why is he like that?
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A guy fren asked mi out to disco and told mi 2 go earlier cos no nd to pay for cover charge. He will be there later cos of work. However on the day itself he
msg me that another lady fren will be joining us. I msg him what time she will be there, he said dun know. and i ask him what time he will reach. he did not respond. in the evening, i decided to go with him instead of waiting there by myself. I msg him that but he said cannot cos he will be going with her lady fren and she will be waiting at his office. I feel piss off cos how come she can wait for him there but i have to wait at the disco alone. So i told him that I also want to wait for him at his office but he said his car can only sit 2 pp.
in the end, i didnt turn up cos he told they will be ard 12am.
when he reached there and msg mi n find that I didnt go he was angry cos he bk a table for 3 and ordered drinks also( he did not tel mi that earlier, all he told me was to look for a waiter who will find a gd table).
So now he refused to take my call, is it my fault?
wht can i do now? -
Becoz u r a guy, he expect u know to "take care" of urself..if u r really unhappy abt it, y dun tell ur feeling to him so he can understand.
Aiya, sometimes, guys nv tink so much, u shld know urself rite ? -
lsky,
U are a lady right?
Looks like he is chasing that girl. U are to be there just so he won't look too obvious.
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Anything to add?Originally posted by lsky:A guy fren asked mi out to disco and told mi 2 go earlier cos no nd to pay for cover charge. He will be there later cos of work. However on the day itself he
msg me that another lady fren will be joining us. I msg him what time she will be there, he said dun know. and i ask him what time he will reach. he did not respond. in the evening, i decided to go with him instead of waiting there by myself. I msg him that but he said cannot cos he will be going with her lady fren and she will be waiting at his office. I feel piss off cos how come she can wait for him there but i have to wait at the disco alone. So i told him that I also want to wait for him at his office but he said his car can only sit 2 pp.
in the end, i didnt turn up cos he told they will be ard 12am.
when he reached there and msg mi n find that I didnt go he was angry cos he bk a table for 3 and ordered drinks also( he did not tel mi that earlier, all he told me was to look for a waiter who will find a gd table).
So now he refused to take my call, is it my fault?
wht can i do now?
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your sgForums profile says you are a gal... but i think it does not matter you are boy or gal... basically, if you cancel on a friend then you shd have informed that friend... so you must understand your friend has the right to be angry lor...
on the other hand, he should not act so childish and not accept your calls... maybe you can sms him to say sorry and let him cool down... guys are like that laa, once they cool down they should be back to normal... just my opinion
~ meow ~ meow ~Originally posted by lsky:So now he refused to take my call, is it my fault?
wht can i do now?
meow ~ meow meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ -
si Devil... neber sleep yet?
~ meow ~ meow ~Originally posted by Devil1976:Anything to add? meow ~ meow meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ -
ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this. -
wow its begining to sound like a REAL marriageOriginally posted by lsky:ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this. -
Aiyo, this kind not consider as friend already, obviously he is only thinknig about himself. After a while, you should know who is really genuine friends and who are just using you.Originally posted by lsky:ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this. -
Well, you should have informed him first, but he could have called you earlier to find out instead of waiting till last min.
Sounds to me like he is trying to make you feel bad so that he can cut on his monetary losses -
Very BUSY with COURSES lately.. Only have time to check things out in the nights... VERY tiring though..?Originally posted by MeoW_MeoW:si Devil... neber sleep yet?
~ meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ meow meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ meow ~ -
What he've spent is used by him and that girl, what does it has to do with you?Originally posted by lsky:ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this.
On the other hand, I think he owes you AN APOLOGY for HOLDING YOUR TIME UP.... -
How did he use mi?Originally posted by alien_04:Aiyo, this kind not consider as friend already, obviously he is only thinknig about himself. After a while, you should know who is really genuine friends and who are just using you. -
How come u say he is holding my time upOriginally posted by Devil1976:What he've spent is used by him and that girl, what does it has to do with you?
On the other hand, I think he owes you AN APOLOGY for HOLDING YOUR TIME UP.... 
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It's not your fault. He's just a player, meaning that he fools around with women and uses them to his own benefits. He doesn't really care about the women around him UNLESS he is interested in her.Originally posted by lsky:A guy fren asked mi out to disco and told mi 2 go earlier cos no nd to pay for cover charge. He will be there later cos of work. However on the day itself he
msg me that another lady fren will be joining us. I msg him what time she will be there, he said dun know. and i ask him what time he will reach. he did not respond. in the evening, i decided to go with him instead of waiting there by myself. I msg him that but he said cannot cos he will be going with her lady fren and she will be waiting at his office. I feel piss off cos how come she can wait for him there but i have to wait at the disco alone. So i told him that I also want to wait for him at his office but he said his car can only sit 2 pp.
in the end, i didnt turn up cos he told they will be ard 12am.
when he reached there and msg mi n find that I didnt go he was angry cos he bk a table for 3 and ordered drinks also( he did not tel mi that earlier, all he told me was to look for a waiter who will find a gd table).
So now he refused to take my call, is it my fault?
wht can i do now?
- On the surface, he is inviting you to disco. But his motive is to get you to book a table for him so that he can bring his female friend to the disco later.
- Think about it, he made you wait there for hours, and he didn't even bother to apologise. Doesn't that sound like you were being used? And it shows that you're not even as important as his female friend.
- The lie about the table for 3 is just to make you feel guilty, so that you will still do things for him in the future to make it up.
You must be a very soft hearted person, which is why he can manipulate you so easily. I advice you to just stay away from him, and cut off all contacts with him. You don't need such a friend! -
On the day he asked mi to go, he got tel mi the waiter's name n to look for that waiter. but i didnt know that mean he bked a table already.Originally posted by verloren:It's not your fault. He's just a player, meaning that he fools around with women and uses them to his own benefits. He doesn't really care about the women around him UNLESS he is interested in her.
- On the surface, he is inviting you to disco. But his motive is to get you to book a table for him so that he can bring his female friend to the disco later.
- Think about it, he made you wait there for hours, and he didn't even bother to apologise. Doesn't that sound like you were being used? And it shows that you're not even as important as his female friend.
- The lie about the table for 3 is just to make you feel guilty, so that you will still do things for him in the future to make it up.
You must be a very soft hearted person, which is why he can manipulate you so easily. I advice you to just stay away from him, and cut off all contacts with him. You don't need such a friend!
According to his 4am sms,
he alrady booked a table for 30 dollars, if i didnt turn up b4 a certain time will they still hold the table for him? u been to devils bar? do they charge for booking table? -
I feel that he's just taking you for granted but at the same time I guess its also common courtesy that your should have informed him you are not comfortable waiting and that you are not going.
Having said that... If he's nothing more than a friend to you then I would suggest letting him cool down for awhile before contacting him again, if he continues to ignores you then so be it, he's not worth keeping as a fren either. -
Its a case of ......... pure miscommunications.
But he is indeed a player -
u suppose 2 go out slone wif him or waht?Originally posted by lsky:ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this.
what and how is he related to u...r u 2 dating or wat?
aiya dun get angry...u 1980? i 1974
if u dyn mind u can wan 2 go out wif me...i go wif u alone for a meal no other lady wif me 1 or not? just a simple meal only no loud music disco so noisy and messy hahaha -
I can't provide any help..because I haven't been to Devil's Bar yet. But I am quite sure that there's a charge for table booking.Originally posted by lsky:On the day he asked mi to go, he got tel mi the waiter's name n to look for that waiter. but i didnt know that mean he bked a table already.
According to his 4am sms,
he alrady booked a table for 30 dollars, if i didnt turn up b4 a certain time will they still hold the table for him? u been to devils bar? do they charge for booking table?
But I think he should at least give you more details instead of making you wait there like a fool? Frankly, if I were you, I will just give him the finger right in his face. Well, I'm a guy after all
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well i glad i did not go n make him a fool by not telling him. this will teach him a lesson for being mean to me. he still refuesed to take my call, wonder y is he still angry with, he make it seems like i have wronged him.Originally posted by verloren:I can't provide any help..because I haven't been to Devil's Bar yet. But I am quite sure that there's a charge for table booking.
But I think he should at least give you more details instead of making you wait there like a fool? Frankly, if I were you, I will just give him the finger right in his face. Well, I'm a guy after all
He still owe mi 1 dinner, how to tell him? -
sorri, so u r a gal...then u r unfairly treated !! He really @#$%^&..
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HEy .. He Owes you a dinner? .. Trust Me, the only way to get it back is no way! =P~ First of all, u pissed him off.. Second, U wan a treat back even though he made losses.. The chances of getting that free dinner is 1 to 100 .. =S Continue on with life bahz. This friend is a Psychology abuser. In using you to accompany him and that office lady, hes trying to create an impression that he is desirable, and yet still faithful towards E OL .. And behind the scenes, you'll never know what he has said about you ... playing around with humans sympathy should be that guy's forte. This guy could be potentially dangerous if you continue to hang out with him .. Avoid much eye to eye contact with him. Make him feel lost. Once he loses you as a scapegoat .. He will probably wake up. But if he doesn't, means he has other friends that are willing to be the "sheeps" for his slaughters .. If this happens, Don't, and do not, the most only once in a blue moon, hang out with this guy. He is obsessed with power. I hope i haven't written any information wrongly, please correct me if i did. You probably know him for a long time isn't it? He, doesn't have a religion isn't it? Neither do you? Is he a rising employee in his company? His non verbal actions must be quite proud.. Notice his actions and confirm it. His postures would display much dominance.. This type of people have much needed confidence.. But this could be a case of Over-confidence . Heed my words. In long terms, if this situations persists, avoid him totally, the situation may become unhandable. If you think i am being unpractical, Im sorry, The law of Fairness is that, no matter how much percent you think it won't happen, there would be still a 50/50 chance that it WOULD happen.. TAke Care~ Don't Get bullied again! Stand up for your rights. Being a lady doesn't mean you are allowed to be bullied. =) cheers~! goodnite.
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tell the chee hong bastard to fcuk off n die!!!!!Originally posted by lsky:A guy fren asked mi out to disco and told mi 2 go earlier cos no nd to pay for cover charge. He will be there later cos of work. However on the day itself he
msg me that another lady fren will be joining us. I msg him what time she will be there, he said dun know. and i ask him what time he will reach. he did not respond. in the evening, i decided to go with him instead of waiting there by myself. I msg him that but he said cannot cos he will be going with her lady fren and she will be waiting at his office. I feel piss off cos how come she can wait for him there but i have to wait at the disco alone. So i told him that I also want to wait for him at his office but he said his car can only sit 2 pp.
in the end, i didnt turn up cos he told they will be ard 12am.
when he reached there and msg mi n find that I didnt go he was angry cos he bk a table for 3 and ordered drinks also( he did not tel mi that earlier, all he told me was to look for a waiter who will find a gd table).
So now he refused to take my call, is it my fault?
wht can i do now? -
table for 3 = $30Originally posted by lsky:ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this.
i person $10
one jug for u and that OL = $ 50
i person $25
add together $35 only nia hor! where got $40? take $35 throw it in his face la!
but i think u are too nice a person to do that, so the way to do now is to ignore him. if he attempts to make u feel guilty again tell him off! ask him to fan xing fan xing. zuo nan ren zuo dao zhe yang bu ru chi si hao le!!!