant understand. But i know wat u mean la.... u believe is jus believe rite. u never done tat rite. hahaa... but i don believe in tat. cos nowadays gals u think they had the same mind concept like the 80's? now they will think screw liao so wat? u know, they cant be bothered.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:I always believe in screwing the gal as soon as possible after u get into a relationship. they will be more devoted to u after making love with ya. -
oh the "in" thing now is to ba asexual...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Oh damn Raven, Not u too?!?!?!?!?!?!?
U plan to turn gay oso mehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh?!
FeowFeow
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Eh, we oredi hafta share the guys wif China girls, Viet girls, then now we hafta share guys wif GUYS?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!
That's so damn sad
Anywayz, why r u considering when u haf eh hem, THE FELINE???
FeowFeowOriginally posted by HENG@:oh the "in" thing now is to ba asexual...
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well, if tat the case. why are girls considering good guys in the first place?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Eh, we oredi hafta share the guys wif China girls, Viet girls, then now we hafta share guys wif GUYS?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!
That's so damn sad
Anywayz, why r u considering when u haf eh hem, THE FELINE???
FeowFeow
why wait until they are finally attached with someone else, gay, dead or become monk?
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And the Jerk of the Day awards goes to <> <> " Ogbunwezeh" Hurrahh!!! Long live the jerkOriginally posted by Ogbunwezeh:I always believe in screwing the gal as soon as possible after u get into a relationship. they will be more devoted to u after making love with ya.
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Originally posted by FeowFeow:Eh, we oredi hafta share the guys wif China girls, Viet girls, then now we hafta share guys wif GUYS?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!
That's so damn sad
Anywayz, why r u considering when u haf eh hem, THE FELINE???
FeowFeow too bad la.... maybe guys got spurned one time too many liao loh.
hell hath no fury like a man scorned.
eh.... im considering being asexual because... well because I feel like it. probably would make my life easier now. -
Human being will nv cherish the things they have until the moment they lost itOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Eh, we oredi hafta share the guys wif China girls, Viet girls, then now we hafta share guys wif GUYS?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!
That's so damn sad
Anywayz, why r u considering when u haf eh hem, THE FELINE???
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Hehe... i dunno la. Juz feel this way, those gal i bed r so loving n devoted to me compare to those tat i didn't... Anyway lets say something very practical. Men live for the sex while ladies live for the love. In a relationship, after the guyz able to bed n screw his gf, its considered something in return or mission accomplish. Yup agree tat nowadays ladies r very open n dun give a damn abt having sex, sex is something like simply kissing or hugging.Originally posted by all_souls:The real jerk is here sial... how can u think this way? Indirectly forcing ppl to love u more, more devoted. Oh mann... how could u think this way sial... really cant understand. But i know wat u mean la.... u believe is jus believe rite. u never done tat rite. hahaa... but i don believe in tat. cos nowadays gals u think they had the same mind concept like the 80's? now they will think screw liao so wat? u know, they cant be bothered. -
Hmm, don't generalize. Not all girls are like that, just like not all guys can be classified as either jerks or nice.Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:Hehe... i dunno la. Juz feel this way, those gal i bed r so loving n devoted to me compare to those tat i didn't... Anyway lets say something very practical. Men live for the sex while ladies live for the love. In a relationship, after the guyz able to bed n screw his gf, its considered something in return or mission accomplish. Yup agree tat nowadays ladies r very open n dun give a damn abt having sex, sex is something like simply kissing or hugging.
Well, as for bedding them, naturally they'll treat you better because they have given part of themselves to you. Their body even.
But wow, how this topic has twisted to this i don't know, but i won't be like you Ogbun... my morals are holding me back. Wonder if that's good or bad
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Haiz.. I'm a very innocent n nice guy when i'm young...Being very nice to ladies, they will take ur kindness for granted. when i get older, i juz feel tat being a jerk sometime can be gd too. I dunno whether i'm a jerk to u guyz or not, is beding ur gf or love one a jerk?? Even though i bed her but I love her n nv do anything bad to hurt her...Originally posted by _Aaron_:Hmm, don't generalize. Not all girls are like that, just like not all guys can be classified as either jerks or nice.
Well, as for bedding them, naturally they'll treat you better because they have given part of themselves to you. Their body even.
But wow, how this topic has twisted to this i don't know, but i won't be like you Ogbun... my morals are holding me back. Wonder if that's good or bad -
I like tis/....
Originally posted by men_@_arms:As i have stressed so many times to guys during my seminars, attraction is not a choice girls make, it just happens. And the girls say they are not like machines that we can switch on. On the contrary they are, u just gotta know how to press her buttons to make her think u are a GOOD guy!
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Definitions of terms:
Things that attract girls:
1. the attractive guy (see Men_@_arms 18 ways to be a man-guide-manual 1st edition)
2. Money
3. Power
4. Looks; muscular chest, firm thighs, hips, buttocks, big biceps, veiny arms/hands. Clear face, rebonded gelled hair, preferably japanese looking etc etc.
5. Some kind of vehicle (e.g. car, motorbike, humvee, tank etc etc)
Short run; time period within the 1st 20-30 years of female lifespan. Can also be defined as period of time in a relationship which is FABULOUS before the relationship becomes sour.
Long run: Time period after 30 years of female lifespan. Can also be defined as period of time of relationship which has become SOUR AND SUCKY.
Attractive guyattractive guy in the short run)
"hot, tall (probably blonde), muscular, vehicle-driving, wake-boarding, soccer-kicking (or some other brute sport), gell-smearing, no-contacts-required, well-dressed (i.e. hottest casual trends), rap-shouting, music-playing, cursing, brash, confident, pompous, insulting/joking/cocky, cigarrette smoking (some only), drinking, regularly-dumping-girlfriending, clubbing etc etc" TYPE of guy.
Unattractive guy: (less attractive guy in the short run)
The more abundant (in sg at least) "Nice guys", nerdy (some), chivalrous, kind, polite, soft-spoken, less-brash, study-freaks kinda guys take a backseat in the short run.
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Well ok do nice guys finish last?? Rephrase, do nice guys get it as good and RANDY with girls as much as the jerks do?
Ok. Yes and No.
Short run;
in the early years of female adult-hood, i.e. 15-27 years of age, the female organism undergoes a certain "rite of passage", whereby she is attracted to the attractive guy.
Such guys make the short-run female feel better about herself in front of her girl-friends, such guys can show the female a better time than the "nerdy dorky guai" guys. Such guys give the female A GREAT TIME. She may occasionaly switch such guys, depending on how JERKY they are and dump her for other girls that are dying to be in the arms of such jerks in their respective short run modes.
So yeah, the more attractive kind of guys tend to be jerks because it is easier for them to attract girls by simply.. being jerks most of the time, *wink* well.. at least they let their jerk sides show AFTER they ghet the girl dat is..
This is thanks to American media shows, heavy-metal subculture and other forms of media that emphasize "COOL and HIPNESS" etc etc
Long run:
The shortcoming of the attractive guy, is that in the long run, his short run days of smoking, drinking, DRIVING at high speeds etc cost him lots of $, he runs the risk of dying in accidents, becoming a drug addict or getting his liver **** up. Most of the time, attractive guys bounce off from one girl to another until he retires.
But in the long run, the female usually has had at least 3 or 4 jerks in her "short run" period, she would be pissed off with men in general and may even consider becoming a lesbian. Her long run mode has kicked in, whereby she is more attracted to financial stability, decent gentlemanly-guys who are not sterile yet who can help raise children fruitfully and properly etc. Thus the attractive guy becomes unattractive compared to the formerly unattractive nerdy guy.
Unattractive nerdy guys, in the long run, usually have better paying jobs, more stability and can even enhance their attractiveness with cybernetic enhancements which they can easily pay for with their $.
SO it ALL DEPENDS WHAT KIND OF GUY U ARE NOW? AND WHAT KIND OF GUY U WILL BE! AND WHEN UR LONG RUN PERIOD KICKS IN!!
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tank you tank you!! REMEMBER! SUPPORT m@A and the JERK movement!Originally posted by dualplex:I like tis/.... -
If ya wanna keep the relationship going, dun be mr nice guyz to ur gf. Be a jerk sometime will be gd.