If U Were Me......
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i recently celebrate my 2nd annivesary with my gf.we had been together since my first year of ns and now i had ord...she was still by my side..all of u must have know that this girl really love me!
i know this girl from irc from the first time we meet,i was only prepare to go steady with her on a "walk first seee how" attitude.after a few month,i found that this girl is hopelessly in love with me..she give me all her love and everything..
when i cough,she will get some med to me after work and see me at my house.when i was broke during ns,she pay for some of our date and when i say i want to learn bike,she save up $1 out of her $3 pocket money for me!i told her that if i really got a bike and if we not steady anymore,she will still be the first one to sit my bike..really glad to know such a girl.she is the girl who give me her everything.whatever i want,she will give..include sex!!
but the problem is this girl is not my dream girl.what i want is a girl with brain and a bit of looks..i often dream of me and my future wife earning a$2000 each a month so that we can led a comfortable life...but she earning $1300 at the moment and i ask her to upgrade herself which she did.the way she do things and the way she talk also piss me off sometimes..always say things wrongly and doing things the long way.
for her looks...she wasnt good looking loh!i just want someone who is PRESENTABLE,NOT CHIO..but i felt i couldnt bring her out to see my friends cos of her looks...
all the guys here...i wonder if u agree with me?
for girls right,either we get a one with no looks but got brain...or via visa..but for her,she got none loh...
i am thinking really far loh..cos i want her to be my future wife.
recently she was getting tired of all my nagging..asking her to change this and that and she say she is willing to break up with me and she dont love me as much...
we broke up once and later i patch with her cos i feel that i cant find someone who love me so deeply like her...i may be able to find a chio and smart girl,but will the girl love me so deeply???
shall i follow my dream..find a smart beautiful wife get married,each of us earn a decent sum of $2000 no problem having a nice car and house..but love is so so only..OR
marry my present gf with no looks and brain,live a simple life..evny others with cars and nice houses(i will be very sad,cos im a great car lover)...ENJOY HER DEEPEST LOVE TO ME...while i continue to nag all her wrongdoing till she correct herself FOR THE REST OF MY 30,40,50,60,70,80 YRS OF OUR LIFE?
IF U WERE ME......what is your decision? -
Its sad to hear that your gf is neither pretty nor smart. hmm.. No wonder you two are compatible! ^^.v
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Continue go with her but on the other end, short list other gals, and when you get the other gal, break with her... Like that you got advantage... Treat her like your spare boat
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vti_79,
$2000 is not a lot of money. having lots of money doesn't mean a happy family life either.
stop being so critical and find the positive things in her. she has lots of good qualities and is making the best out of this relationship. and you're not helping things with your critical outlook. it's going to be the same with every girl you go out with if you maintain this type of attitude. you'll never be satisfied. that is the worst kind of life, ever. -
vti_79,
if u are capable enuff, she wouldnt be paying for ya! hurhurhur! yeah i know... army paying u damn pathetic right? u must have ways mah!
If shes chio and and earning 2K or more.. dun think she wanna be with ya... she can go for someone much capable!
yr thinking is jus tooooo imature! if u r hoping that she earns 2K a month and can get a hse and car?? u r jus plain childish! u r suppose to give her comfort... and standing side by side to overcome all difficulties in life... u jus wanna the easy way out huh...
u wanna to get a chio gf jus to show of to yr frd???? *shakes head*... u sounds jus a like a pimp man! is yr gf for sale? why bother what others say?
she has been with u through difficult times...
Im not flamming hor.. jus my few cents worth...
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hey hey hey... tts a gd one!Originally posted by Solitude-:Its sad to hear that your gf is neither pretty nor smart. hmm.. No wonder you two are compatible! ^^.v -
I think you should marry the CAR...?
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Wah!!! RuthBaby scold people arhhhh... hurhurhur... how you doing?Originally posted by RuthBaby:yr thinking is jus tooooo imature! if u r hoping that she earns 2K a month and can get a hse and car?? u r jus plain childish! u r suppose to give her comfort... and standing side by side to overcome all difficulties in life... u jus wanna the easy way out huh...
u wanna to get a chio gf jus to show of to yr frd???? *shakes head*... u sounds jus a like a pimp man! is yr gf for sale? why bother what others say?
she has been with u through difficult times...
Im not flamming hor.. jus my few cents worth...
[This message has been edited by RuthBaby (edited 29 January 2002).]
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LOLOriginally posted by RuthBaby:hey hey hey... tts a gd one!
Thanks, I was the first to see his post anyway, and got disgusted imediately.
Phew I just came back from running 2.4 ..er. actually i only ran 3 rounds(6mins) + b4 i couldn't take it..die lah, nafa next week !! -
yeah! and fxxk the exhaust pipe! hahahaOriginally posted by Devil1976:I think you should marry the CAR...? -
mi never scold him... i got soo pissed off by hes thread... he sounded so as if...Originally posted by Klactovak:Wah!!! RuthBaby scold people arhhhh... hurhurhur... how you doing?
and i also agree... when the guy is rich.. he heart changes too
im fine... miss ya
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hannor! mi too! sounded like a B@a+@rD.. hope he change laOriginally posted by Solitude-:LOL
Thanks, I was the first to see his post anyway, and got disgusted imediately.
Phew I just came back from running 2.4 ..er. actually i only ran 3 rounds(6mins) + b4 i couldn't take it..die lah, nafa next week !! -
I just got one thing to say to him.
Treasure what you've got. Don't wake up the next day, only to find out that everything's gone and regret. -
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err...... ?Originally posted by RuthBaby: -
vti_79:
U don't have a gf to show how pretty she is to your friends. That sounds so shallow.
But 1 thing I have to admit: it's useless holding on to a relationship that is short of 1 party's commitment as sooner or later, it would collapse with dire consequences if one party is too deeply entrenched in it.
Nothing wrong with a thought of a dreamgirl, but is it realistic?? I would like to have Cindy Crawford to be my wife too, if u are asking about dream girls.
Life ain't easy, and please don't complicate it. -
So it looks like u just wan a show piece?? how is it that there are guys like u around... it's time to learn that you can't have everything.... chio ger, clever ger, loving ger, sweet ger, and watever more....
it's learning to accept a person for how she is and not wat u want her to be...
be thankful tat she is always there for u... and can love u so deeply... u on the other hand think tat she isn't up to your expectation?? so wat do u REALLY want??
Take some time to ponder... you won't regret. Be fair to her and yourself. -
RuthBaby,
All i can say is that you are a real BxxCH,all the kind ppl here are giving me good advice except u.if u got nothing good to say,just shut your chee bye mouth!!bitch
u are not a guy,pls dont act like u know everything in the world.this tread is for guy to answer me...go suck a dick then maybe i consider u qualify to reply this tread...haha!!Originally posted by RuthBaby:vti_79,
if u are capable enuff, she wouldnt be paying for ya! hurhurhur! yeah i know... army paying u damn pathetic right? u must have ways mah!
ans:u never been to ns,so u got no right to lecture me!u think i never look for part time meh?no one want to hire a person with green ic!!
if shes chio and and earning 2K or more.. dun think she wanna be with ya... she can go for someone much capable!
ans:u are wrong,i ask her next time if she beautiful already and a guy with $ and car want to woo her then how..she say she will always love me...no matter what happen...from the way u answer me,only bitches like u wouldnt know what love is all about,money faced bitch!!
yr thinking is jus tooooo imature! if u r hoping that she earns 2K a month and can get a hse and car?? u r jus plain childish! u r suppose to give her comfort... and standing side by side to overcome all difficulties in life... u jus wanna the easy way out huh...
ans;i meant we work together so that it will be easier to afford a car and house...in singapore next time,not easy to own a car and a house alone.im not trying to live off her!pls read and understand bf u use your chee bye hand to type...
u wanna to get a chio gf jus to show of to yr frd???? *shakes head*... u sounds jus a like a pimp man! is yr gf for sale? why bother what others say?
ans:which guy dont want their gf to be chio ,u find one then u tell me..not chio somemore,all i require is presentable!!my gf is not for sale maybe u are!!
she has been with u through difficult times...
Im not flamming hor.. jus my few cents worth...
ans:ya, u are not flamming,just barking madly!!
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you are another bastard!!so weak cant even run yet want to lecture ppl...weak man...not fit to be a man and soldier!!!go wear skirt la!!Originally posted by Solitude-:LOL
Thanks, I was the first to see his post anyway, and got disgusted imediately.
Phew I just came back from running 2.4 ..er. actually i only ran 3 rounds(6mins) + b4 i couldn't take it..die lah, nafa next week !! -
be happy with wat u have now... stop being so demanding..
what if u really get a girl with brains and looks..
she might not be able to sastified u in some other way...think about it.. -
Wats ur Education level?
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*shakes head*
he sounded soo shallow... -
another mad dog!
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vti_79 , it seems to me u had nvr like anybody and now u dun even treasure wat u have...love doesn't need any finacial status or wat...as long as u 2 love each other...u 2 can make it thru up and down
shit u,u shld be grateful tat ppl gave u advice,u are in no position to scold them..and worst,wif vulgarities.is there a word call politness in ur dictionary? i am no amazed tat ur gf said tat she doesn't luv u as much....i hope she EVEN DITCH U for a GUY WHO LOVES HER TRULY -
Yawn:
maybe not even in hes DICKtionary!
[This message has been edited by RuthBaby (edited 30 January 2002).]