Originally posted by devastatedlover:
I was dumped by my gf of 6 yrs just 2 days ago for a guy that she had just met only 2 months ago after she had just changed her job . This new guy is her working colleague and she said that she fell in love with him just like that .
I was dragged from enternal bliss when i was with her to the dark abyss of hell just like that . She refused to take all my phone calls and the worst thing is that she didn't even break up with me face to face , it was just sms and one last phone call . She even confessed to me that while she was with me , she still went to MIRC to meet other guys . During the nites when i thought she was sleeping , she was actually going clubbing and kissing guys that she had met up there . I was totally devastated by the turn of events . She even commented that she did it because she was " playful" . This is the one and only love of my life . I gave her everything , my heart , my soul and everything that she asked for . I was was even intending to get married to her in a year's time , and now she is dumping me for another guy . The weirder thing is that i m still waiting for her to come back to me . Maybe after playing the field for a few years , she might realise the folly of her ways and come back to my arms . I really love her a lot! Help!
She also confessed to me that this guy can never give her the life that i have given her , she had given up a comfortable life with me when she knows that i can shower her with all the love and concern that she needs?
Is there no more true love in this world? What happened to eternal love? I am still trying to pick up the pieces but it's so painful . I still love her a lot! I really hope that she will return to me .
Hi,
I can understand how you feel! I'm currently suffering from a failed relationship as well. I'm not sure if I'm dumped, but I'm sure I lost. Seriously, only you know what you want! I too posted some topics and was overwhelmed with advise and condolences. However, the MOST important decision maker now is yourself. Maybe you can take a look at the topic I started, and see if it helps.
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