BF flirting in net
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hmmm dun so sensitive lor... maybe like what someone earlier had say... sometimes guys tend to stray... but tat may not mean he dun love u anymore... jus moment of fun and laughter... this does not conclude that he love that girl at the other side of the computer or what.... maybe juss out of boredom den ask for numbers or wat... cos thos eppl out there may ena nth to him... jus merely strangers... he wun mind hurting them... no hamr to him... but u to him is another matter... u are someone he cherish and treat seriously not out fo pure fun den msg u call u... there are many phases in a relationsip sometime when relationship got into another phases, things may change may fade... u cant expect him to be that enthusiatic abt u anymore cos both of u have got into a more familiarise stage... u noe each other better deeper... theres nth much more interesting abt u to him already... hhha anyway u also one kind... imagine how he will feel when h got to noe that u actually got a fake nick and secretly tried to flirt with him he see wat he will response...if he got to know abt this i think he will be quarreling with u on y u dun trsut him rather then u having a chance to fuss with him on why he ask for other ppl's numbers... haiz... learn to ginore... maybe that will make ur life better, happier... trust mi.. led ur own life.. if he can do this to u, of cos u have the capability to do it to him too... part and puzzle of life... accept and forget...
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Well... high chances of you dumping him for good. Man who flirts around even when they are attached simply implies that they are not satisfied with what they already have. In addition, these men are basically looking for alternative and supplements.Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
The reason was he was acting strangely lately for 1 week. Last time, he used 2 call & msg me evryday. Now, he kept sayin he is busy.
Wat should I do??
It's really up to you to decide what you want for yourself in this type of relationship.. what's the fruit out of it and once you figured it out.. you will know what you should do.
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Sigh.. I search for years for my special someone.. those who found it, didn't cherish it. Why... -
just wondering... did you start the chat? in other words, did you set a trap for him?...
guys seldom reject a free meal when its delivered to their doorstep... get wat i mean? now you must see if he makan the free meal
Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
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Originally posted by rvf2004:Hi all
I had discovered tat my bf is flirting in Friendster. How did I discovered was tat I used another nickname 2 chat wif him. He asked for my contact number. Y did he do so wen he is attached? I felt so angry and
The reason was he was acting strangely lately for 1 week. Last time, he used 2 call & msg me evryday. Now, he kept sayin he is busy.
Wat should I do??
Sometimes a little flirting doesn't harm if it is part of his character. But when it goes beyond that little line and add a small dose of deception, the issue deepens and is usually no longer plain flirting. Man under this category usually has the INTENTION to fool around consciously and this is their choice, not breed from their seemingly-friendly personality.
Attempting to know someone and attempting to ask for contact number is really doubtful. His intention is questionable.
You may wished to check things out, instead of taking the back seat and wait until something really happens. Probably nothing serious actually came out from the little online flirting, but you should monitor him; his body language and his attitude towards the relationship. To blast things now, would far be too early.
P.S: Remember, you are giving him the benefit of the doubt and THIS is indeed a chance given. You will learn something new and when situation ain't favourable, at least you did what you ought to do as a gf.
Cheers