would you go for someone who's attached?

• foxwalk

  11 Dec 04, 13:14

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  I just hate people who 'play dirty'...

  yup....tt lameo..
• yvonne_kua

  12 Dec 04, 10:34

  I'm someone who have broken up with my bf cos of third party. our relationship is very strong but that person kept pestering us and in the end we have to break up cos my bf is feeling not secure at all anymore so I hate those we break up ppl's relationships. Its not a gd thing to do at all, and there will be a retribution later on.
• ptw

  12 Dec 04, 12:33

  Hi Yvonne,
  
  U re right, its a cycle or rather a karma. Be it the person who is the third party or rather the person who choses to leave a relationship for the third party will ultimately suffer in future for wat he/she has made his ex suffered through if his/her current r/s doesnt work out.
  
  
• Devil1976

  13 Dec 04, 00:29

  Originally posted by yvonne_kua:

  I'm someone who have broken up with my bf cos of third party. our relationship is very strong but that person kept pestering us and in the end we have to break up cos my bf is feeling not secure at all anymore so I hate those we break up ppl's relationships. Its not a gd thing to do at all, and there will be a retribution later on.

  Doesn't seems to make the point?
• LoveOuch!

  13 Dec 04, 00:54

  love is always ouch.. ..
  
  The one u like is attached and guess what.. u still like her
  what to do what to do...
  stay and watch and can do nothing except feeling ouch at the end of everyday.
  
  i really envy of thoes pple who can recover their whatever emotion quickly... ..
• yvonne_kua

  13 Dec 04, 06:16

  Originally posted by ptw:

  Hi Yvonne,
  
  U re right, its a cycle or rather a karma. Be it the person who is the third party or rather the person who choses to leave a relationship for the third party will ultimately suffer in future for wat he/she has made his ex suffered through if his/her current r/s doesnt work out.
  
  

  Thankx for agreeing with me. other then this example I got 1 just recently. My bf and I quarrelled and then this girl came into the picture. Everyday call my bf and then slowly they fall in love. Is it love or just a special feeling cos you are down and then someone come into ur life trying to do things making you happy? I actually beg the girl to leave my bf for the sake of our child but she won't, and even told my bf that I'm bullying her and my bf in the end called to scold me. I mainly just ask her to give up my bf and let him come back to me but in the end i kanna back stab by her. Its not a very gd thing to do. I told her if my bf can do this to me he will 1 day do the same thing to her also.
  
  agree?
• GTO

  13 Dec 04, 06:47

  Last time I didnt blif in retribution until it happened to me~
  Dun ever try it lah~
  There r many wonderful single gers and guys out there~
  There is really no need to break up ppl's r/s.
  and things like its a fair game~ (not married what!?)/ if the r/s is strong enuf, nobody can get into it are crap~
  I wish I could hv been more sober back then~
  
• Canavaro

  13 Dec 04, 08:39

  Originally posted by GTO:

  Last time I didnt blif in retribution until it happened to me~
  ....
  and things like its a fair game~ (not married what!?)/ if the r/s is strong enuf, nobody can get into it are crap~
  ...
  

  and those who don't believe or don't think those are craps, they can always pass me their girl friend's number, and let me proof to them they are stupid.
  
  I am sure people with those theories are just talking C.O.C.K.
  
  else they should have give me her number and let me give them this tiny test.
  
  WaaaaaaÂ…Â…....your relationship so strong and you believe if it is strong, nothing can break it, but dare not to take this small little test? Talking Lan-Jiao isn't it?
  
  No matter how strong is the relationship, there are thousands ways to break it. You donÂ’t believe? Let me try on you.
  
  
• ThoMasSacrE

  13 Dec 04, 12:44

  i am currently in this situation..
  
  i like this gal who is attached...
  she knows it too..
  she n bf relationship is unstable n on verge of splitting..
  she asked me give her some time..
  
  i know it seems not rite to do so...
  
  but sometimes when it comes to love.. just cant help it..
  
  i have been in such situation when my ex left me for others..
  
  *i have another scenerio... wat is the gal was a divorcee n has a kid under her custody... will u go for her?*
• dibilo

  14 Dec 04, 00:20

  i dont think i'll go after someone who is attached. its just not right to take away someone else's happiness for ur own.
• tliqun

  14 Dec 04, 00:26

  Originally posted by dibilo:

  i dont think i'll go after someone who is attached. its just not right to take away someone else's happiness for ur own.

  Totally agree
• mano

  15 Dec 04, 16:08

  You may think differently after watching that korean drama-Summer Scent.
  Things can happen nop matter wat.
• mano

  15 Dec 04, 16:15

  Originally posted by ptw:

  Hi Yvonne,
  
  U re right, its a cycle or rather a karma. Be it the person who is the third party or rather the person who choses to leave a relationship for the third party will ultimately suffer in future for wat he/she has made his ex suffered through if his/her current r/s doesnt work out.
  
  

  Normally those who break ppl up are a bit wacko in the head. it'll never turn out right.