Mixed signals/feelings?
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majority of the girls tend to have this ability of noeing if one is interested in them or someone else.. hahaha!Originally posted by pete98:Too bad our power not not strong enough to tell us how guy/ladies really feels about each other
Sigh! Ever get the feeling that this falling in love thingy is rather overrated? Is the feeling of pleasure worth the amount of hurt/pain we goes through constantly? -
not necessary.. frm my intelligence reports, my crush seem not able to forget someone.. and it been 4 yrs already... and during this 4 yrs.. she got attached with other guys too.. but all screwed up badly.Originally posted by icyprincess:When it is strong enuff, you will know.
I am also taking a risk now, there is no guarantee that I wun end up hurt again.
But I think the happiness you get in return, might be more than worth it...
So it is up to you...
They said the human being's heart is quite resilient, so really we have nothing to lose, the pain will only make us wiser anyway
i.c.y
sometime i do wonder why she 'reject' me in the first place? hahaha... is it becos of our r/s in office? or she just see me as a pt-bf? or she just doesnt wan to hurt me as she see me as a closed frd whom she badly wan to treasure? but den.. everyone ard us are gossiping tat we are an item, she do like me n so...
tmdz... woman. -
u arent the onli guy in such situation. i also met ladies whom i liked who just wan to be frd with me.. but den when i ask myself how much do i like her... i donno the ans.Originally posted by pete98:I am also taking a risk too. Just that this time the chance of success is lower than before. Hope I am not commiting emotion suicide. I just seem to be falling for ladies who just want to be friends. But I guess I mature a bit after each rejection. BTW thanks for your kind words and best of luck to your R/S
sad to say.. thou i click well with girls.. and they see me as their brothers or sisters more than a potential husband to be!
well, to sound a bit lame..... at least ya still single... and got a bigger variety of girls for ya to choose! hahahahaaaa -
heck care her lah! be a jerk! hahahaOriginally posted by kuuga:well..at least you are better than me..she will only initiate sms once in a blue moon when she feels like it..(thats what i think...
) Now i have mixed feelings about this...
like me... i dont really bother to sms her these days.. unless there a need lah... if really do need to find her.. during office hr... go her office n look for her.. at nite.. if she online.. den msn her lor.. beside tat.... onli sms when required. haha..
how to say... everyday tok also sian mah... let take this for example.. during my BMT period.. i seldom tok to my them, and when i booked out.. beside my foul mood tat is pile up frm BMT.. basically, i find tat i hav more things to tok to my parents.. and i do miss them.. but before i was enlisted, i everyday face my parents, has nothing to tok to them, always stuck in my rm and easily get into an arguement with them. hope u get wat i trying to explain. -
gers are root of evil xD..dey cause mi to go into depression lol..my ex was a complete disaster..she break wif mi..i sad..at 1st gt ABIT care..den lata fcuk care mi liao lol..she dun even care bout mi..last time searchin for gd nite msg 2 send her..but den..she nv reply 1 at all..fcuk lol..maybe she din even see..tinkin back nw..im so dumb..><..look for gers who are gd and nt hack care type betta =D..nw i gt tings den sms her sia..last time tink like hell 2 tok 2 her..she jus hack care mi..close topic aft another..nw frm a guy who like e feeling of love..i turn into 1 who ish a feelingless soul ><
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This is so weird
Now she agrees to go out with me to the zoo tomorrow. And she ask me to find out when and where will there be a foam party so we can go together. Its time like this that I really wonder what the hell is going on. 
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she ask u to go out to have fun together wat!Originally posted by pete98:This is so weird Now she agrees to go out with me to the zoo tomorrow. And she ask me to find out when and where will there be a foam party so we can go together. Its time like this that I really wonder what the hell is going on.
dont think too much! just treat it as a normal outing with a buddy!
but of cos be urself tat day with ur best performance!
gd lucks! -
Oh it will be my best perfomance cos I arrange for a fine dinning in the eveningOriginally posted by edLow:she ask u to go out to have fun together wat!
dont think too much! just treat it as a normal outing with a buddy!
but of cos be urself tat day with ur best performance!
gd lucks!
after the outing to pre-celebrate christmas(shes going back to Malaysia next week) with her. I even got a inexpensive gift(a small precious tots jewel box <$20) for her as a gesture of goodwill. -
pete...after you've read my dating forum.
Still convinced that princess treatment works in favour for you yeah?
Try it this time and tell me how it goes.
All the best. -
Princess treatment??? Just a meal and a small gift only to celebrate Christmas what. Don't you treat the people you like to a nice meal once in a while or on a special occasion? And the gift is inexpensive(abt $15) so I don't see anything special about that.Originally posted by M©+square:pete...after you've read my dating forum.
Still convinced that princess treatment works in favour for you yeah?
Try it this time and tell me how it goes.
All the best. -
Cannot lar Heng... if everyone turns asexual.Originally posted by HENG@:dun bother. go asexual.
Singapore will be invaded by foreigners. Then the native Singaporeans will only take up 5% of the population here in 50 years time... Scary thought! C'mon people, raise more babies! -
You don't get the underlying meaning. It's ok.Originally posted by pete98:Princess treatment??? Just a meal and a small gift only to celebrate Christmas what. Don't you treat the people you like to a nice meal once in a while or on a special occasion? And the gift is inexpensive(abt $15) so I don't see anything special about that.
All the best anyway. -
Wrong slogan. You forgot most people in this forum either have R/S problem or are most properly still singles. Should be 'C'mon people, get girlfriend/married and then raise more babies'.Originally posted by _Aaron_:Cannot lar Heng... if everyone turns asexual.
Singapore will be invaded by foreigners. Then the native Singaporeans will only take up 5% of the population here in 50 years time... Scary thought! C'mon people, raise more babies! -
How sweet! :] But don't put your whole heart on the line, because if she doesn't feel for you... she can't give you any promises or hopes.Originally posted by pete98:Oh it will be my best perfomance cos I arrange for a fine dinning in the evening after the outing to pre-celebrate christmas(shes going back to Malaysia next week) with her. I even got a inexpensive gift(a small precious tots jewel box <$20) for her as a gesture of goodwill.
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'underlying meaning' <>.Originally posted by M©+square:You don't get the underlying meaning. It's ok.
All the best anyway. -
if you have read his post regarding the princess stuff..you should know what to expect from your princess..
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No worries thereOriginally posted by choco B:How sweet! :] But don't put your whole heart on the line, because if she doesn't feel for you... she can't give you any promises or hopes. not the first time I been rejected. I am kind of in the stage of desiring but not expecting happy ending. 
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i think i will go back to your forum and read it again..then will assess my current situation...Originally posted by M©+square:You don't get the underlying meaning. It's ok.
All the best anyway.
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Wad situation? Post a topic in Dating Tips Forum? You'll have assistance here at AA and there.Originally posted by kuuga:i think i will go back to your forum and read it again..then will assess my current situation...
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Its more like what possiblities to expect from my actions.Originally posted by kuuga:if you have read his post regarding the princess stuff..you should know what to expect from your princess.. Hell I may be commiting emotional suicide but it would be a interesing experience. -
Hey where the princess part I can't seems to find it.
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hmm...
personally i dun believe in playing games like that... especially if i like the guy.. but i may play other games.. -
pete98, wat u wanna do is OKAY. but make sure dont make urself so cheap for her.. hang urself high up too. maybe try to be a "jerk" for awhile too den give her tat surprise again...Originally posted by M©+square:You don't get the underlying meaning. It's ok.
All the best anyway. -
lemme teach you a new term. SOS - sort of seeing. me and my girls use that.Originally posted by edLow:not necessary.. frm my intelligence reports, my crush seem not able to forget someone.. and it been 4 yrs already... and during this 4 yrs.. she got attached with other guys too.. but all screwed up badly.
sometime i do wonder why she 'reject' me in the first place? hahaha... is it becos of our r/s in office? or she just see me as a pt-bf? or she just doesnt wan to hurt me as she see me as a closed frd whom she badly wan to treasure? but den.. everyone ard us are gossiping tat we are an item, she do like me n so...
tmdz... woman.
IMO, a guy is only considered BF when the girl sacrificed something (time, outings with friends, classes, etc) for him.
SOS is usually someone whom you enjoy hanging out with but not r/s material. -
hmm prehaps? i find tat i'm more click as a girl's brother/sister compare to be a girl's bf. haha.Originally posted by spaded:lemme teach you a new term. SOS - sort of seeing. me and my girls use that.
IMO, a guy is only considered BF when the girl sacrificed something (time, outings with friends, classes, etc) for him.
SOS is usually someone whom you enjoy hanging out with but not r/s material.
i'm controling myself now.. cos i dont wanna fall too deep. at the same tme, be a "jerk" too. hahaha