Do you feel...
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Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about... -
yes. but i got my boyfriend to accompany in some nights
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this sis call cheongster sicknes....care too much abt physical comfort.. but 4gt abt inner peace... dats y kong xui....very normal nowadays...Originally posted by subzero_baby:Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about... -
yup thats nite i think a lot when nite falls...
for a glimpse of what i think abt at nite, can
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Go for outings.
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I mean, we work work work to clear loans, pay installments, grumble about this and that.... do you ever really know what you want? and by doing what you are doing now, does it get you there?
especially when night falls, you start reflecting on life.... sometimes i really hate the feeling... -
Sometimes I feel like that too ...Originally posted by subzero_baby:I mean, we work work work to clear loans, pay installments, grumble about this and that.... do you ever really know what you want? and by doing what you are doing now, does it get you there?
especially when night falls, you start reflecting on life.... sometimes i really hate the feeling...
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Well....Originally posted by subzero_baby:Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about...
You are actually turning into a mindless robot. This is so.. because your social life is now diminsihing while your working life is dominating. Soon, you will probably loose sight of what are you actually trying to achieve.
I had that feeling once in a while too. So I volunteer to be the organiser to organise gatherings session about once every month or so just to catch up with each others.
There are also many other solution. For example, pick up a hobby.. get to meet up with more ppl... or volunteer yourself to do some social work. Life can be meaningful if you look it from another pespective. -
Getting more time to reflect is good. But has to translate to positive output.Originally posted by subzero_baby:I mean, we work work work to clear loans, pay installments, grumble about this and that.... do you ever really know what you want? and by doing what you are doing now, does it get you there?
especially when night falls, you start reflecting on life.... sometimes i really hate the feeling...
Pick up a hobby like classical guitar
You will be amazed at what it can do. -
hmm.. go get this book. Purpose Driven Life. it might hold some answers u are seeking yea?Originally posted by subzero_baby:Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about... -
me not good at musical stuff.... actually, each time after work, i'm just too tired to go out. I used to love jazz and would go for a drink in a blue blue moon, but nowadays, even meet up with friends, mostly talk about cars, who got the latest model, highest bhp, who got their hdb... married...
after the goverment encourages birth.... most of my friends either getting married, or already having baby....
it's a emptiness inside... even when you have ppl around, you just don't feel connected at all.... like you can barely join into a conversation... then you spend nights lying awake what's up in life... -
I believe many ppl are feeling the way i do, thus, i hope this thread can let ppl talk abit and share their experience... everyone sure had a rough patch now and then... how they get on and move on? I'll keep the title of the book in mind. thanksOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:hmm.. go get this book. Purpose Driven Life. it might hold some answers u are seeking yea? -
i'd like to express my gratitude, to the moderators for clearing up smilebigbig's topics.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:hmm.. go get this book. Purpose Driven Life. it might hold some answers u are seeking yea?
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i guess u age around 28
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asking me??? nah, not that old... but feel way over that age... i'm only 23+ going 24 next yr.... and most of my friends are aged from 30++ some even 40++....Originally posted by SnowFlag:i guess u age around 28
the feeling is like i'm so tired... so exhausted... -
asking me??? nah, not that old... but feel way over that age... i'm only 23+ going 24 next yr.... and most of my friends are aged from 30++ some even 40++....Originally posted by SnowFlag:i guess u age around 28
the feeling is like i'm so tired... so exhausted... -
i know what u mean.
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do something.
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like got for sgforums 2204 BBQ! or sentosa outings! right?Originally posted by www:do something. -
hehe. something like that, and that is merely one of the options.Originally posted by HENG@:like got for sgforums 2204 BBQ! or sentosa outings! right? -
argh i have to miss this year's BBQ. sianzzzOriginally posted by www:hehe. something like that, and that is merely one of the options. -
Yea subzero. I feel like that too.Originally posted by subzero_baby:Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about...
Heh, i've been saying i feel old for quite a couple of years now.
I think i've identified the problem, but i haven't worked on it yet.
The problem is that we have no goal in life. Hence we're not working towards anything.
Try having some short and long-term goals, it may help.
I'm only in attachment, but i feel what you're feeling now. (And i'm getting much less pay too. bah).
Don't just go home and sleep all the time. Meet your friends(those who can make it), and just chat about everything and anything.
Catch a movie, play a game... read. Lots of things can add little meanings to your life... at least for me.
But ultimately, we need a goal in life. -
I agree about the pay low part... hee, who mind more pay? when you talk about goals in life... what kind of goals? be rich and successful? get a degree be some white collar ppl? drive nice cars, take latest handphone? Nowadays is like so many things to achieve and then you work and work... end up achieving nothing except your ass full of loan and installments.Originally posted by _Aaron_:Yea subzero. I feel like that too.
Heh, i've been saying i feel old for quite a couple of years now.
I think i've identified the problem, but i haven't worked on it yet.
The problem is that we have no goal in life. Hence we're not working towards anything.
Try having some short and long-term goals, it may help.
I'm only in attachment, but i feel what you're feeling now. (And i'm getting much less pay too. bah).
Don't just go home and sleep all the time. Meet your friends(those who can make it), and just chat about everything and anything.
Catch a movie, play a game... read. Lots of things can add little meanings to your life... at least for me.
But ultimately, we need a goal in life. -
after seeing wat your few post revealed abt you...i can concludeOriginally posted by subzero_baby:Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about...
all you need is LOVE
all you need is LOOOVVEEEEEE
and LOVE don cost a thing --- coutesy of moulin rouge
try to find a person to love and throw your feelins over him/her
it makes ur life more meaningful
at least it sets an objective for you doesn`t it? -
that's a bad way to start with... did try what you mentioned, but when it didn't work out... i felt totally crashed.... but nowadays.. love does cost money... movies, dining, shopping, flowers... gifts.. etc... even love making also requires money... buy condom.Originally posted by BaByBoY:after seeing wat your few post revealed abt you...i can conclude
all you need is LOVE
all you need is LOOOVVEEEEEE
and LOVE don cost a thing --- coutesy of moulin rouge
try to find a person to love and throw your feelins over him/her
it makes ur life more meaningful
at least it sets an objective for you doesn`t it?