I think you're the WEIRD ONE?Originally posted by Big Bot:This girl very weird lehz... super act blur...I dunno what to do liao... U see Saturday I message her good night.....she sent me back at a intersection she met me a nice person take care... Then Sunday I sent her good night, she never reply I thought she angry... So I ask my friend to intepret her message....Then they told me intersection part....means no hope liao... So yesterday I sent her I wun bother u again..... Then she sent me back u r XXX from XXX rite?... She veri act blur lehz...I also blur, dunno how to reply... so I reply, Ya... what is ur hp number? I dun like to take from other ppl.... Then until now also never reply....VERY WEIRD LEHZ.... I also blur liao....
I will... I won't bother her again, I will even avoid all my old school special ocaasions so that I won't see her.... We'll probably nnot meet again... unless she wants me to... and if we do meet, I'll tell her... see no evil, hear no evil...nothing ever happens....Originally posted by moongster:Lean back and give her the space she needed. That's what you should do now.
Why the drastic actions?Originally posted by Big Bot:I will... I won't bother her again, I will even avoid all my old school special ocaasions so that I won't see her.... We'll probably nnot meet again... unless she wants me to... and if we do meet, I'll tell her... see no evil, hear no evil...nothing ever happens....
Erm, that's not what I meant. I am saying to lean back, stay cool, hang out with your friends. Don't need to avoid her and stuff, just treat her as a normal friend.Originally posted by Big Bot:I will... I won't bother her again, I will even avoid all my old school special ocaasions so that I won't see her.... We'll probably nnot meet again... unless she wants me to... and if we do meet, I'll tell her... see no evil, hear no evil...nothing ever happens....
Tats precisely what I am doing now... but she isn't there to see it... I am working really hard, socialising like mad, being leader for every single project I get... just to get into the University so that I can see herfor that miserable 1 year because of NS... I hate my fate....just when I wanna 4get her...I have to bump into her today....nice coincident huh? But she with her father...WTH...Originally posted by nightzip:ok, let me briefly analyse.
If i not wrong, you should be those quiet types, never socialise much...never go out much or look rather nerdy.
the reason why she looks back or wants to make friends with you is so that you could mix well with your friends and be a more open person and joke around and etc..
therefore, she may not like you. but that does not mean she will not like you if you change.
if you decide to woo her now, i can guarantee you that most prob you will fail. cuz she sort of have a compassion towards you only, not personnal like or love. you should show your leadership and spontaneouity in CCAs and excel in it and merge with your friends and be more out-going, there you may have a chance.
my 2 cents worth.![]()
Originally posted by Big Bot:Tats precisely what I am doing now... but she isn't there to see it... I am working really hard, socialising like mad, being leader for every single project I get... just to get into the University so that I can see herfor that miserable 1 year because of NS... I hate my fate....just when I wanna 4get her...I have to bump into her today....nice coincident huh? But she with her father...WTH...