i believe in being a loner...
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yeah me too but it depends .. i have so many friends to keep me update about the news elsewhere, but sometimes i love to be alone ... it gives me that kind of peaceful feelings inside of me...Originally posted by Devil1976:Usually a LONER... But DO MIX AROUND from TIME to TIME... CERTAINLY don't wanna MISS OUT on some parts of LIFE yeah...? Hehheh...
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U definitely dunno me, I'm too old for alter egos *smiles* FYI, I'd left school some time ago
FeowFeowOriginally posted by elektra:
[b]u are probably in company wif ur alter ego...
i am a similar case like u... like to be alone sometimes.. but people ask me why i am so lonely...
however lonely doent necessary mean anti-social...
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It is better to have a great friend who helps you and share your burden,even if u need $$$,he or she will lend it to u than having 10 friends who talks but wont help you in times of real needs,like need $$$.
But such great friends are hard to find,so it is good to depend on yourself and solve problems alone.
So being a loner isnt bad,infact,it is good as u are independent. -
yes, being alone has many advantages. n i enjoyed been alone. i once went travelling alone in taiwan. when out sightseeing, i can do whatever i like. eg:spending 3hrs+ at a certain place i like. if i'm with some friends. most likely i wont b able to do that, cos not everybody's interest is e same.we don go taiwan often, so by making them wasting their time staying there with me would probably end up getting me been scolded by them. alone, i don have 2 take care of anybody's feelings n can do whatever i like.
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Friends who talk only and NO ACTION they are not our friends and they don't even belong to the category of Friends at all, they are just so called hypocrits, backstabber or should we say "unhealthy people" around us.Originally posted by ubermagicseller:It is better to have a great friend who helps you and share your burden,even if u need $$$,he or she will lend it to u than having 10 friends who talks but wont help you in times of real needs,like need $$$.
But such great friends are hard to find,so it is good to depend on yourself and solve problems alone.
So being a loner isnt bad,infact,it is good as u are independent.
Fortunately, I have 2 or 3 good friends, most of the time we help each other emotionally, financially, etc. That's what friends are for... -
Me too!Originally posted by HENG@:how can i say it? its a love hate thing. i love being alone and yet i hate it.
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Maybe a monk might share yr beliefs, well, he's supposed 2 b free from all ties, thus tat make him a loner.Originally posted by january:do you?
being lonely has many advantages i found out.
to be free from all ties is ideal.
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i am a loner too! but i just cannot help it!
I always find myself drained off any energy during the day but even
as the night comes i find my weary body drawn
unto the dark...i would close my eyes and fall asleep, drift into
a black dream when my body twists and then expanded, stretching out into infinity. Clawed wings errupt and snapped out like a spring from my body. My eyes turned bloodshot and hairs grew from my body. It was always a dream, and i flock my span wings and flew into the night like a bat, howling with glee, menace and along with it the unholiness unleached. What followed were blood and gore and when i woke up i can hardly remember a thing.......thus a loner i am, my life distorted into a confined void shaping the part of my world where i belonged, when even love cannot free my soul and spirit. -
Originally posted by elektra:
WooOOoo...
hey yunhaier... nice to meet someone whose got interest in astrology...
i got gemini rising.. so i am a loner sometimes too... also wif my virgo sun and moon... makes me extra shy [b][/b]
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woah.. so cheem
thought love / kindness is a powerful thing in the worldOriginally posted by 'm back:i am a loner too! but i just cannot help it!
I always find myself drained off any energy during the day but even
as the night comes i find my weary body drawn
unto the dark...i would close my eyes and fall asleep, drift into
a black dream when my body twists and then expanded, stretching out into infinity. Clawed wings errupt and snapped out like a spring from my body. My eyes turned bloodshot and hairs grew from my body. It was always a dream, and i flock my span wings and flew into the night like a bat, howling with glee, menace and along with it the unholiness unleached. What followed were blood and gore and when i woke up i can hardly remember a thing.......thus a loner i am, my life distorted into a confined void shaping the part of my world where i belonged, when even love cannot free my soul and spirit. -
so care to intro? sun/moon/asc ??Originally posted by Yunhaier:WooOOoo...
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Originally posted by elektra:
[b]so care to intro? sun/moon/asc ??
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Sun Leo, Aries Moon and my Ascendant is Capricorn.
In mythology, the lion ruling the Leo sign was the Nemean Lion (The Nemean Lion's skin is so strong, it could not be penetrated. Thus it seemed to be unconquerable. However, Hercules proved this to be false by breaking the lion's neck). Anyway, my Sun Sign is rather decently placed, having all the common positive characteristic like: affectionate, cheerful and being generally optimistic, thus I don't believe in the one-man island thingy.
However, I believe in the need for inner peace; our personal ground, space and air we all need from time to time. We have relationship with people, simultaneously, we are also having relationship with ourselves. Aries Moon may seemed like I have an aggressive spirit, quick temper, direct and probably impulsive. However this is completely neutralized by my 4th house placing and having Trine to Uranus in 11th house. My moon sign is not afflicted in any ways as well.
Through Secondary Progression, my Ascendant is moving towards the Sign of Aquarius; I am feeling the transformation of Aquarius's effect: Eccentric, unusual and different, comparing to the rigid, dull Capricorn ascendant in terms of outlook and outer personality - the mask to the real world.
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i see... leo sun and aries moon seems like some clash in u, opposite signs...
i've got a stellium of virgo sun moon mars mercury in 3rd house of communications + gemini asc so im very mercurial person.. communications very impt hence i haf landed in forums and chatrooms...
u studied astrology for long time already '? -
Originally posted by elektra:
Only know stuff in bits and pieces - still hope to continue my learning?
[b]i see... leo sun and aries moon seems like some clash in u, opposite signs...
i've got a stellium of virgo sun moon mars mercury in 3rd house of communications + gemini asc so im very mercurial person.. communications very impt hence i haf landed in forums and chatrooms...
u studied astrology for long time already '?[/b]
Cheers -
sentiments agreed!! love and hate....sometimes its gd to be loner but sometimes just feel upset ....sigh...Originally posted by HENG@:how can i say it? its a love hate thing. i love being alone and yet i hate it. -
It's so cool to find people who understand astrology on a deeper level. Although i must admit i still have a long way to go in my understanding. I've an aries sun, virgo moon and cancer ascendant. These traits seem to have make be prefer being alone, not by choice, but i feel it's because my cancer ascendant yearns for connection with people of like minds due to my being motivated by feelings. My virgo moon causes my personality to be extremely analytical and serious so much so that people have called me serious many times.I guess being unable to let go at anytime is a problem i have.I enjoy the company of like minds and i believe that one of the most beautiful conversations is silence between people who understand each other on a fundamental level.
I guess i'm a paradox,with people i enjoy being with i can talk on a vast variety of topics as my virgo moon craves knowledge and intellectual stimulation.I am proudest of my library. Being cancer by nature makes me a collector and sentimental.Having a virgo moon means i have an analytical mind which craves to understand the finer points of everything.Having my saturn in the 3rd house does nothing but furthers my quest for understanding and knowledge.In fact i have so many books on so many topics from astrology to finance that whenever i want something i'm secure(cancer ascendant)in the knowledge that i can reach out into my library and get the info,if not i can go online to find it.
But i've digressed.So while i'm with people who i can talk to i can really talk and stretch my mind because i enjoy that.If not i am usually silent and will not utter a word,choosing to observe the people around me.Sometimes i like it, but prolong silence just drives me mad,not sure if anyone would understand but sometimes you just yearn to have someone who understands what you are trying to say,who can relate.
Being a loner can be a beautiful thing in itself.In my humble opinion a balance must be struck,sometimes we're with people who understand,at others we are alone.Too much of anything is bad.However i feel it's important that we interact with people who understand to have any meaningful connection.I guess having my traits makes me want to have a deep connection as i've mentioned earlier it's just me being serious by nature.
I guess loners would usually have a lot of time to have thought about a lot of issues through in life.I've been drawn to zen because of my need to transcend my attachments.The beauty of astrology in understanding oneself cannot be overstated.
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Originally posted by Tamerlane:
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It's so cool to find people who understand astrology on a deeper level. Although i must admit i still have a long way to go in my understanding. I've an aries sun, virgo moon and cancer ascendant. These traits seem to have make be prefer being alone, not by choice, but i feel it's because my cancer ascendant yearns for connection with people of like minds due to my being motivated by feelings. My virgo moon causes my personality to be extremely analytical and serious so much so that people have called me serious many times.I guess being unable to let go at anytime is a problem i have.I enjoy the company of like minds and i believe that one of the most beautiful conversations is silence between people who understand each other on a fundamental level.
I guess i'm a paradox,with people i enjoy being with i can talk on a vast variety of topics as my virgo moon craves knowledge and intellectual stimulation.I am proudest of my library. Being cancer by nature makes me a collector and sentimental.Having a virgo moon means i have an analytical mind which craves to understand the finer points of everything.Having my saturn in the 3rd house does nothing but furthers my quest for understanding and knowledge.In fact i have so many books on so many topics from astrology to finance that whenever i want something i'm secure(cancer ascendant)in the knowledge that i can reach out into my library and get the info,if not i can go online to find it.
But i've digressed.So while i'm with people who i can talk to i can really talk and stretch my mind because i enjoy that.If not i am usually silent and will not utter a word,choosing to observe the people around me.Sometimes i like it, but prolong silence just drives me mad,not sure if anyone would understand but sometimes you just yearn to have someone who understands what you are trying to say,who can relate.
Being a loner can be a beautiful thing in itself.In my humble opinion a balance must be struck,sometimes we're with people who understand,at others we are alone.Too much of anything is bad.However i feel it's important that we interact with people who understand to have any meaningful connection.I guess having my traits makes me want to have a deep connection as i've mentioned earlier it's just me being serious by nature.
I guess loners would usually have a lot of time to have thought about a lot of issues through in life.I've been drawn to zen because of my need to transcend my attachments.[b]The beauty of astrology in understanding oneself cannot be overstated.
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I am a loner.
Working at home, 24 hrs stay at home.
no friend, no ppl to talk.
my only freinds was my 21 inchi colour tv and my computer.
I wanted to meet ppl, but who will want to take a person like me as a freind?
I am 41 years old chinese man.
I do my washing and cooking, dont know why, now at night i will off all lights left only the Tv and computer.
To me, loner is darkness.
who care for us. -
Ho Ho Ho ... My saturn is also in my 3rd house and my moon is in virgo too.Originally posted by Tamerlane:It's so cool to find people who understand astrology on a deeper level. Although i must admit i still have a long way to go in my understanding. I've an aries sun, virgo moon and cancer ascendant. These traits seem to have make be prefer being alone, not by choice, but i feel it's because my cancer ascendant yearns for connection with people of like minds due to my being motivated by feelings. My virgo moon causes my personality to be extremely analytical and serious so much so that people have called me serious many times.I guess being unable to let go at anytime is a problem i have.I enjoy the company of like minds and i believe that one of the most beautiful conversations is silence between people who understand each other on a fundamental level.
I guess i'm a paradox,with people i enjoy being with i can talk on a vast variety of topics as my virgo moon craves knowledge and intellectual stimulation.I am proudest of my library. Being cancer by nature makes me a collector and sentimental.Having a virgo moon means i have an analytical mind which craves to understand the finer points of everything.Having my saturn in the 3rd house does nothing but furthers my quest for understanding and knowledge.In fact i have so many books on so many topics from astrology to finance that whenever i want something i'm secure(cancer ascendant)in the knowledge that i can reach out into my library and get the info,if not i can go online to find it.
But i've digressed.So while i'm with people who i can talk to i can really talk and stretch my mind because i enjoy that.If not i am usually silent and will not utter a word,choosing to observe the people around me.Sometimes i like it, but prolong silence just drives me mad,not sure if anyone would understand but sometimes you just yearn to have someone who understands what you are trying to say,who can relate.
Being a loner can be a beautiful thing in itself.In my humble opinion a balance must be struck,sometimes we're with people who understand,at others we are alone.Too much of anything is bad.However i feel it's important that we interact with people who understand to have any meaningful connection.I guess having my traits makes me want to have a deep connection as i've mentioned earlier it's just me being serious by nature.
I guess loners would usually have a lot of time to have thought about a lot of issues through in life.I've been drawn to zen because of my need to transcend my attachments.The beauty of astrology in understanding oneself cannot be overstated. [/quote]
I also have a pluto in my 3rd house.... do u have? It seems peopel with pluto in the 3rd house like to remain silent.. and are very deep people.. and
once they speak out, they speak matters straight to the heart and core of the matter... We tends to think things through.. before speak up..
I hate my leo rising.. my sun scorpio.. which is a watery sun.. square my firey ascendent. Sometime i find it so hard to relate my inner self with my rising sun. -
I prefer enjoying the best of both worlds. Lonely when I need it, and lively when I need it.Originally posted by january:do you?
being lonely has many advantages i found out.
to be free from all ties is ideal.
anyone has similar beliefs? -
Originally posted by Tamerlane:It's so cool to find people who understand astrology on a deeper level. Although i must admit i still have a long way to go in my understanding. I've an aries sun, virgo moon and cancer ascendant. These traits seem to have make be prefer being alone, not by choice, but i feel it's because my cancer ascendant yearns for connection with people of like minds due to my being motivated by feelings. My virgo moon causes my personality to be extremely analytical and serious so much so that people have called me serious many times.I guess being unable to let go at anytime is a problem i have.I enjoy the company of like minds and i believe that one of the most beautiful conversations is silence between people who understand each other on a fundamental level.
I guess i'm a paradox,with people i enjoy being with i can talk on a vast variety of topics as my virgo moon craves knowledge and intellectual stimulation.I am proudest of my library. Being cancer by nature makes me a collector and sentimental.Having a virgo moon means i have an analytical mind which craves to understand the finer points of everything.Having my saturn in the 3rd house does nothing but furthers my quest for understanding and knowledge.In fact i have so many books on so many topics from astrology to finance that whenever i want something i'm secure(cancer ascendant)in the knowledge that i can reach out into my library and get the info,if not i can go online to find it.
But i've digressed.So while i'm with people who i can talk to i can really talk and stretch my mind because i enjoy that.If not i am usually silent and will not utter a word,choosing to observe the people around me.Sometimes i like it, but prolong silence just drives me mad,not sure if anyone would understand but sometimes you just yearn to have someone who understands what you are trying to say,who can relate.
Being a loner can be a beautiful thing in itself.In my humble opinion a balance must be struck,sometimes we're with people who understand,at others we are alone.Too much of anything is bad.However i feel it's important that we interact with people who understand to have any meaningful connection.I guess having my traits makes me want to have a deep connection as i've mentioned earlier it's just me being serious by nature.
I guess loners would usually have a lot of time to have thought about a lot of issues through in life.I've been drawn to zen because of my need to transcend my attachments.The beauty of astrology in understanding oneself cannot be overstated. [/quote]Originally posted by Isis:Ho Ho Ho ... My saturn is also in my 3rd house and my moon is in virgo too.
I also have a pluto in my 3rd house.... do u have? It seems peopel with pluto in the 3rd house like to remain silent.. and are very deep people.. and
once they speak out, they speak matters straight to the heart and core of the matter... We tends to think things through.. before speak up..
I hate my leo rising.. my sun scorpio.. which is a watery sun.. square my firey ascendent. Sometime i find it so hard to relate my inner self with my rising sun. Woah, quite surprise to find sudden people talking about astrology. Pardon me a little, for most of the population in SG knows nothing else outside their sun sign.
P.S: Having Saturn in 3rd house does alot of thingy - and in fact, it produce influence of you being an 'eternal student' and having very deep form of mind (a blessed point would be good mental concentration). There are tendency of depression and despondency and these must be overcome.
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Yeap...i meant that having saturn in 3rd house only serves to add to my desire to learn stuff and does nothing to make me any less of a student.I'm proudest of my library which is really quite well stocked on a wide variety of subjects so that i can obtain info anytime i want.Of cos there is always room for improvement but i'll always keep learning and growing till the day i die haha!
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hey guys, or those astrology enthusiasts,
here's a msn community u might be very interested in, the site provides lots of info about planetary aspects , ascendant/descendants interpretation... lots of info to read about...
i've gained a deeper understanding of what a person i am, my past and advices for me ever since i found this community.
http://groups.msn.com/HOROSCOPESCHAT
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see my story
when i was pri 5 and 6 both same class all same ppl
we were a bunch of naughty kids break sch rule etc
sch cannot say kick water bottle we go kick
my class has 20 boys and 10+ all same interest include me
later i was named as lao da by friend because of my height and face
i was like so high so proud
our class was the best in soccer against all other class
pri 6 also same thing
at the last stage which is term 3/4
we kick soccer sometime have arguement like play rough that kind haha
bei song one another dont know y that happen also
later no more friend liao
go sec sch liao
because of my pri sch lifestyle being bad guys
when sec sch all my class like guai kia
so i sian always sighing y i so suay haha
only had 1 friend because hes the worst guy inside the good ones and hes the same pri sch not same class at type of person im like
so we later became friends
later on sec2
my this friend is a attention seeker always do thing irritate ppl and ppl hate him
because im his only friend later ppl have same view on me
but i this kind of ppl is those talk loyal type
so i bo chup just continue to be with him
later sec3 diff class less communication
then he later when in sec4 he thinks that ppl hate him is because of me
then he started to mock at me interrupt my life
he can dos ppl now meaning dc ppl
when i in my mic he check my ip and just dos me sometime i afk download thing thne sudden stop abit dulan
haizz now only got one good friend from pri sch but still hope got better friend with same interests and views
maybe my primary sch make me like this now
pri sch lao da then sec sch haii
wat u think
my story is real but special hahaha
so now loner loh
my activity is arcade
now top player so good -
see my story
when i was pri 5 and 6 both same class all same ppl
we were a bunch of naughty kids break sch rule etc
sch cannot say kick water bottle we go kick
my class has 20 boys and 10+ all same interest include me
later i was named as lao da by friend because of my height and face
i was like so high so proud
our class was the best in soccer against all other class
pri 6 also same thing
at the last stage which is term 3/4
we kick soccer sometime have arguement like play rough that kind haha
bei song one another dont know y that happen also
later no more friend liao
go sec sch liao
because of my pri sch lifestyle being bad guys
when sec sch all my class like guai kia
so i sian always sighing y i so suay haha
only had 1 friend because hes the worst guy inside the good ones and hes the same pri sch not same class at type of person im like
so we later became friends
later on sec2
my this friend is a attention seeker always do thing irritate ppl and ppl hate him
because im his only friend later ppl have same view on me
but i this kind of ppl is those talk loyal type
so i bo chup just continue to be with him
later sec3 diff class less communication
then he later when in sec4 he thinks that ppl hate him is because of me
then he started to mock at me interrupt my life
he can dos ppl now meaning dc ppl
when i in my mic he check my ip and just dos me sometime i afk download thing thne sudden stop abit dulan
haizz now only got one good friend from pri sch but still hope got better friend with same interests and views
maybe my primary sch make me like this now
pri sch lao da then sec sch haii
wat u think
my story is real but special hahaha
so now loner loh
my activity is arcade
now top player so good