Should i let go or continue.....?
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I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys -
woo!
so yu fu is not alone........(except the ger is chio part)
later i ask him to read and give u some pointers how he tahan me ok? -
two words~ break up~
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4 words.
FARK HER, BREAK UP. -
... you shouldn't be asking us this. ask yourself, DESPITE all of what she's doing, do you still love her? if eventually things didn't turn out well, i.e. she dumped you etc, then you just need to tell yourself that you've done your best in the relationship. it's HER fault that she can't appreciate you, and you'll deserve someone better in time to come.
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WHAT DO YOU THINK?Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys
STOP DECEIVING YOURSELF... TIME TO WAKE UP.... -
must do her well so she will come and ask for more..Originally posted by vroomvroom:4 words.
FARK HER, BREAK UP. -
Hi. This is a very saddening news for me to read.Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys
However, I suggest you sit down with her and talk things over. But, PLEASE.. don't express your feelings out too much... why? Danger!! In that way, you make yourself sound like a Wuss trying to kiss her arse. Girls don't like guys to chase them around kissing their arse proving their weak side in front of them. Just go and find out what's the matter first.
I hereby wish you all the best of hope!
yours truly,
S.H.I.N. -
confirmed - break up.
I'm sure you don't want to be treated like this for the rest of your life, right? -
Although I'm a gal, I cannot tolerate such behaviour too. Where's your dignity and pride? There is obviously no mutual respect between you two. Move on, I think you can find a 'chio-er' gal with better attitude.
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No. Rem dont be a fool..
Dont break up first. Else u lugi big time.
Fark her first than break...Not too late.
Like tt u no lost....
this kind of girl....no need to show mercy.
must show her who is the boss and tt is ur dick!
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The biggest regret i have of a fucked up gf is i didnt fuck her well before breaking up....
Or introduce her to the likes of SBSK... maybe she will appreciate u more aft being with some psycho & come begging for ur forgiveness. By then u will ask her come closer to u & shout into her ears "U wake up ur farking idea!!!! U think Lim beh is wat, suo lai jiu lai, suo zhou jiu zhou, knnn, last time when i treated u well, u treat me like $%^&, now u kena %^&$# by someone else, u wan come back and $%##%^!!i tell u, i no @#$%^&&.... u better #$%^&&...."
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Have u ever talk to her abt what u feel abt her attitude???Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys
If not its time... If she dont wake up after that, then its time u wake up...
Reminds me of my stupid boss... except for the chio part coz my boss is a he...
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omg. u sound like someone i know.. except that they are togather much longer than u.Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys -
Just forget her.
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SHe doesn't deserve ur love/care/concern or watever u wanna call it. Move on and forget abt her. I cant imagine tt after all that she have done to u, u still wan her..
Realli dunnoe wads on ur mind my fren -
well... shes hapi to see that guy now... just she was hapi to see u when she first got together with u..
later on... that guy would oni get to experience what u have now..
go on give that guy a chance
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Firstly.. talk to her.. this time be firm n steady.. dun sound wimpy or she'll jump on ur head.. n not pissed untill she walks away.. tell her how u feel n wat u r unhappy abt..
If she refuses to listen.. refuses to change.. continues to lose her temper.. my fren.. time to find a new gf.. u can pass her to another lucky guy..
u deserve more den wat she can offer..
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Aiyo.. so sad.. looks like on the verge of breaking up. No feeling = breakup
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i agree...Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:well... shes hapi to see that guy now... just she was hapi to see u when she first got together with u..
later on... that guy would oni get to experience what u have now..
go on give that guy a chance just dump her.. dont bother to hesitate any longer..
there are millions billions and trillions of girls out there.. no worries..
take your time.. find a better one that treats you well.. -
This type of scenario still can consider that she's your gf?? No offence, but the only scenarios where I think a guy needs to "book" a girl in advance is when he's chasing her, or the guy is a customer in Geylang.Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys
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Originally posted by coconut husk:And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
Although that is what the sentence mean to most pple out in the world but one shldnt just judge the statement in this way. I still suggest him to trash it out with his gf. It may turn out that she doesnt mean to say what everyone interpreted it as but it may. So its still his decision what to do after trashing out with his gf.Originally posted by loneconfuser:This type of scenario still can consider that she's your gf?? No offence, but the only scenarios where I think a guy needs to "book" a girl in advance is when he's chasing her, or the guy is a customer in Geylang.
The fact that pple like to interpret others action or words using their own standards is the basis for misunderstandings. -
if u really love her, let her go..if she returns..then she's yours..
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Talk to her frankly about her actions and attitudes that are really hurting you.
If she has a problem with that, I suggest you break up with her.
I don't see the point in continuing this relationship if I was in your shoes.... I certainly wouldn't want a girl such as her as my wife in the future.....
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yep.. i always feel tt u should try to talk to the person first b4 making a absolute decision... it could be a rash decsion u'll live to regret in future.. but of course after tt u muz be decisive in ur decision-making.. dunn be po2 ma1..