Friend's sex problems
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u can't. just kick them in the balls. most guys deserve it.Originally posted by wallie:how to show men you're the boss without any physical violencE? -
you do that? even if the guy did nothing wrong? you could get into trouble with the law for causing hurt?Originally posted by HENG@:u can't. just kick them in the balls. most guys deserve it. -
Sadly Heng, I agree with you too... MOST guys deserve a kick in the balls, and yes I got a few, but in fights, never in relationships.
Ladies cling to men who are bastards can be explained, it's all in your programing to breed. Mother nature decided that wild barabric boys tend to make excellent hunters, excellent food providers for the family. Trust me... starting a family with a runt will kill you fast.
I guess you ladies just need to move around more often... take time to find the right guy, you never know, he could be beside you all the time, the friendly neighbour who opens the door for you, your class mate who makes the effort to save notes for you, your co-worker who buys you coffee when you're tired, your friend who keeps you company when you wanna bitch bout other men... Ladies, we're always there, you just don't see us. -
nothing wrong? ha. if I sent an sms to 50 random men with the message "All is revealed! Flee!" half of them will have sleepless nights while the other half will have fled the country.Originally posted by wallie:you do that? even if the guy did nothing wrong? you could get into trouble with the law for causing hurt? -
Wallie, trust me on this... your friend's situation is rape... I know because I had a few friends in school who were punished for it, my neighbour is a lawyer, I asked him a few times.
Now the question is not should they split up or not, ro to reveal it or not?
Rather, if she even realise the shit she is wallowing in... she will not see it as she is seeking for the perfect relationship, she is afraid to loose another... tell her she will suffer if she carrys on this denial -
some nice friends u have. personally, i would recommend them for the SNIPS.Originally posted by faithblade:Wallie, trust me on this... your friend's situation is rape... I know because I had a few friends in school who were punished for it, my neighbour is a lawyer, I asked him a few times.
Now the question is not should they split up or not, ro to reveal it or not?
Rather, if she even realise the shit she is wallowing in... she will not see it as she is seeking for the perfect relationship, she is afraid to loose another... tell her she will suffer if she carrys on this denial -
humm.... eerr... Heng? you seem very judgemental bout us guys... why?
Troubled past? bad experiences? failed attempts?
Perhaps I could change your mind? -
u can't change my mind. for a very good reason. I get to see the story from the "inside"Originally posted by faithblade:humm.... eerr... Heng? you seem very judgemental bout us guys... why?
Troubled past? bad experiences? failed attempts?
Perhaps I could change your mind? -
Yea... I too agree my friends should be castrated for their wrongs... but like wallie's friend, most of them kept quiet.
Wanna know the real sad crap out of all these? I checked and tried to look up some old friends, the rapist all have families of their own, not the ladies they raped. The ladies they raped have troubled lives now. Not sure if it's due to the rape... one of them is sleeping around... and she says she not a prostitute... she is just looking for love. Sad, I had such a huge crush on her... always there for her but she prefers bastards
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castration? who said anything about castration? thats too kind. oh no. my way would be to give them a penectomy, and then they can go about life being horny without means of relief, not unless they let themselves be bummed up the Ass by gay men.Originally posted by faithblade:Yea... I too agree my friends should be castrated for their wrongs... but like wallie's friend, most of them kept quiet.
Wanna know the real sad crap out of all these? I checked and tried to look up some old friends, the rapist all have families of their own, not the ladies they raped. The ladies they raped have troubled lives now. Not sure if it's due to the rape... one of them is sleeping around... and she says she not a prostitute... she is just looking for love. Sad, I had such a huge crush on her... always there for her but she prefers bastards -
Hahahahaha! heng! I must say you are very funny
, sick but very funny!
And yes, the "get it from behind by big hairy gay" thing should be implimented
But back to the topic shall we? after all willie has an issue to settle, the issue of us men being swines can be debated for ages and not reach a settlement
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I would tell her that, but I know my friendship with her will probably be at risk. Anyway as friends, aren't we supposed to be there for our friends, and not live their lives for them? I'm really torn..Originally posted by faithblade:Yea... I too agree my friends should be castrated for their wrongs... but like wallie's friend, most of them kept quiet.
Wanna know the real sad crap out of all these? I checked and tried to look up some old friends, the rapist all have families of their own, not the ladies they raped. The ladies they raped have troubled lives now. Not sure if it's due to the rape... one of them is sleeping around... and she says she not a prostitute... she is just looking for love. Sad, I had such a huge crush on her... always there for her but she prefers bastards
Personally I feel she rushed into this relationship too fast (she had barely broken up with the one before and she jumped into this)... no time to thinj about what she really really wants..
So many of us go through delusion.. just to make ourseleves feel better. -
My bf thinks she is at fault too for giving in. I don't know where I stand as a friend. I guess except for this issue, he seems to treat her well. But I think this is a big issue itself ti begin with.
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there is no issue on "men are swines". ever heard of the phrase male chauvinist pigs? too, as sick as my suggested punishment is, men who are pervs, who live their whole life thinking nothing except sex, are sicker.Originally posted by faithblade:Hahahahaha! heng! I must say you are very funny , sick but very funny!
And yes, the "get it from behind by big hairy gay" thing should be implimented
But back to the topic shall we? after all willie has an issue to settle, the issue of us men being swines can be debated for ages and not reach a settlement -
Holy cow... wallie.. your friend just ended a relationship and got this rapist? ahem... in the wise words of the streetwise bastards/ah bengs "ho say ah! I tio free sex with rebound ger!"
Yes, try to talk to her gently, she will need you now I guess. I sure hell would if I'm in so deep a shit hole -
torn? oh well ultimately u can only help those who choose to help themselves. if your friend decides to continue living with being constantly raped, then who else can she blame but herself n that Bastard of a swine bf of hers?Originally posted by wallie:My bf thinks she is at fault too for giving in. I don't know where I stand as a friend. I guess except for this issue, he seems to treat her well. But I think this is a big issue itself ti begin with. -
Is there no possiblity, according to you, that he loves her?Originally posted by HENG@:there is no issue on "men are swines". ever heard of the phrase male chauvinist pigs? too, as sick as my suggested punishment is, men who are pervs, who live their whole life thinking nothing except sex, are sicker. -
would u choose to hurt someone u love in that manner?Originally posted by wallie:Is there no possiblity, according to you, that he loves her? -
sex without love or consent is just plain animal sex without any form of love. That's what she's getting. If you love someone enough, would you hurt her physically or emotionally?
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They've been together for almost 2 years. Let me clarify myself and what I think:Originally posted by faithblade:Holy cow... wallie.. your friend just ended a relationship and got this rapist? ahem... in the wise words of the streetwise bastards/ah bengs "ho say ah! I tio free sex with rebound ger!"
Yes, try to talk to her gently, she will need you now I guess. I sure hell would if I'm in so deep a shit hole
1) He's wrong for forcing on her when she wasn't even ready.
2) He's wrong for knowing that she doesn't enjoy and yet doesn't care about learning some new moves.
She doesn't want to tell what he's doing wrong, she also says she doesn't knwo what he's doing wrong, and she's shy to tell him, but the thing is HE KNOWS SHE DOESN'T ENJOY IT THAT MUCH BUT STILL DOES IT.
GUYS: Would you carry on having sex with your gf when she doesn't enjoy? Shouldn't you find out what's wrong before resuming? Or do you only care about your own enjoyment? -
Fuck the streetwise Bastards then. another case for my "men r swines" theory. just look at the number of spastic topics and the pervertd retards who post them in Bar.Originally posted by faithblade:Holy cow... wallie.. your friend just ended a relationship and got this rapist? ahem... in the wise words of the streetwise bastards/ah bengs "ho say ah! I tio free sex with rebound ger!"
Yes, try to talk to her gently, she will need you now I guess. I sure hell would if I'm in so deep a shit hole -
most guys wouldn't admit it, but they only care about their own enjoyment.Originally posted by wallie:They've been together for almost 2 years. Let me clarify myself and what I think:
1) He's wrong for forcing on her when she wasn't even ready.
2) He's wrong for knowing that she doesn't enjoy and yet doesn't care about learning some new moves.
She doesn't want to tell what he's doing wrong, she also says she doesn't knwo what he's doing wrong, and she's shy to tell him, but the thing is HE KNOWS SHE DOESN'T ENJOY IT THAT MUCH BUT STILL DOES IT.
GUYS: Would you carry on having sex with your gf when she doesn't enjoy? Shouldn't you find out what's wrong before resuming? Or do you only care about your own enjoyment? -
If a guy and a girl are both naked, must it necessarily lead to sex? Is there really no way for him to control?Originally posted by HENG@:would u choose to hurt someone u love in that manner? -
WHY the FUCK are they even getting naked for?Originally posted by wallie:If a guy and a girl are both naked, must it necessarily lead to sex? Is there really no way for him to control? -
Really? I really think you're a guy who's ashamed of your own species.Originally posted by HENG@:most guys wouldn't admit it, but they only care about their own enjoyment.
And yes, there's lots of scum in this forum, especially those weirdos in BAR. At least I hope they're not out raping some helpless kid..