Analyse for me...
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U see tis girl, when we were at school we seldom talked... Our relationship is I look at her, she looked back and we looked away. Then we graduate... we met on a special occassion then suddenly she come talk to me, ask me about my new life...blah blah... den out of the blue ask me HP wat model... Huh? Why not what number? So weird... Then go home tat time we were walking with friends... I walked behind lonely again, I dun like crowds...then she turned back and glance at me... Then later that night I checked her friendster... she logged in..first time in 4 months bah.... Then later, she add all my close friends and friends, my friends also her friend lah,,, to her account.... weird thing is even those that never put picture she also noe is her friend...but she never add me... and my name just right besides hers on anybody's list... Then Christmas coming... I sent her a message on friendster ask she want wat present..she didn't reply and the next day according to my friend she whole day never online... Then my friend give me her number he got from another friend... I ask him confirm 1st... he go message her...ask her is she blahblah but no reply lehz....
Can help me analyse?
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Analyse eh..?Originally posted by Big Bot:U see tis girl, when we were at school we seldom talked... Our relationship is I look at her, she looked back and we looked away. Then we graduate... we met on a special occassion then suddenly she come talk to me, ask me about my new life...blah blah... den out of the blue ask me HP wat model... Huh? Why not what number? So weird... Then go home tat time we were walking with friends... I walked behind lonely again, I dun like crowds...then she turned back and glance at me... Then later that night I checked her friendster... she logged in..first time in 4 months bah.... Then later, she add all my close friends and friends, my friends also her friend lah,,, to her account.... weird thing is even those that never put picture she also noe is her friend...but she never add me... and my name just right besides hers on anybody's list... Then Christmas coming... I sent her a message on friendster ask she want wat present..she didn't reply and the next day according to my friend she whole day never online... Then my friend give me her number he got from another friend... I ask him confirm 1st... he go message her...ask her is she blahblah but no reply lehz....
Can help me analyse?
I think if you like her you should just go for it. She's not giving enough strong signals to determine whether she likes you or not anyway. Besides, those signals may be misleading as well.
Jia you ba. And don't ask her what she wants for a present. Be a Man and think of what you think she'll like, and just buy it for her.
Presents are supposed to be mysterious and a surprise. Spoils the fun if you know what it is beforehand.~ -
You should have seize the opportunity to get to know her better when she initiate conversation with u. Instead u acted very aloof- no wonder she don't add u into her friendster a/c.
Try contacting her now u have her no. & chat with her.
Guys must take the initiative. -
Maybe she not free?Originally posted by Big Bot:U see tis girl, when we were at school we seldom talked... Our relationship is I look at her, she looked back and we looked away. Then we graduate... we met on a special occassion then suddenly she come talk to me, ask me about my new life...blah blah... den out of the blue ask me HP wat model... Huh? Why not what number? So weird... Then go home tat time we were walking with friends... I walked behind lonely again, I dun like crowds...then she turned back and glance at me... Then later that night I checked her friendster... she logged in..first time in 4 months bah.... Then later, she add all my close friends and friends, my friends also her friend lah,,, to her account.... weird thing is even those that never put picture she also noe is her friend...but she never add me... and my name just right besides hers on anybody's list... Then Christmas coming... I sent her a message on friendster ask she want wat present..she didn't reply and the next day according to my friend she whole day never online... Then my friend give me her number he got from another friend... I ask him confirm 1st... he go message her...ask her is she blahblah but no reply lehz....
Can help me analyse?
Maybe she's not interested?
Maybe wrong number
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No need to analyse too much into it.
So far, it's a one-sided thing from you. You think too much.
Decide what you wanna do and do it. -
faint heart never wins a fair lady.
this holiday season, go and chase ur dreams.
good luck. -
Be brave enough to date her.
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This is getting weirder... I SMS her merry christmas..... then after a while she ask me I who... then I reply immediately with my name... then after a while again... she SMS... which one?... Then I SMS her my surname..... then after another long while again...she sent me back Merry Christmas..... Very weiird leh.. She really so blur meh...
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oh pls wake up.... she obviously has no interst in you.. doesnt even bother to save yr number in her hp... stop being delusional n get a life
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Becos I never give mahz....Originally posted by skeujin:oh pls wake up.... she obviously has no interst in you.. doesnt even bother to save yr number in her hp... stop being delusional n get a life -
watever... anyway sms is a rude way to intro yrslf....
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Intro? I know her 4 4 years liao...need intro ar...same class, same cca blah blah...same a lot of thing lah...Originally posted by skeujin:watever... anyway sms is a rude way to intro yrslf.... -
so? u call her b4? no rite? n u 'hijacked' her number. tts another rude thing to doOriginally posted by Big Bot:Intro? I know her 4 4 years liao...need intro ar...same class, same cca blah blah...same a lot of thing lah... -
wah lau, no need to analyse one la, like her, just woo her la
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...'hijacked' ar... I dun even see her lor... how to get her number den?Originally posted by skeujin:so? u call her b4? no rite? n u 'hijacked' her number. tts another rude thing to do -
aiya watever lah.. yr questions r same as the other thousands tt are askd in AA.... go read the old threads...
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I dunno wat to say... U must be damn frastrusted today..Originally posted by skeujin:aiya watever lah.. yr questions r same as the other thousands tt are askd in AA.... go read the old threads... -
Hmm, from the sms it seems like she doesn't really know much about you... or care much to know who you are.
If you ask me, it does look pretty one-sided.
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Yep.. i think u r rather non-existent.. wat have u been doing? same class same cca.. she approached to tok to u n show concern u act aloof or blur.. u blow it.. send sms like tt does show much sincerity.. well at least it's a start..
try getting to know her.. or maybe confess to her ( but be warned of the consequences).. if u r shy.. there r other methods tt are more sincere den a "merry xmas" sms.. a letter how u feel towards her..
i sugg u dont have any high hopes at the moment.. take a step at a time.. i dun think she'll appreciate being rushed.. start of as a fren whom u r able to converse.. den progress from there.. but the most impt thing is.. if u really like her.. DO STH CONSTRUCTIVE..
gd luck pal..
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you have a phobia of paragraphs.
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She ask me take care lehz... think no hope le hor?
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As pointed out, don't act as if you know her very well. In the first place, you don't. Get a grip of reality.
If you want to get to know her, then do so by talking to her. Don't go sneaky behind her back, ask friends get her number, etc. That tells her you are feeling insecure and most girls are simply not interested in guys like that.
Just be yourself and ask her whether she wants to meet up. If she is not interested, then just lean back and give her space. Don't try to pursue the matter further or you will come off as another irritating guy.
If she agrees to meet up, then take the chance to get to know her as a friend. Get to know her personally before getting involved because if u get involved with a hottie with a terrible personality, you are in deep crap. So, it's not worth to rush it. Most importantly, take the time and have fun. -
Well A analysis would be, She only wants to be Friends. PArticularly Your Charater seems a little like me. The only Important question is have you let the girl know your feelings about her ? Or you can get straight to the point of asking her what she thinks of you..Originally posted by Big Bot:U see tis girl, when we were at school we seldom talked... Our relationship is I look at her, she looked back and we looked away. Then we graduate... we met on a special occassion then suddenly she come talk to me, ask me about my new life...blah blah... den out of the blue ask me HP wat model... Huh? Why not what number? So weird... Then go home tat time we were walking with friends... I walked behind lonely again, I dun like crowds...then she turned back and glance at me... Then later that night I checked her friendster... she logged in..first time in 4 months bah.... Then later, she add all my close friends and friends, my friends also her friend lah,,, to her account.... weird thing is even those that never put picture she also noe is her friend...but she never add me... and my name just right besides hers on anybody's list... Then Christmas coming... I sent her a message on friendster ask she want wat present..she didn't reply and the next day according to my friend she whole day never online... Then my friend give me her number he got from another friend... I ask him confirm 1st... he go message her...ask her is she blahblah but no reply lehz....
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This girl very weird lehz... super act blur...I dunno what to do liao... U see Saturday I message her good night.....she sent me back at a intersection she met me a nice person take care... Then Sunday I sent her good night, she never reply I thought she angry... So I ask my friend to intepret her message....Then they told me intersection part....means no hope liao... So yesterday I sent her I wun bother u again..... Then she sent me back u r XXX from XXX rite?... She veri act blur lehz...I also blur, dunno how to reply... so I reply, Ya... what is ur hp number? I dun like to take from other ppl.... Then until now also never reply....VERY WEIRD LEHZ.... I also blur liao....
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Have you read what we typed out..?
Why blur? There's nothing to be blur about.
She just wants to be friends, or just treats you as a friend.
Case closed.
If you want to develop a more intimate relationship with her, then you have to woo her. There are no signs of her liking you though.