Is it a big problem if your partner forgets your bday?

• pete98

  4 Jan 05, 06:54

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  haha..there was this one time, I missed him so much dat I even dreamed of him. It was on the day of my birthday. I guess I was really expecting him to wish me on the actual day, so in my dream, he did wish me and even gave me the teddy bear that I have been eyeing for quite a while now...but guess dat dream didn't come true...
  
  i.c.y

  You sound so much like me except you are a lady. Is it good for us to get so emotional? Theres times when I feel I will I do anything for her if she ask. Yet sometimes I just wish I never met her cos of all the agony I feel when she appears to ignore me. Seem like I am giving out more emotionally than I am receiveing back.
• icyprincess

  4 Jan 05, 07:56

  Originally posted by pete98:

  You sound so much like me except you are a lady. Is it good for us to get so emotional? Theres times when I feel I will I do anything for her if she ask. Yet sometimes I just wish I never met her cos of all the agony I feel when she appears to ignore me. Seem like I am giving out more emotionally than I am receiveing back.

  well...i guess it is not a matter of whether it is good or not. I guess some people are just born a bit more sensitive and emotional than the others. But like what my fren told me once, we are born that way for a reason.
  
  i.c.y
• Boomer86

  28 Feb 05, 16:43

  Originally posted by elindra:

  What I can say is guys are human too
  They forget
  
  Forgetting doesn't mean that he doesn't care
  
  It could mean that he was too caught up with other things that he forgot
  It could mean that he is horrible with dates (some ppl are like that and it doesn't mean that he doesn't care)
  
  If his other actions towards you show that he cares, don't pin him down on one mistake. As well, some people think birthdays are no big deal. It's just a date to tell you that're older.
  
  

  I'm tat kind of human
• mahai102

  4 Mar 05, 22:23

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  haha..there was this one time, I missed him so much dat I even dreamed of him. It was on the day of my birthday. I guess I was really expecting him to wish me on the actual day, so in my dream, he did wish me and even gave me the teddy bear that I have been eyeing for quite a while now...but guess dat dream didn't come true...
  
  i.c.y

  u sound dumb...are you really that dumb or just pretending to be?
• starblue

  5 Mar 05, 00:04

  normal guys dun remember birthdays, no matter how much you mean to them. if they do, it is a bonus, so rejoice over champagne. if they dun, there is no need to stab yourself.... you can always stab someone else. ;p
  
  to the guys: girls will always rememebr some birthdays. but you can bet on it that a girl doesnt like you at all if she doesn't remember yours. ;p that is a sure way to find out if she doesnt like you. if she does remember your birthday, if doesnt mean she totally likes you. perhaps she's just being polite. but if she doesnt, you got to fish else where dude.