How u average girls respond to guys?
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If a guy wants to ask u out, i.e. smes u to ask when ur free and stuff. If u like him u would obviously acknowledge and determine a time and stuff right?
Now if u do not like him and want him to piss off, being local and shy and shit.. which of the following would u do?
(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c) : Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d) blatantly say piss off creep
Most likely would be (C) or (A) right? Coz of traditional confucian CME niceness and racial indirectness correct? (despite globalisation). -
i choose (b)
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
seriously....im quite direct n a couple of months ago,this HKie guy in my gym asked me out persistantly till i got so annoyed that he just could not accept no and so then i told him im wont be free...ever... -
i'm a guy but i tink girls wil choose option C because they like to haf the attention of guys and being able to show that someone is actually interested in them and they dun wanna lose tt feeling so soon..Originally posted by men_@_arms:If a guy wants to ask u out, i.e. smes u to ask when ur free and stuff. If u like him u would obviously acknowledge and determine a time and stuff right?
Now if u do not like him and want him to piss off, being local and shy and shit.. which of the following would u do?
(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c) : Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d) blatantly say piss off creep
Most likely would be (C) or (A) right? Coz of traditional confucian CME niceness and racial indirectness correct? (despite globalisation).
well tt doesnt apply to all girls because of course there are good ones out thr who are really into relationship and will nvr do tis kinda ting... -
If I know the guy - friend or acquaintance or friend of friend then will be A or C.Originally posted by men_@_arms:If a guy wants to ask u out, i.e. smes u to ask when ur free and stuff. If u like him u would obviously acknowledge and determine a time and stuff right?
Now if u do not like him and want him to piss off, being local and shy and shit.. which of the following would u do?
(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c) : Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d) blatantly say piss off creep
Most likely would be (C) or (A) right? Coz of traditional confucian CME niceness and racial indirectness correct? (despite globalisation).
If I dont know the fella - total stranger then will be D. -
i'd choose e)
(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c): Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d): blatantly say piss off creep
(e): reply with "I am guy, you gay!" -
doesnt work to try to get advce from the very same pple u r swearing at,,
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tell me this is a fox talk...Originally posted by foxwalk:doesnt work to try to get advce from the very same pple u r swearing at,, -
*shrugs*.. Blow me.Originally posted by foxwalk:doesnt work to try to get advce from the very same pple u r swearing at,, -
okie my verdict of all local girls would be C then. Thanks/
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alright i take that back. I'm sorry. I guess i woke up on the wrong side o da bed this mornin..Originally posted by men_@_arms:*shrugs*.. Blow me. -
er...wat does this line mean?Originally posted by men_@_arms:alright i take that back. I'm sorry. I guess i woke up on the wrong side o da bed this mornin.. -
it means i am/was in a foul mood today.Originally posted by huiz:er...wat does this line mean? -
cook up an excuse to turn it down. if he persistently continues smsing me, & he still dun get it, i will be annoyed & may reply him like: 'u very free hor....keep smsing me asking me to go out'.
hopes he get the hint wifout making me deal him a full impact.
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wha....so 'hen xin'Originally posted by huiz:cook up an excuse to turn it down. if he persistently continues smsing me, & he still dun get it, i will be annoyed & may reply him like: 'u very free hor....keep smsing me asking me to go out'.
hopes he get the hint wifout making me deal him a full impact. -
i oso dun hope to give him a full impact...but most sensible guys shld get the msg after being turned down so many times, rite? if a girl really wanna go out wif u, she wun turn u down so many times. even if she is really busy but still want to go out wif u, she will say something like 'today cannot, but i am free tomorrow.'Originally posted by NeonTetra:wha....so 'hen xin' -
Dun like him? Make things clear to him. Dun make him wait for a reply.
A direct rejection is what I would do most of the time. But can still be friends. -
I would choose (a).
No need to waste a SMS doing this sort of things. If I do not know you, do not need to bother about doing this kind of things. I probably just save the number in my contact list and next time when I see the number, I just delete the message right away. -
None of the choices are pleasant. So moral of the story is NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT BY SMS. IT SHOWS COWARDICE AND REFLECTS ON THE PERSON"S LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE. Best is to approach the girl directly and ask her out in the most charming voice you haveOriginally posted by men_@_arms:If a guy wants to ask u out, i.e. smes u to ask when ur free and stuff. If u like him u would obviously acknowledge and determine a time and stuff right?
Now if u do not like him and want him to piss off, being local and shy and shit.. which of the following would u do?
(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c) : Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d) blatantly say piss off creep
Most likely would be (C) or (A) right? Coz of traditional confucian CME niceness and racial indirectness correct? (despite globalisation).
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some gals are really shy... so they will only go for group outings or double dates... depends on the gal laa... cannot just choose a b c or d
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DAmmit your right! How could i have been such a mouse?!Originally posted by shade343:None of the choices are pleasant. So moral of the story is NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT BY SMS. IT SHOWS COWARDICE AND REFLECTS ON THE PERSON"S LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE. Best is to approach the girl directly and ask her out in the most charming voice you have
But then again, other girls tell me i sound like a girl on the phone, which erodes me self confidence..
But then agaiN? FUck them, im good and larger and better looking than most of their local alternatives, i'll be ALL THAT I CAN BE and give her a CALL voice to VOICE to ask if she's free on a SPECIFIC date and time for an event. YEAH!
however.. i've prolly used up all her patience by asking her the 1st time via sms.. so maybe i shan't bother..
But wait. I've got nothing to LOSE ffs!
Oh man this is so confusing..lol -
Originally posted by men_@_arms:okie my verdict of all local girls would be C then. Thanks/
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Couldn't agree moreOriginally posted by shade343:None of the choices are pleasant. So moral of the story is NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT BY SMS. IT SHOWS COWARDICE AND REFLECTS ON THE PERSON"S LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE. Best is to approach the girl directly and ask her out in the most charming voice you have
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sms is convenient, softens the 'impact' if rejected
self confidence is leaking.. can't even get my fingers to type that sms, argh! -
True confidence is displayed from the voice...not sms.Originally posted by risou:sms is convenient, softens the 'impact' if rejected
self confidence is leaking.. can't even get my fingers to type that sms, argh!
Rejection has got to be seen as daily bread. Got to be trained...
That way, you won't flinch even when you see a sophisticated lady walkin towards you. -
[quote]Originally posted by amuletgurl:
[b]i choose (b)
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
me too, hehe..i'm a fair person..dun wan to waste his time..if he's being rej a few times, he shld guess liao lah..