why is he like that?
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You should have inform him about not turning up. Its understandable for him to be pissed. BUT he should not hold a grudge against you for such a long time. His action when you did not turns up shows hes not gentlemanly. He should have call you to check if you are ok in the first place and since he could afford a 2 seater car, whats a measely $40 to him.
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Oops... Sorry, too busy lately and read wrongly.. Hmm.. Not very nice of you... At least you should have just let him know that you're not going down or something?Originally posted by lsky:How come u say he is holding my time up
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Its not your fault the guy was using you for his date with the girl, and if he was any way a proper man he would of explained the reasons. Why have you wait for two hours just so he can have a better date. If this happened to me I would tell this person to get lost.
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It's obvious he is making use of you. He should have tell u he like this gur and then u r there to be his cover etc (whatever the reason is). You shld have also tell him that you don't feel comfortable waiting there alone.. etc.
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after that incident, he told mi that he already bked a table, how will he be using mi to get table for them?
he also said that it that gal last day in spore n her luggage is in his car, so he went with her together to disco.
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i beginning to wonder if he's a man. so petty!!!! dun want to ans ur calls? ask him eat shit la...........made u wait. how can!Originally posted by lsky:after that incident, he told mi that he already bked a table, how will he be using mi to get table for them?
he also said that it that gal last day in spore n her luggage is in his car, so he went with her together to disco. -
Guys guys.........this guy is obviously not a very good player. Cos a good player would have left 2 very happy ladies posting msgs such as " I've met my prince charming" or " Very much in love with XX" instead of such a post.
In my opinion, he's just a selfish jerk. So Isky, sleep on it. and always always show him the finger ( but make sure u get back ur meal from him first! ) -
halo missy,Originally posted by lsky:ya i a gal, that nite he refused to take my call. i sms him ask him what is he angry for? cos at first he is going with mi only but later he is going with her and make mi wait there. I told him i regret treating him so gd n this is how he treat mi. he sms ard 4am that lady fren is leaving that nite and her luggage are in his car. so he has to take care of her.
he sms me know how much he has spend for that nite.
he said bked table cost him 30 dollars for 3 pax cos of mi he asked me to go there b4 cover charge. 8pm.
and he asked the waiter to prepare a jug of vola cost him 50 dollars.(for mi and her lady fren). in the end he wasted 40 dollars.
I sms him back say he could have told me earlier, and i can still go down mah cos When he knew that i didnt turn up, it was ard 10pm.
but he juz refused to take my call and only sms after 4am to tell mi all this.
don't mind me saying, but I think your guy friend is cheap skate. I hope to dispense alittle of how i look at the situation from a guys point of view. Hope you don't mind.
first of all, I think for a guy to ask you to go book a table for free, is indication that hse's cheap skate enough, and he had to SMS you ard 4am to tell you how much he spent of another girl due to the fact that you didn't turn up to book the free table is a "confirmed chop and sign" that he's a cheap skate.
As a normal guy without any scheme, he would and should know his financial status before partying so late inot the night and "giving out free dinner". Asked him, why did he tell you the cost he spent? 30+50 = $90? I take it as he wanted to go on dutch with you only instead of the 3 of you. ? my my ... I think next time he will charge you by milage when he send you home!
From a sentimetal part of it, I reckon perhaps he had build up him self a story about YOU taking a fancy of him and that he's so desirable. Come on, I know girls who does that to guys, so it makes a nature course that a guy will do the same too. Except that when guys wants to do that, he's got to have the pocket to do so. Girls just had to look nice and reveal some cleavage.
So when I read your story, the first thing that strikes me was that perhaps he was making use of you to make him look good. He's taking advantage of your good nature.
Tell us, as a girl, when u are out with him alone, does he make you fel like a girl? be frank. He's helping the girl to carry luggage in HIS car. for goodness sake.
Well, just my two cents worth, if you happen to have taken a little fancy in him for what ever reason and thinks that by being helpful and "sweet" to him by asking him" Why are you angry with me?" and trying to be understanding...... my bet would be to , save it . Save it for some one who can appraciate these subtle thing in life from YOU.
Relationship is like flying a kite, there's a time to release the thread and there's a time to pull back...I think , maybe you should think about pulling back alittle and don't always expect the wind to be there.
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well said ..... thumbs down for this lousy player .... but not so sure that isky will showed him the finger though..Originally posted by KingLouisVIII:Guys guys.........this guy is obviously not a very good player. Cos a good player would have left 2 very happy ladies posting msgs such as " I've met my prince charming" or " Very much in love with XX" instead of such a post.
In my opinion, he's just a selfish jerk. So Isky, sleep on it. and always always show him the finger ( but make sure u get back ur meal from him first! )
she sound like a guai guai girl
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Alas... It's OVER... Just FORGET IT lah..Originally posted by lsky:after that incident, he told mi that he already bked a table, how will he be using mi to get table for them?
he also said that it that gal last day in spore n her luggage is in his car, so he went with her together to disco. 