Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:
You are in a pub, having a discussion with a group of strangers. The topic of conversation is one in which you are an expert. But it seems that everyone else, no matter how little they know about the subject, knows more than you.
You walk into a party. In the corner are some women. Without even knowing your name, or what you do, you can almost hear them looking at you and thinking 'Nah!'.
You may be courageous and cultured. You may be strong, sophisticated and intelligent. You may be fit, capable, generous and funny. But sometimes the most important thing in the world seems to be the fact that your head is a few inches closer to the ground than the average man's.
It can be frustrating and emasculating, depressing and tiring. But more than anything, it can be baffling. You know who you are and what you are capable of. You know you are normal, and have as much to offer the world as the next person. But sometimes others don't see it that way. Why?
If you are short, this is a daily problem. But like all problems, if you can understand it, you are half way to solving it. You may not be able to eradicate the problem, but at least you can be comfortable knowing what you are dealing with, and you can develop strategies to minimise the impact of it
Pride and PrejudiceWhat is prejudice? Let's consult a dictionary.
prej·u·dice
n.
An adverse judgement or opinion formed beforehand or
without knowledge or examination of the facts.
A preconceived preference or idea.
The act or state of holding unreasonable preconceived judgements or
convictions. See Synonyms at predilection.
Irrational suspicion or hatred of a particular group, race, or religion.
Detriment or injury caused to a person by the preconceived,
unfavourable conviction of another or others.
Yes, knowing who you are and what you are capable of will definitely help you to understand and solve the problem but knowing who adds the pressure and stress and being overly mindful of what
some other people might perhaps help you as well.
You are angry and fustrated with yourself for being short. Being unable to can't control what others think of you or what you do does not mean you have to be unfair to yourself and move inches backward.
Acknowledging to be short in certain areas is also a sign of being taller.