Should i let go or continue.....?
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hmm..... *rub chin*Originally posted by FireIce:woo!
so yu fu is not alone........(except the ger is chio part)
later i ask him to read and give u some pointers how he tahan me ok?
abit the same hor? =P
how to tahan u?
action = reaction lor?
hahaha.... what you do to me i double and return to u! lol....
shld i reg a nick call yu fu? =P -
if you think you cant hold on to this relationship any more, then let go....Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys
sometimes the harder you want to hold, the more it will want to slip off your hands....
"sometimes you have to let go, and if its meant to be yours, it will come back" -
wei, dun use my tai ci........Originally posted by anfuni:action = reaction lor?
hahaha.... what you do to me i double and return to u! lol....
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In sg slavery is illegal...
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i suggest break! well.. since she said next time if you wan to date her out.. you must book in advance.. well.. save up your time.. forget it... let her be... later if she come back to you.. you tell her.. i m busy.. if you wan tok to me or date me out.. pls book in advance
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I tot I was the only one. Mine was great for 3 years and recently she join a senior position in a govt dept and became a Female (MCP).Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys
Also she doesnt insult me in front of my friends (as I have too few), she knows that she has the upper hand and that "I need her more then she me attitude".
It is true to most extend I guess.
It is easy to say break up or let go but deep down inside, it hurts regardless of either path you take. -
Unfortunately, we will never understand the mystery that is women.
You my man are suffering in silence. She's climbing all over your head and shitting on you and you're letting her do it. Forgive me for saying this, but does she have to be chio in order for you to like/love her? Like you said, it started off well, but now you're getting stepped upon like roadkill. She's being really selfish and possessive, are you sure she is not a he? Then again, do check if on the days she starts shouting at you, it's her time of the month.
My advice is that you break it off with her, there are so many other chio fishes out there in the ocean, this one is really not worth being degraded and disrespected over.
Oh and when you break up with her, make sure you do it in really loud in a public place or with her friends to embarass the hell out of her, perhaps then, she might think differently of you. Walk away and don't EVER go crawling back!
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my problem is almost exact to yrs. i dunno man , girls nowadays are different. haiz.Originally posted by coconut husk:I haf this gf whu has a really bad attitude. She thinks she is always right (juz like a MCP)...always criticise others except herself!...has alot of suitors after her as she is veri chio...(or little bit chio lar). Initially when we were together, everything was like in honeymoon...treats mi well...wif respect and all. BUT as time goes by, she started to take me for granted...always venting her anger on mi. This included scolding and insulting mi even infront of my other male friends
This haF been going on for more den 9 months liao......shld i continue and try to save this relationship??. And the worst part is tt recently, i know of a guy whu is always trying to date her out. And she seems to be veri happy whenever she sees him. And the worst part is tt she told tt if i want to date her out starting from now.....i haf to "book" her in advance!!!..
She cannot even tolerate me talking to any females....yet, she can haf the freedom to go out and talk to so many guys -
Have a good talk with her first. If she can't see the error of her ways, ditch her. Period.
Alternatively, you should look at yourself. Perhaps it's partly due to your actions, e.g. being too nice, that she had evolved into a modern day cave woman. -
Even if she is pretty, doesn't mean she can get away with bad behaviour.
Never ever let your partner scold/ insult u in public or treat u badly.
Respect is very important in a r/s.
If u are not happy with the way u are treated, then let go.