Do you feel...
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u lack of sex in the niteOriginally posted by subzero_baby:Lonely, Empty inside.... when the night falls, party over... home alone?
I feel so empty... everyday busy working, working... off day also dunno where to go, what to do... call friends also dunno what to talk about... -
how would having sex makes a difference?
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How about joining us for outings?Originally posted by subzero_baby:i honestly dunno how to "feel" for ppl... since my ex left me... this part of me became really empty. I did try to go out, meet ppl, hang out, even go on dates, but each time i date a new guy, memories of past will catch up, then i find myself shunning them for no reason.
Maybe if you got time, care to know more, you can go read the thread post by Devasted Life on her life story. I said abit about myself there which i don't want to repeat here....
but i thank you for being concerned.
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i just missed the BBQ!!!
had to work that day....
read about the dinner and dance... am i invited???
thought for MODs only... -
i know what you mean abt not being interested in others' conversational topics, that it all seems so routine, and boring and shallow even, in that everyone talks abt the same. they almost sound like newspapers. i'm your age. maybe hanging ard pple of closer age might help. it might not, cuz pple our age have their own issues to talk abt, and it seems to be the same.Originally posted by subzero_baby:i do keep a dairy. A habbit from 12 till now... never stopped. BUt then i realized the same cycle kept repeating, falling in love then outta love. you study, then graduate, find a job, turn 18, faster go learn driving... everything is so "Singaporean Routine" lor... even go out with friends, what else they talk about? the typical Singaporean stuff. Cars, Houses, recent tour to Europe, japan... how many kids... some even better, long long time never see, meet up gimme invitation to wedding... It's just depressing.
I have been reading this Sgforums for quite sometime though i joined only in July. I have a rough idea on who are the nice ones... but sure there are some not so nice ones. Thanks anyway.
i feel that there;s not many whom i can talk abt anything with. there's only a good friend, and a partner. it's quite sad, but it's how things are... -
the thing is that i don't have friends around my age... mostly are either younger or older.... sianz!
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..? What's wrong with that?Originally posted by subzero_baby:the thing is that i don't have friends around my age... mostly are either younger or older.... sianz!
Sometimes its not the age that matters, but the maturity and the mindset of the person you're talking to.
I enjoy conversation with my 18 year old friend, and we talk about lots of stuff(2-3 years back). I however, lack stuff to talk with people who're just 1 year older than me.
It all depends on whether there are similar/common hobbies and activiites that we can do together that binds us i guess.. -
referring to me???Originally posted by _Aaron_:..? What's wrong with that?
Sometimes its not the age that matters, but the maturity and the mindset of the person you're talking to.
I enjoy conversation with my 18 year old friend, and we talk about lots of stuff(2-3 years back). I however, lack stuff to talk with people who're just 1 year older than me.
It all depends on whether there are similar/common hobbies and activiites that we can do together that binds us i guess..
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Maybe u should consider taking a break out of all these routine..
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ironically, i don't click with people my age. i get along better with older folks.Originally posted by subzero_baby:the thing is that i don't have friends around my age... mostly are either younger or older.... sianz!
life was empty for me in the past few years. until i got started on things i really wanted to do. like planning for my backpacking trip next year, etc.
i do things i like. it may be things others deem as childish, immature. but hey, who cares? at least i had fun and enjoyment. whereas people who are afraid to break out of the routine just stand on the sidelines and make snide remarks about people who did. secretly, they're just envious that interesting things don't happen in their life.
the glass is half empty or half full? i'll take half empty anytime. i want to fill it up myself. coke; sprite; root beer - my choice. to me, half full means you're satisfied the way it is. which is fine, really. and it stops there. that's my perception.
only you can do magic to your life!
excuse me for my blatant rantings. ^^ -
thanks for your advice.... i click better with older folks too.... guess it's the working experience i have... it's not that i can't break the routine... it's just that it's not my option to be able to change...Originally posted by spaded:ironically, i don't click with people my age. i get along better with older folks.
life was empty for me in the past few years. until i got started on things i really wanted to do. like planning for my backpacking trip next year, etc.
i do things i like. it may be things others deem as childish, immature. but hey, who cares? at least i had fun and enjoyment. whereas people who are afraid to break out of the routine just stand on the sidelines and make snide remarks about people who did. secretly, they're just envious that interesting things don't happen in their life.
the glass is half empty or half full? i'll take half empty anytime. i want to fill it up myself. coke; sprite; root beer - my choice. to me, half full means you're satisfied the way it is. which is fine, really. and it stops there. that's my perception.
only you can do magic to your life!
excuse me for my blatant rantings. ^^ -
anyways i was on a night shift job for 5mths. totally wiped out my social life too. people playing i sleeping and vice versa. but the pay is extremely good (for my case). :/Originally posted by subzero_baby:thanks for your advice.... i click better with older folks too.... guess it's the working experience i have... it's not that i can't break the routine... it's just that it's not my option to be able to change...
the job cost me my social life, gave me dark eye circles(which are still here to stay) and dull skin (now recovered). nothing is free is this world. boo. -
dark circles round the eyes? no social life... Yup.. that's what i'm going thru... my work nature is such. and so happen that though the pay isn't as good, (quite sad actually) but i'm still enjoying my work.
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why don't u go and wank yourself subzero? it will probably do some help to your perceived monotonous state of affairs at the moment. try it
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as your nick suggests, you're a bollocky kind of person. something such as emotional/spiritual issues are lost on you. you only know carnal yearning and that's it. makes you no different from an animal.Originally posted by bollocks:why don't u go and wank yourself subzero? it will probably do some help to your perceived monotonous state of affairs at the moment. try it -
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NAY... It's actually an OPEN INVITATION...Originally posted by subzero_baby:i just missed the BBQ!!! had to work that day....
read about the dinner and dance... am i invited??? thought for MODs only... -
yup... will be going.. mark my calendar alreadi... waiting for more details.