would you go for someone who's attached?
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for me, i wouldn't. i think it's wrong. but maybe it's easy for me to say cuz i've never liked someone who's attached... maybe i somehow subconsciously prevented myself from ever liking such people..
however i have liked someone who liked someone else too... that was a bit painful... -
nope .....
i feel that if both are destined to be together ....
both will meet when both are single and available
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haha i have liked someone who is my close fren, and i know he likes another girl and i helped him to chase after dat girl.Originally posted by foxwalk:for me, i wouldn't. i think it's wrong. but maybe it's easy for me to say cuz i've never liked someone who's attached... maybe i somehow subconsciously prevented myself from ever liking such people..
however i have liked someone who liked someone else too... that was a bit painful...
dat was traumatic.
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No I will not but some guys won't care.
They will still try esp. if the girl is very pretty & eligible. -
i wun make the first move
but if someone who's attached and interested in me, im open -
No I will not. 'Do not onto others what you do not want others to do to you'
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No. I believe in retribution.....if the guy/gal is attached and left him/her partner for you, do you think he/she will not leave you for another in future?
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Well, step into somebody relationship, end up one of the three will be hurt. If you want to step into such relationship, be prepared you might be the one who get hurt.
Don't blame hell or heaven if you are hurt, if you became the third who step into their relationship, you deserved to suffer, because you already know the consequences.
I have no pity over those losers who try to be the third, and I even will laugh at them. -
x 2......Originally posted by pete98:No I will not. 'Do not onto others what you do not want others to do to you' -
NO! NEVER! put yrself in the other guy's shoes. You'll be hurting someone in the process.
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How true, but sometimes you just end up meeting her at the wrong time, or the girl just married, then found a better person.Originally posted by eveline:Well, step into somebody relationship, end up one of the three will be hurt. If you want to step into such relationship, be prepared you might be the one who get hurt.
Its like you got a job, then someone calls you up for an interview, a much better firm.
its a matter of choice. Stick to ethics, or not. Anyway, just do what you think is right, and believe in it.
Of course, those people and idiots who deliberately intrudes into a relationship should be shot. (Like those women who prey on married men). -
i will not. if i'm really interested in her, i will wait.
but snatching her away from her lover is totally uncool. 
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funnily enough i agree with that statement...Originally posted by 798:i will not. if i'm really interested in her, i will wait. but snatching her away from her lover is totally uncool. 
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i'm not so proactive one....
and i wun do that... but then again, someone ever told me... if their relationship is strong, there's no way that u can break in between one... -
Originally posted by mahai102:funnily enough i agree with that statement...
what about u?
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No, for the girl who is already attached when i know her.
But I will be very sad when the girl i like for many years, becomes attached to another guy.
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unless he's the one who's interested in me,i'll consider
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my sentiment excatlyOriginally posted by alien_04:No. I believe in retribution.....if the guy/gal is attached and left him/her partner for you, do you think he/she will not leave you for another in future? -
if their current bf/gf is good the third party wont stand a chance...
i will go after if i really like... but if the target does not have interest in me i wont pester -
NO
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nope. feels wrongOriginally posted by foxwalk:for me, i wouldn't. i think it's wrong. but maybe it's easy for me to say cuz i've never liked someone who's attached... maybe i somehow subconsciously prevented myself from ever liking such people..
however i have liked someone who liked someone else too... that was a bit painful... -
As you said, meet at the "wrong" time, means it's so wrong to step in, why want to pursue the mistake further?Originally posted by _Aaron_:...
How true, but sometimes you just end up meeting her at the wrong time, or the girl just married, then found a better person.
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won't even consider.
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Nope. Never. Will never do that.Originally posted by foxwalk:for me, i wouldn't. i think it's wrong. but maybe it's easy for me to say cuz i've never liked someone who's attached... maybe i somehow subconsciously prevented myself from ever liking such people..
however i have liked someone who liked someone else too... that was a bit painful...
But to go for someone else who is single but like other guys, thats a different story. -
One word answer: no.
I will never ever get in the way of two people who are in love.
If you think that it's easy for me to say that cos I've never been in that kind of situation, think again. I was in such a situation once.
I fell in love with my junior. She was such a sweet and charming girl.
Unfortunately, she fell in love with another guy (another junior!)
My heart ached terribly. I really, really wanted to tell her how I felt about her but I realised that I couldn't. That might very well drive a wedge between them..... They really respect me as their senior (I helped the both of them with their schoolwork a lot)..... and I just didn't have the heart to risk hurting the two of them. In the end, I would end up hurting myself as well.
So I made a choice. I decided to leave them alone. Rather than risk hurting all three of us, I decided that I should be the only one who gets hurt.