What to do when a girl suddenly starts crying?
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No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^ -
2 tight slaps on the face for all the above. I gurantee you they forgot they were crying, and in no time you have to worry for your own life.
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from the crying girl's point of view..
- leave me alone!
- just keep quiet and let me cry on your shoulder
- give me a hug. -
=_="'''''''''''''''''''''''''''Originally posted by ditzy:2 tight slaps on the face for all the above. I gurantee you they forgot they were crying, and in no time you have to worry for your own life.
Well, at least its an answer from a completely different view..
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girl here says kiss away the tears if you are the bf.
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hahahah!!!Originally posted by ditzy:2 tight slaps on the face for all the above. I gurantee you they forgot they were crying, and in no time you have to worry for your own life. -
friend.. just sit/stand beside that person and wait till she stops sobbing, then ask what happenOriginally posted by _Aaron_:No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^
good friend.. ask what happen straight away
accquaintence... "oei, you ok or not.."
stranger on the street.. "song boh, someone died ah?"
sister.. "mum....!!"
cousin... "AUNTY!!!" -
who ever it is, there are only 2 choices... wait beside her or walk away immediately...
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sit besides her and lend her my shoulders
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Maybe you can try to (if you must, force yourself to) look really concerned, look straight at her - and asks her what's the matter, and does she want to talk? Then just listen... hehe....
If you are close, you can hug her or just pat her shoulder will be fine....
If she flares up don't take it personally, shes probably just PMSy
if she looks like she just wants to be alone, eg turning away from you etc... maybe a simple, "take care, all right?" will be fine in tis case i guess... 
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HUGS! HUGS MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Unless you're not very close to her. -
all of above -> go ask wassupOriginally posted by _Aaron_:No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^
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uhh.. if you're a guy, and may be the cause of it, run the hell away.. a different time zone if possible
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mhmm...Originally posted by feenix:Maybe you can try to (if you must, force yourself to) look really concerned, look straight at her - and asks her what's the matter, and does she want to talk? Then just listen... hehe....
If you are close, you can hug her or just pat her shoulder will be fine....
If she flares up don't take it personally, shes probably just PMSy if she looks like she just wants to be alone, eg turning away from you etc... maybe a simple, "take care, all right?" will be fine in tis case i guess...
pris? =X -
assuming she is really very depressed.......Originally posted by _Aaron_:No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^
doesn't have to be a gal. even guys cry too. just say something like "i know how hard it is holding back the tears. so i always feel better after letting it all out. we can both work this out together. don't worry....... " -
slap her
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if a guy cries i'll gape.Originally posted by boy in blues:doesn't have to be a gal. even guys cry too. just say something like "i know how hard it is holding back the tears. so i always feel better after letting it all out. we can both work this out together. don't worry......."
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1st thing to doOriginally posted by _Aaron_:No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^
offer ur hankie or tisu paper
Friend/Gd friend: Simi Daiji??? Wats wrong??? Tell mi!!
Acquaintance/Stranger: R u Ok? Need help?
Sister/Cousin: Siao ah! Cry 4 wat?
From there, after u analyse the prob den render help. If prob can't b helped, den u offer ur shoulders & hugs (console)? -
1) Friend of yours - Pat or put my arm around, her shoulder and ask her what's wrong..
2) Good friend. - mebbe let her cry on moi shoulders bahx.if close enuf a hug outta help her feel betta.
2) Accquaintence - keep quiet all e way till she's done and then ask her what's wrong
3) Stranger you met on the streets. - O.o (stare blankly)
4) Sister - Don't cry lah siao. (blood sis)
5) Cousin - Si mi tai ji?
of course, if the girl's going nuts it might be advisable to stay a considerable/safe distance away from her..even if you do have insurance.. -
No matter who d lady is....
Stop to ask if everything's fine.... -
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:friend.. just sit/stand beside that person and wait till she stops sobbing, then ask what happen
good friend.. ask what happen straight away
accquaintence... "oei, you ok or not.."
stranger on the street.. "song boh, someone died ah?"
sister.. "mum....!!"
cousin... "AUNTY!!!" -
slap the girl and rape her lor.....Originally posted by _Aaron_:No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^
if not slap her 5 times every second of crying -
WAH, u mei you liang xin, rape your own sister...Originally posted by ceecookie:slap the girl and rape her lor.....
if not slap her 5 times every second of crying -
Well, I would go over, sit beside her.. hug her towards me, ask her gently what happen? Could i help in anyway? I get you water, wait for me ok? Or if not, i would just stroke her hair and hug her tightly, comforting her not to cry anymore... =)
Aaron.. Serious, Oh yeahz spaded.. I cry, once at my grandma's funeral, once at my grand father's, once at my young cousin's, once at my first break up.. Which is nov. And every night i cried, for a month.. Gaping now? lolz...
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1) Accompany her with a box of tissue, she needs your company more than your concerns. ^_^Originally posted by _Aaron_:No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin
You get the idea~
What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^
2) Same as 1)...you could give her a gentle hug to calm her down. No bear hug allowed and those with Body Odour please refrain of hugging anyone at all times.
2) For Accquaintence, it won't happen to guys unless the girl is quite interested in the guy to express her sorrows to him. Can only happen in dreams and movies.
3) Ignore please, none of your business. Hate stranger guys to probe into other people's sorrow when it is none of their business.
4) No idea, guys are probably clueless enough to offer any helpful advice. Usually will go to close friends than family depending on the closeness of the family ties. If have to go to family, higher chances to confide in Mum than to Dad or Brother.
5) Will probably not happen unless relations are really close. Even then, same as 1).
Hehehe....