now, all u hafta is feel glad tht u'll be the same class as her nxt yr. put aside the thoughts of whether it's bad or gd ya? don't hafta plan wat u shld do when sch reopens, tht will only pressure yaself yea ?Originally posted by _Aaron_:Hmm.
She smsed me just now, to inform us that we'll be in the same class next semester.
So from January to March, we'll be seeing each other everyday, almost all the time.. I sensed some hesistance in the manner of her sms, as am i.
Not sure if this is a good or bad thing....
Sorry~ Didn't mean to start a blog.Originally posted by Lingos:Aaron, i got lost after the first post.
This sounds like a blog man. Maybe you should start one.
Okie.. you know how you say you feel like u're more 27 than 20. Welcome to my club. Yet when i turned QC recently, i was in denial about my age. NO I"M NOT CELEBRATING THANK U. I'm FAT AND OLD AND I'M well not exactly alone. So i'm not Bridget Jones...
sometimes... you just wonder about what you would be if u didn't do certain things.. or didn't make that decision to do whatever.
I don't think about the boys i could have had. SOmetimes i think about the boys i had.. and think.. sh|t what would my life be if i am still with him. God... nuff said. I'm rambling... 2 days of MC is doing my head in.
Haha... i'm not thinking about school yet. IÂ’m thinking about the next time we meet. I wonder~ Will it be awkward again?Originally posted by paradox86:now, all u hafta is feel glad tht u'll be the same class as her nxt yr. put aside the thoughts of whether it's bad or gd ya? don't hafta plan wat u shld do when sch reopens, tht will only pressure yaself yea ?![]()
hahaz yup i tink it will somehow .. see if shes have the feeling awkward pattern oso ? if u've not seen her for quite some time; start a conversation lyke "heya, it's been sometime since we last met; abit guai guai de lol" in a humourous wayz?Originally posted by _Aaron_:Haha... i'm not thinking about school yet. IÂ’m thinking about the next time we meet. I wonder~ Will it be awkward again?
Sorry guys, i'm a bit tired lately... lack of sleep. *yawns* Pardon me for all the strange incomprehensible replies or those that make absolutely no sense~
Excuse me.. but there were two post.. and then some others that followed..Originally posted by _Aaron_:Sorry~ Didn't mean to start a blog.
Besides, its only 2 entries long ~ If i update it everyday, then yea, it would be a blog~![]()
He's taking a short break... Don't worry, he'll be back...Originally posted by LiEr:where's Yunhaier?
Well ... some of them are related lar.. but i just made them cause i was feeling a bit confused...Originally posted by Lingos:Excuse me.. but there were two post.. and then some others that followed..
Don't make me cross reference threads now.
Heheh..
ANyway blogs are good fun man. I love them. Unfortunately i dont' have enough time to update them all.
Hmm....let's see.Originally posted by _Aaron_:Yay... we're officially just friends now.
I'm glad she got that over and done with. Now i feel free..~
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I"m free I'm free! Now no need to think about her le!Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....let's see.
Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....let's see.
I'm going to chinablack tonight. Join me?Originally posted by _Aaron_:I"m free I'm free! Now no need to think about her le!
Can think of my precious kitties and other girls~ (Not that got any other girl in my life as yet... Phewww..)
Guess i'll have to keep up my cocky and funny image to get the girls. I'm free... unfettered... except by the stupid problems Singapore has to offer... (refer to speaker's corner, some in chit chat).![]()
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man. i need to de-stress.
Tsk tsk tsk...don't be so obvious lah.Originally posted by Devil1976:![]()
Originally posted by _Aaron_:Girls who are boys
I read in one of the earlier posts, a few weeks back, a quote by Yunhaier i believe.
[b]Girls will always think about the boys they could have had. Guys will always think about the girls that they never had.
Because this is going to be a bit long, let me divide it into parts. Hope you all can help somewhat...
Part 1
Let me relate this to my situation, but first let me bring you to 2 years ago.
I thought I liked this girl, and cause I misinterpreted her actions, told her about it. It was a very bad call, and from that moment on we do talk, but not much anymore. But this is not the gist of it.
In less than a week, I also fell for another girl. Deep down I knew it was probably rebound or something like that, but I still did all the nice things I did, tried to be sweet and everything to her. Somehow she found out about it(Not a surprise). She called me at night, and confirmed that I like her by asking me straight.
We stay close together, and usually take the bus back. The day after the call, we took the bus back as usual, but at the stop when we usually stop, I asked her if sheÂ’s getting off, but she said sheÂ’s going shopping with the other girl that I like(they were sitting together).
Throughout the bus ride I think they were talking about me, and saying stuff like “Guys are like that” etc.
And when I alighted from the bus, I was deeply hurt. I knew she didnÂ’t like me, but she donÂ’t have to be like that right?
I didnÂ’t talk to the 2 girls for a whole semester, until I made peace with them at the beginning of the next. It was God that gave me the strength, I didnÂ’t want to lose such good friends too.
And in the 2 years that ensued, i must admit i have changed a lot. From facing God, to seeing (luckily not literally) 2 friends die, to reading about why being nice to girls will not net them, etc. I even started to score A's for my exams, and almost got into the top 15% (If not for my stupid elective that brought me down.)
Its really quite scary, if i compare myself Now, and Then. Sometimes i forget that i'm 20, and feel more like 27 or something. Must be this attachment job adding on to my years.
Here's the problem, for a few months now, this girl has been getting closer to me. Sometimes she leans on my shoulder, in which i do nothing because i have no feelings for her, also i don't know what to do.
And about a month ago, she started hugging both her hands on my left hand, which felt pleasantly good. When my other friends asked why she did it, she said something like Aaron was looking bored, i forgot.
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Yeah.. But at least now got one who can understand that this is often one of the possibilities...Originally posted by M©+square:Tsk tsk tsk...don't be so obvious lah.
There are many ways to be chained in the matters of the heart.
Originally posted by _Aaron_:
I read in one of the earlier posts, a few weeks back, a quote by Yunhaier i believe.
[b]Girls will always think about the boys they could have had. Guys will always think about the girls that they never had.
Because this is going to be a bit long, let me divide it into parts. Hope you all can help somewhat...
Part 1
Let me relate this to my situation, but first let me bring you to 2 years ago.
I thought I liked this girl, and cause I misinterpreted her actions, told her about it. It was a very bad call, and from that moment on we do talk, but not much anymore. But this is not the gist of it.
In less than a week, I also fell for another girl. Deep down I knew it was probably rebound or something like that, but I still did all the nice things I did, tried to be sweet and everything to her. Somehow she found out about it(Not a surprise). She called me at night, and confirmed that I like her by asking me straight.
We stay close together, and usually take the bus back. The day after the call, we took the bus back as usual, but at the stop when we usually stop, I asked her if sheÂ’s getting off, but she said sheÂ’s going shopping with the other girl that I like(they were sitting together).
Throughout the bus ride I think they were talking about me, and saying stuff like “Guys are like that” etc.
And when I alighted from the bus, I was deeply hurt. I knew she didnÂ’t like me, but she donÂ’t have to be like that right?
I didnÂ’t talk to the 2 girls for a whole semester, until I made peace with them at the beginning of the next. It was God that gave me the strength, I didnÂ’t want to lose such good friends too.
And in the 2 years that ensued, i must admit i have changed a lot. From facing God, to seeing (luckily not literally) 2 friends die, to reading about why being nice to girls will not net them, etc. I even started to score A's for my exams, and almost got into the top 15% (If not for my stupid elective that brought me down.)
Its really quite scary, if i compare myself Now, and Then. Sometimes i forget that i'm 20, and feel more like 27 or something. Must be this attachment job adding on to my years.
Here's the problem, for a few months now, this girl has been getting closer to me. Sometimes she leans on my shoulder, in which i do nothing because i have no feelings for her, also i don't know what to do.
And about a month ago, she started hugging both her hands on my left hand, which felt pleasantly good. When my other friends asked why she did it, she said something like Aaron was looking bored, i forgot.
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Originally posted by _Aaron_:
I read in one of the earlier posts, a few weeks back, a quote by Yunhaier i believe.
[b]Girls will always think about the boys they could have had. Guys will always think about the girls that they never had.
Because this is going to be a bit long, let me divide it into parts. Hope you all can help somewhat...
Part 1
Let me relate this to my situation, but first let me bring you to 2 years ago.
I thought I liked this girl, and cause I misinterpreted her actions, told her about it. It was a very bad call, and from that moment on we do talk, but not much anymore. But this is not the gist of it.
In less than a week, I also fell for another girl. Deep down I knew it was probably rebound or something like that, but I still did all the nice things I did, tried to be sweet and everything to her. Somehow she found out about it(Not a surprise). She called me at night, and confirmed that I like her by asking me straight.
We stay close together, and usually take the bus back. The day after the call, we took the bus back as usual, but at the stop when we usually stop, I asked her if sheÂ’s getting off, but she said sheÂ’s going shopping with the other girl that I like(they were sitting together).
Throughout the bus ride I think they were talking about me, and saying stuff like “Guys are like that” etc.
And when I alighted from the bus, I was deeply hurt. I knew she didnÂ’t like me, but she donÂ’t have to be like that right?
I didnÂ’t talk to the 2 girls for a whole semester, until I made peace with them at the beginning of the next. It was God that gave me the strength, I didnÂ’t want to lose such good friends too.
And in the 2 years that ensued, i must admit i have changed a lot. From facing God, to seeing (luckily not literally) 2 friends die, to reading about why being nice to girls will not net them, etc. I even started to score A's for my exams, and almost got into the top 15% (If not for my stupid elective that brought me down.)
Its really quite scary, if i compare myself Now, and Then. Sometimes i forget that i'm 20, and feel more like 27 or something. Must be this attachment job adding on to my years.
Here's the problem, for a few months now, this girl has been getting closer to me. Sometimes she leans on my shoulder, in which i do nothing because i have no feelings for her, also i don't know what to do.
And about a month ago, she started hugging both her hands on my left hand, which felt pleasantly good. When my other friends asked why she did it, she said something like Aaron was looking bored, i forgot.
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Originally posted by _Aaron_:
I read in one of the earlier posts, a few weeks back, a quote by Yunhaier i believe.
[b]Girls will always think about the boys they could have had. Guys will always think about the girls that they never had.
Because this is going to be a bit long, let me divide it into parts. Hope you all can help somewhat...
Part 1
Let me relate this to my situation, but first let me bring you to 2 years ago.
I thought I liked this girl, and cause I misinterpreted her actions, told her about it. It was a very bad call, and from that moment on we do talk, but not much anymore. But this is not the gist of it.
In less than a week, I also fell for another girl. Deep down I knew it was probably rebound or something like that, but I still did all the nice things I did, tried to be sweet and everything to her. Somehow she found out about it(Not a surprise). She called me at night, and confirmed that I like her by asking me straight.
We stay close together, and usually take the bus back. The day after the call, we took the bus back as usual, but at the stop when we usually stop, I asked her if sheÂ’s getting off, but she said sheÂ’s going shopping with the other girl that I like(they were sitting together).
Throughout the bus ride I think they were talking about me, and saying stuff like “Guys are like that” etc.
And when I alighted from the bus, I was deeply hurt. I knew she didnÂ’t like me, but she donÂ’t have to be like that right?
I didnÂ’t talk to the 2 girls for a whole semester, until I made peace with them at the beginning of the next. It was God that gave me the strength, I didnÂ’t want to lose such good friends too.
And in the 2 years that ensued, i must admit i have changed a lot. From facing God, to seeing (luckily not literally) 2 friends die, to reading about why being nice to girls will not net them, etc. I even started to score A's for my exams, and almost got into the top 15% (If not for my stupid elective that brought me down.)
Its really quite scary, if i compare myself Now, and Then. Sometimes i forget that i'm 20, and feel more like 27 or something. Must be this attachment job adding on to my years.
Here's the problem, for a few months now, this girl has been getting closer to me. Sometimes she leans on my shoulder, in which i do nothing because i have no feelings for her, also i don't know what to do.
And about a month ago, she started hugging both her hands on my left hand, which felt pleasantly good. When my other friends asked why she did it, she said something like Aaron was looking bored, i forgot.
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