Life is full of uncertainties and I'm so depressed
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you also can be unhappy one meh?Originally posted by the.raven:i'm always unhappy, can anyone help
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Do all people who do business always feel depressed one ah?
My friend who has been doing business always suffers from depression.
Now I am beginning to be like him. -
Just rec'd a call (yes it's past 12 midnight) from my client who is going to bring me two new client.
Cham ah... now I so excited that I cannot sleep. How?
(who is next to get insomnia? ) -
try this(it may seems silly but it might helps):Originally posted by the.raven:i'm always unhappy, can anyone help
look into a mirror, try to make diff. funny faces, eg. stretch ur lips, pull ur cheeks, squeeze ur face, pretend to be an ape....watever
After tat, u realise tat u look like an absolute idiot and have a great laugh!! -
that's GOOD news for you, y so excited until cannot sleep. Should feel relieve when things start to get better.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Just rec'd a call (yes it's past 12 midnight) from my client who is going to bring me two new client.
Cham ah... now I so excited that I cannot sleep. How?
(who is next to get insomnia? ) -
maybe I'm just too paranoid.Originally posted by No_Problemo:that's GOOD news for you, y so excited until cannot sleep. Should feel relieve when things start to get better. -
Life is full of uncertainties, if you look on the bright side, there are plenty opportunities.
If you are not flexible and only desire for things that will magically turn out good for you.. well, depression will just follow.
Happiness starts from how your mind thinks.
"A poor man who is contented may be a happier man then a rich man who's constantly trying hard to make his wealth bigger."... so.. choose your path wisely. -
I don't think its depression, i think its called 'stress'.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Do all people who do business always feel depressed one ah?
My friend who has been doing business always suffers from depression.
Now I am beginning to be like him.
Businessmen all experience a certain amount of stress, and i'm sure they didn't get used to it within a month. Give yourself some time, and find some ways to destress..
Go ktv, exercise, listen to some cds, hang out with some friends. It'll help.
Remember, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy~ -
Yeah... It can usually DRAINS you QUITE ALOT... BE PREPARED...Originally posted by Honeybunz:Do all people who do business always feel depressed one ah?
My friend who has been doing business always suffers from depression.
Now I am beginning to be like him.
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Depression is an illness that can be treated. Usually it occurs when feelings of emptiness & meaningless creep in...the only way to counter depression is to stay busy & keep yourself occupied.
I was depressed a few months back...everything felt hopeless..but after I posted my depression in another forum...i had lots of people encouraging me & they advised me to keep myself busy...
Another friend told me what I was suffering was just a temporary phase that would go away...he said his life was depressing & he thought of suicide but what stopped him from that was he couldn't bear to leave his wife & two young children without a father...
Now I don't feel depressed anymore...so stay positive in your outlook in life...there are people who are suffering in this world like hunger, poverty, sickness, etc... when you think of that, you will count your blessings & not be depressed anymore. -
Try getting another partner who can contribute & share yr burden if this one is not successful.
My relative started his own business & has to wait 2 yrs before seeing profit.
Keep on trying & don't give up.
Most impt. is to have family & friends support. -
Those of us in cubicles(sort of like animals at a farm or ranch if you think about it....) working for a paycheck also very sianz sometimes...both got plus and minus points lah.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Do all people who do business always feel depressed one ah?
My friend who has been doing business always suffers from depression.
Now I am beginning to be like him.
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Starting up your own business is never easy especially in the beginning. But then again, if starting up one's own business was simple and stress free, everybody would be a business person.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Do all people who do business always feel depressed one ah?
My friend who has been doing business always suffers from depression.
Now I am beginning to be like him.
Like what a lot of business people will say, you will likely fail a few (or many) times before you succeed.
I know it sounds very cliched when I say this but whatever business you are doing, make sure that you at least have an interest in it or a passion to do it. I know that ultimately the bottomline is that you need to make money from the business to survive. Heck, everybody needs to eat. But with passion, it will at least give you the determination and courage to push on and weather the storms that come your way while you learn the ropes and become familiar with the business until it becomes a viable source of income.
In my opinion, even if at the end of the day the business fails, you lose a lot of money and you have to give it up, you will still come out of it a better and more experienced person. It is an experience nobody can take away from you. YOU CHOSE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND PASSION. Isn't that what life should be all about ?
What matters is that you are happy doing what you are doing. That you are pursuing something that is, in your heart, worth pursuing. Even if there are times when you are depressed from any problems that arise from the business itself, take consolation to know that even if you were working for somebody else in a firm, you will also experience stress, albeit of a different nature.
You want to be stressed about your own problems or stressed about other people's problems ???
So whatever it is, always know why you are doing what you are doing.
