Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
shrugs. personally, as a christian, i know how you feel. but i'm gonna point this out without using the christian viewpoint.
ok so I'll give the non-christian viewpoint to complement yours. Before some of u accuse me, let's juz say that I'm not looking for religion bashing. I'm juz letting u realise that in this world, there are people who don't believe in God and who don't think like you do. FYI, that does not make us lesser in anyway (of coz, christians will disagree

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"i know you can accept her for who she is. that's what true love is. being able to accept someone for who he or she is."
Yet non-christians are being penalised by "someone of a higher power" (if he exists) somehow for not believing...

True love?

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"it appears she cannot do that, kinda shows how shallow her love for you is. if she cannot support your decision which you know is right. which wouldn't have harmed the relationship anyway. she seems to be more interested in the "title" of being number 1. but truthfully, you know that the more you can love God, the more you can love others, including your gf."
Yeah, I guess everyone's interested in getting that no.1 spot in your heart huh? How 'shallow'

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"if she cannot understand that, and cannot accept you for who you are now, then is she really worth all this sorrow and bullshiat?
if she wants to leave, then let it be. neither one of you will be happy anyway in this situation"
yup, relationships are all about compromising.
While you're still wanting for her to "understand" u, are u 'understanding' her as well? It shouldn't be a one-way traffic u know?
Have a good talk with her. And make ur decisions.
P.S > BTW juz noticed that you mentioned that you are afraid of 'losing out in the end'. In this case, IMO this relationship is not suitable for you. Go stick to ur relationship with God, he'll always be with you - you won't 'lose out'. Not many people are able to maintain such a relation while being insistent on something that their partner strongly disagrees.