would you go for someone who's attached?
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Well, I know she is your GF, but then, why you are so selfish not letting her to have a better and happier life? Why you are so damn selfish?Originally posted by Devil1976:You're an IDIOT... She's my GF... Why won't I risk letting an idiot harass my gf...? Like if you tell me that you are 'so good and so good' then I should BELIEVE you...?
Better WORK on your MARKETING...?? "
You can go fo someone who is attached, why don't you let your attached GF to have a chance to try other?
What freaking theory? You can go for someone attached, but you don't let people go for your attached GF? WTF is that? That's a biggest joke.
You said, if relationships between both of you are good, there won't be any chance for anyone who can step in, then why you are so damn f-ing afraid of third party? Talking C.O.C.K right?
You just give me her number, as you said, this is just marketing, maybe I don't even have a chance to approach her? Then why should you so f-ing worry?
No fear, come on, let me try whether I can break in. Come, come, come. -
stop being lame. no one would purposly try to test their r/s to see if someone can step in or not. Futher more IT"S STUPID and RUDE to give his gf's number to a stranger like you. so stop talking crap yourself.Originally posted by Canavaro:Well, I know she is your GF, but then, why you are so selfish not letting her to have a better and happier life? Why you are so damn selfish?
You can go fo someone who is attached, why don't you let your attached GF to have a chance to try other?
What freaking theory? You can go for someone attached, but you don't let people go for your attached GF? WTF is that? That's a biggest joke.
You said, if relationships between both of you are good, there won't be any chance for anyone who can step in, then why you are so damn f-ing afraid of third party? Talking C.O.C.K right?
You just give me her number, as you said, this is just marketing, maybe I don't even have a chance to approach her? Then why should you so f-ing worry?
No fear, come on, let me try whether I can break in. Come, come, come. -
Someone who said, if relationship between both of you are strong, you shouldn't afraid of 3rd party?
And then that's nothing wrong to go for somebody attached. Then tell me what's wrong for someone to go for your attached girl friend or wife? You can do it, but other cannot?
Why? Stupid theory isn't it?
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Risk??? Where is the risk? I don't see any risk?Originally posted by Devil1976:You're an IDIOT... She's my GF... Why won't I risk letting an idiot harass my gf...? Like if you tell me that you are 'so good and so good' then I should BELIEVE you...? Better WORK on your MARKETING...?? "
I am just a jerk, you give me her number, you can tell her I am a jerk.
Risk?????? Ha!
Harass? I afraid that she might found a better and happier life comparing to what you can gave to her, and eventually she enjoy. So, where is the harassment? -
"Sorry if I'm not gonna entertain you, because you fails to entertain me...."Originally posted by Canavaro:Risk??? Where is the risk? I don't see any risk?
I am just a jerk, you give me her number, you can tell her I am a jerk.
Risk?????? Ha!
Harass? I afraid that she might found a better and happier life comparing to what you can gave to her, and eventually she enjoy. So, where is the harassment?
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veri wei da...Originally posted by fudgester:One word answer: no.
I will never ever get in the way of two people who are in love.
If you think that it's easy for me to say that cos I've never been in that kind of situation, think again. I was in such a situation once.
I fell in love with my junior. She was such a sweet and charming girl.
Unfortunately, she fell in love with another guy (another junior!)
My heart ached terribly. I really, really wanted to tell her how I felt about her but I realised that I couldn't. That might very well drive a wedge between them..... They really respect me as their senior (I helped the both of them with their schoolwork a lot)..... and I just didn't have the heart to risk hurting the two of them. In the end, I would end up hurting myself as well.
So I made a choice. I decided to leave them alone. Rather than risk hurting all three of us, I decided that I should be the only one who gets hurt.
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erm.... what's the meaning of 'wei da'? Sorry, but I'm not chinese....Originally posted by Steph84:veri wei da... -
Meaning you're very noble...Originally posted by fudgester:erm.... what's the meaning of 'wei da'? Sorry, but I'm not chinese.... -
Wah.... thanks.....Originally posted by Devil1976:Meaning you're very noble... -
i'll juz leave them alone.. ur turn will come if he or she is meant for u..
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quote you another example:Originally posted by o(O.o)o:ditto!! yupx i realliE fond of this cute gal frm muh class..
and yeaHx, she's attached.. so im waiting..not even givin' e slightest hint tt i lyk her, for she would prollie b troubled if she realised so.
*thoughtful
if you like your brother-in-law, you can't be confessed your love to her right? -
AGREED!!!..Originally posted by cutepixie:stop being lame. no one would purposly try to test their r/s to see if someone can step in or not. Futher more IT"S STUPID and RUDE to give his gf's number to a stranger like you. so stop talking crap yourself. -
I quite like this example.
What if the married or attached one is your brotherÂ’s lover?
Go for her lor, is your happiness what, is your future what, who care how your brother feel, sister-in-law, or girlfriend-in-law? So what, as long as you like her, and she like you, then you shouldnÂ’t let go, who cares about others feeling? You all can even sleep on the same bed, as a happy all-in-one family.
If someone answer me, the one attached is family memberÂ’s lover is difference, other people love is ok, then this people must be talking Lan-Jiao.
Things get messy is because all this C.O.C.K talkers. -
Ohh.......................Originally posted by aH_v:AGREED!!!..
Super Boot Licker X 1000
I award you Boot Licker of the Year 2004! -
Not to be a third party....
Loved her and wait silently.....
Not confess to her when she already has a bf......
Liddat will only increase her unhappiness......
To choose this or that, she will feel complicated, Finally breakdown.....
If you don't want all this to happen juz stay by her side to see that her bf treat her nicely & when you can see her smiling you will feel happy....
No point in coming between a happy couple rite......
But if you really do then you are really Lame & Bad
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Exactly!Originally posted by pysche:Not to be a third party....
Loved her and wait silently.....
Not confess to her when she already has a bf......
Liddat will only increase her unhappiness......
To choose this or that, she will feel complicated, Finally breakdown.....
If you don't want all this to happen juz stay by her side to see that her bf treat her nicely & when you can see her smiling you will feel happy....
No point in coming between a happy couple rite......
But if you really do then you are really Lame & Bad
That's what we call "Unselfish Love"!
You love somebody, you should think for him/her, and not creating all those havoc for her. You think she will be happy when her boyfriend knows? ThatÂ’s perhaps is your happiness, but definitely not her.
If those idiots have the same thought like you, the society will be far better. At least we wonÂ’t see all those news like, boyfriend chopping his girlfriendÂ’s lover, etc etc.
I donÂ’t think those idiots understand what is love. -
Of course, would have to depend on the situation what...?Originally posted by Canavaro:I quite like this example.
What if the married or attached one is your brotherÂ’s lover?
Go for her lor, is your happiness what, is your future what, who care how your brother feel, sister-in-law, or girlfriend-in-law? So what, as long as you like her, and she like you, then you shouldnÂ’t let go, who cares about others feeling? You all can even sleep on the same bed, as a happy all-in-one family.
If someone answer me, the one attached is family memberÂ’s lover is difference, other people love is ok, then this people must be talking Lan-Jiao.
Things get messy is because all this C.O.C.K talkers.
Give you an AH MA you want or not...? Don't give STUPID EXAMPLES... Just because such things MIGHT happen, don't mean that it's applicable to EVERY SITUATION... -
People AGREE with you is RIGHT and people who don't are boot-lickers..??Originally posted by Canavaro:Ohh.......................
Super Boot Licker X 1000
I award you Boot Licker of the Year 2004!
PLS... SPARE ME YOUR CHILDISHNESS..
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The TOPIC is "would you go for someone who's attached?"
Some people would do it... Some people won't... Some people just doing it for the SAKE OF DOING IT...
But don't have to be SO EXTREME in all cases...?
I think majority who REACT VIOLENTLY to this topic are people who had suffered such a blow themselves or thinking along the last category...? 
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err, i hav experienced b4..my heart say yes but my mind told me not to..he's wif his gf for abt 6 yrs...after so much struggle btw us..he married her becoz his mum told him not to let his gf down..however, he regretted after he married her..haiz, it's too late rite??
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lets put it this way. if you wana be a third party go ahead, you can try and see if the person wants to be with you or will be happier with you but if the person doesnt like you and doesnt want to have anything to do with you then you should just move on and leave them alone.
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Originally posted by Canavaro:
agree x 2!
Exactly!
That's what we call "Unselfish Love"!
You love somebody, you should think for him/her, and not creating all those havoc for her. You think she will be happy when her boyfriend knows? ThatÂ’s perhaps is your happiness, but definitely not her.
If those idiots have the same thought like you, the society will be far better. At least we wonÂ’t see all those news like, boyfriend chopping his girlfriendÂ’s lover, etc etc.
I donÂ’t think those idiots understand what is love.
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Originally posted by Canavaro:
Agree X2 X2 !!!!
Exactly!
That's what we call "Unselfish Love"!
You love somebody, you should think for him/her, and not creating all those havoc for her. You think she will be happy when her boyfriend knows? ThatÂ’s perhaps is your happiness, but definitely not her.
If those idiots have the same thought like you, the society will be far better. At least we wonÂ’t see all those news like, boyfriend chopping his girlfriendÂ’s lover, etc etc.
I donÂ’t think those idiots understand what is love.
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Suddenly everybody becomes so unselfish...?
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I just hate people who 'play dirty'...Originally posted by cutepixie:lets put it this way. if you wana be a third party go ahead, you can try and see if the person wants to be with you or will be happier with you but if the person doesnt like you and doesnt want to have anything to do with you then you should just move on and leave them alone.