BF flirting in net
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Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
The reason was he was acting strangely lately for 1 week. Last time, he used 2 call & msg me evryday. Now, he kept sayin he is busy.
Wat should I do??
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burn his comp~
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the 2 of u need to talk and communicate and sort things out
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flirt back with him...and when the time is rite...meet up with him....let him get the shock of his life! and also let him know ur capable of flirting as well.....re-kindle that flame bah....think he's just bored n prefers new n exciting happenings.Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
The reason was he was acting strangely lately for 1 week. Last time, he used 2 call & msg me evryday. Now, he kept sayin he is busy.
Wat should I do?? -
i guess wif tiger .... flirt wif him and meet him ... then he get shock
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its time to get another bf lar....flirt wif other guys infront of his face ba
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cannot.....like that not shiok....get him to realise that he's missing out a BIG part of her...then DUMP him!Originally posted by amuletgurl:its time to get another bf lar....flirt wif other guys infront of his face ba
wahahahahahahahaaaaa
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ask her to kiss other guys when he's around,that will crush him even if he's losing feelings for herOriginally posted by tiggersgd:cannot.....like that not shiok....get him to realise that he's missing out a BIG part of her...then DUMP him!
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no need bah....kissing is intimate leh...flirting is enuff to "K" him liao. being touchy (putting hands on the other person's thigh for eg) is gd enuff.Originally posted by amuletgurl:ask her to kiss other guys when he's around,that will crush him even if he's losing feelings for her 
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you should play along with him lar.. ask him whether he have galfrenzs or not; ask him his sexual experience, you should lead him on by saying you are having a few fuck buddies, ask him on his comments, etc.Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
The reason was he was acting strangely lately for 1 week. Last time, he used 2 call & msg me evryday. Now, he kept sayin he is busy.
Wat should I do?? -
I actually second this. Let him have the shock of his life. Then the two of you can sit down and talk. (While looking at his dumb-founded expression)Originally posted by tiggersgd:flirt back with him...and when the time is rite...meet up with him....let him get the shock of his life! and also let him know ur capable of flirting as well.....re-kindle that flame bah....think he's just bored n prefers new n exciting happenings. -
Or be evil.
Date him out or wait for him to date you out.
Purposely ask him out the same day as yourself
Ok, so he turns you down but you turn up at the location with another guy -
Don't we flirt on the NET at times?
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Actually i wouldn't support the idea of 'playing the game back'
It'll just lead the relationship to more strain.
She should ask him to be honest with her, before she blows up big time and give him a chance to explain himself. Then they could discuss what went wrong with the relationship and correct it.
Making bf jealous by flirting and other means would only hurt herself.
Not only her bf would feel jealous...but think that she's cheap and hence taking it as a good chance to suggest break up...why risk it? -
Hi all
Thanks 4 all the replies
I think I will continue 2 observe his reactions lor. Continue 2 c wat are his replies.. Oh, btw, we had been together for half a year. I m 27 & he is 26. -
ok. cherish the relationshipOriginally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
Thanks 4 all the replies
I think I will continue 2 observe his reactions lor. Continue 2 c wat are his replies.. Oh, btw, we had been together for half a year. I m 27 & he is 26. -
suck thumb lor
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yes rvt2004,
cherish the relationship.
As a guy, i must say that sometimes who stray. Not every guy will stick with his partner for life ...
sometimes when we sit in the bus, we look out of the window and wonder about whats happening in another bus.
To confront or date him out to give him a shock of his life , will merely just a way to spite him .... but if he wants to spite you back, he will leave you. unless that's what you want.... but i doubt so right missy, else, we wouldn't see you post here.
looking at your age, i hope you are no greenies in the dating game.
You got to know where you guy is the passive or a reactive guy...or maybe some other pattern....u know what i mean.
Don't think we can tell you what to do.
But generally, some guys may have some specific need for interest. For example, he may likes to flirt...In fact nothing wrong with that...except perhaps with other girls. Remember the times when both of you just started out? I am sure he flirts alot with you. Don't he?
Over time, as both of you get to know each other more, there's not much things to flirt. Guys like to flirt with things that he can't get, when he got it.... well you know how the story goes usually.
how would you expect if you confront him or date him? do you expect him to melt down on his kneels and beg you for forgiveness? I doubt so ..really.
Even if he does, there's alwyas the stigma later in the relation that you made a fool out of him. Man has ego. Unless you man doesn't. But again , I doubt so.
What I suggest is to tell him online that you already have a BF in real life or just got to know a new BF and how good he is. Slowly distance from him. One important thing here you can mention is that he is sure a nice person and will definately find someone that loves him very much. This will proabably work becasue in real life he's got you to fall back on. Man's like a grown up baby, when he's hurt emationally, he will run back to the one who can shower him with unonditonal love.
Be there for him. He will feel that all the online dating are all shit when he spend some much time sizing the friendster up and yet she let him down.
From there, pick the pieces up. Some times, one have to pretend we don't know anything ina relationship. He may still give u cold shoulder. Hopefully he doesn't friend another friendster.
Do some thing different with him. Dress differently. As much as I hate to say, Man are visible creatures. If you are scantily dress, then try dressing conservatively. Vice versa. but don't go over board. Us e adifferent perfurm.
Know his prefernce for day and night but ask him subtlely. Gather much more info about him...again subtlely. He just lost his online friend and now he's vulnerable. get to know him as much as you can but subtlely.
Tough work? yes...no one say that relationship is like candle, once you started the flame it will continue to burn.
There is always a reason when man go astray. And the reason ain't superfical. Take an extreme case, the man may appears charge up with sex drive, but what really interest him maybe just a listening ear over a romantic dinner. The obvious is just to shield ones vulnerablilties.
Once you discover his vulnerabilites and love him for it, your man will love you for life.
Have a good life and love it ! -
If i were you, I won't be able to tolerate the fact he's playing with friendster.
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maybe a bit sian abt u liao loh...Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
The reason was he was acting strangely lately for 1 week. Last time, he used 2 call & msg me evryday. Now, he kept sayin he is busy.
Wat should I do?? -
wah lay, why u so straight forward....Originally posted by zacken99:maybe a bit sian abt u liao loh... -
and i think he rides a RVF~Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
Thanks 4 all the replies
I think I will continue 2 observe his reactions lor. Continue 2 c wat are his replies.. Oh, btw, we had been together for half a year. I m 27 & he is 26.
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friendster is EVILOriginally posted by ditzy:If i were you, I won't be able to tolerate the fact he's playing with friendster.
kill it! -
i frank mahOriginally posted by temptation:wah lay, why u so straight forward....