Trust
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If someone special broke your trust in her/him?
You feel betrayed but he/she has apologized and trying to make amendments in your relationship.
How can he/she earn your trust again?
What can he/she do?
Any comments but no flaming, thanks!
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make sure he/she dun ever make the same mistake lor.
I never like to give second chance, but if i do, i hope that person will cherish it. -
How do you make sure?Originally posted by LilO gIrL:make sure he/she dun ever make the same mistake lor.
I never like to give second chance, but if i do, i hope that person will cherish it.
I mean you would have to work and sometimes due to certain situations.
You would have to spend more time away from him/her.
So, after that how? -
Oh yeah, i almost forgot.Originally posted by LilO gIrL:make sure he/she dun ever make the same mistake lor.
I never like to give second chance, but if i do, i hope that person will cherish it.
Thanks for your reply.
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Never, cos trust is something that can never be betrayed.
Personal opinion only. -
Well, depends on wat situation n how serious. If he/she 2-times u, then i tink tis is unforgivable
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Don't trust that same person again. They will only take advantage of your trusting nature. ( Girls are good at that) *runs and hides*
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I think it really depends on how much you love her.
If you truly love someone, it doesn't really matter whether she breaches your trust time and again, but then who is to know if its true love?
Ask yourself whether you can accept the breach of trust. If you cannot, then there's no point.
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I would say it depends on how much you love her and are u willing to give her another chance.Originally posted by _Aaron_:I think it really depends on how much you love her.
If you truly love someone, it doesn't really matter whether she breaches your trust time and again, but then who is to know if its true love?
Ask yourself whether you can accept the breach of trust. If you cannot, then there's no point.
You know what to do.
If she two-timed you..of course the trust wont be that much anymore.
But what to what happened? Think about it. If you had no time for her, try to spend more time with her. Maybe she just needs some attention.
Follow your heart. -
She slept with another guy and that is what happened.Originally posted by LilO gIrL:I would say it depends on how much you love her and are u willing to give her another chance.
If she two-timed you..of course the trust wont be that much anymore.
But what to what happened? Think about it. If you had no time for her, try to spend more time with her. Maybe she just needs some attention.
Follow your heart.
So basically, i got a major trust issue.
We are still together but i find it hard for me to just simply take her word for it when she say so and go on without thinking back.
It is not the attention that she needs. -
DUMP HER FOR CHRIST SAKE!Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:She slept with another guy and that is what happened.
So basically, i got a major trust issue.
We are still together but i find it hard for me to just simply take her word for it when she say so and go on without thinking back.
It is not the attention that she needs. -
She slept with another guy and that is what happened.Originally posted by LilO gIrL:I would say it depends on how much you love her and are u willing to give her another chance.
If she two-timed you..of course the trust wont be that much anymore.
But what to what happened? Think about it. If you had no time for her, try to spend more time with her. Maybe she just needs some attention.
Follow your heart.
So basically, i got a major trust issue.
We are still together but i find it hard for me to just simply take her word for it when she say so and go on without thinking back.
It is not the attention that she needs. -
Well, i can accept that breach of trust.Originally posted by _Aaron_:I think it really depends on how much you love her.
If you truly love someone, it doesn't really matter whether she breaches your trust time and again, but then who is to know if its true love?
Ask yourself whether you can accept the breach of trust. If you cannot, then there's no point.
You know what to do.
But you know when they say "what happened once, can always happen again".
It is just a fear or something that i am always looking over my shoulder to make sure it doesn't happen. -
Thanks blowfish...Originally posted by blowfish:DUMP HER FOR CHRIST SAKE!
Wasn't exactly the type of answer i am expecting...
I am actually trying to find a solution here and not the easy way out... -
Are you so sure that trust can never be betrayed?Originally posted by Blueskyz:Never, cos trust is something that can never be betrayed.
Personal opinion only.
Take a example, someone whom you trust with your entire life including secrets, one day simply due to certain situation... happen to just betray you...
How would you feel? -
Just dump her!
no excuse or reason can justify herself no matter what..
but it depends on yourself can overcome this matter and let it go.. cos in future, this will be a major question u will ask yourself again and again..
but for me .. i will JUST DUMP HER!! -
There is a saying "can't hate women and can't live without them either".Originally posted by EvilDead:Don't trust that same person again. They will only take advantage of your trusting nature. ( Girls are good at that) *runs and hides*
What to do?
One of men's major weakness...
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There is a saying "can't hate women and can't live without them either".Originally posted by EvilDead:Don't trust that same person again. They will only take advantage of your trusting nature. ( Girls are good at that) *runs and hides*
What to do?
One of men's major weakness... -
then go suffer loh... simple as that.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:There is a saying "can't hate women and can't live without them either".
What to do?
One of men's major weakness... -
Thanks for your own personal point of view.Originally posted by blowfish:Just dump her!
no excuse or reason can justify herself no matter what..
but it depends on yourself can overcome this matter and let it go.. cos in future, this will be a major question u will ask yourself again and again..
but for me .. i will JUST DUMP HER!!
I'll think about it... -
Originally posted by blowfish:then go suffer loh... simple as that.
Nice one! -
Originally posted by blowfish:then go suffer loh... simple as that.
Nice one! -
That's why i said its up to whether you like her enough.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:Well, i can accept that breach of trust.
But you know when they say "what happened once, can always happen again".
It is just a fear or something that i am always looking over my shoulder to make sure it doesn't happen.
If you truly think that she's the one you'll marry, and cannot live without, you should forgive and forget, else you'll only bring yourself more pain over the dilemma you're in.
Hmm, no, i must admit, i haven't heard of this "what happened once, can always happen again." but i've heard of "a leopard never changes its spot".
Yet, don't you think the power of love conquers all?
Its a matter of perspective. If you think you can do it, you can. If you think you can't, you'll never be able to do it no matter how much you try.
Some people get hurt time and time again by the people they love and trust, but they continue to trust and love them because they believe in giving second chances, and that they will change.
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I'm sorry to know that.Originally posted by Marmalade Boy:She slept with another guy and that is what happened.
So basically, i got a major trust issue.
We are still together but i find it hard for me to just simply take her word for it when she say so and go on without thinking back.
It is not the attention that she needs.
Then can you forgive her for what she has done?
I think, to a certain extent, you will always be reminded of that lor.
Can't blame you if you dun trust her like before..
Whatever your decision is, be strong..once you have set your mind and decided on what to do, be firm.
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I don't know which type i am...Originally posted by _Aaron_:That's why i said its up to whether you like her enough.
If you truly think that she's the one you'll marry, and cannot live without, you should forgive and forget, else you'll only bring yourself more pain over the dilemma you're in.
Hmm, no, i must admit, i haven't heard of this "what happened once, can always happen again." but i've heard of "a leopard never changes its spot".
Yet, don't you think the power of love conquers all?
Its a matter of perspective. If you think you can do it, you can. If you think you can't, you'll never be able to do it no matter how much you try.
Some people get hurt time and time again by the people they love and trust, but they continue to trust and love them because they believe in giving second chances, and that they will change.
Which type are you?
Maybe a little of both...
I'll see how as time goes by...
Maybe time will give me the answer i need...
Thanks for your words...