What if your bf does not trust you completely?
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What will you do?
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find out why he dun trust u.
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if im a gal,i will feel sad,angry and disppointed~
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Does he deserved to be forgiven?
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in wat sense?
pls elaborate -
He made her gf sad. Her gf said he does not trust her completely. Does he deserved to be forgiven?
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depends on how he change to make her girl feels better and forgive him lor~Originally posted by retrolover80:Does he deserved to be forgiven? -
If either one party has complete loss of trust of the other, I say its better to say goodbye to the r/s.
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How to give opinions like that?
At least tell us what happened la. -
He said something which had made her angry. And he do not trust her completely.
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gt a clearer picture for tt?? ur version is really short n swt le..
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HUH?Originally posted by retrolover80:He said something which had made her angry. And he do not trust her completely.
still, we dun get u...
can u furnish us with the WHOLE story? -
A few nights ago, he wanted to send her home. It was dark and she wants him to go home first because he got work tomorrow. He did not trust her that she can take care of herself. Than he say something which annoyed her. And that is the start of it. He apologised to her. She told him not to call her but he still called because he was really desperate and dunno what else to do and he was the "kang cheong" type person. Few days later, he went to her house and try apologising to her. Than she said that he did not trust her.( Which its true; he does not completely trust her). And she now suggest a break-up.
Does this guy deserved to be forgiven? -
she did nothing. Its just the guy's nature of not trusting other people enough and the guy is always imagining of the worst possible things that could happen.Originally posted by LilO gIrL:find out why he dun trust u. -
up.
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eh...sometime if one party no longer loves you...maybe you should give up and not to hold on anymore...cuz this may only hurt you yourself and others in the end~
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This guy is a wuss. He deserves it.Originally posted by retrolover80:A few nights ago, he wanted to send her home. It was dark and she wants him to go home first because he got work tomorrow. He did not trust her that she can take care of herself. Than he say something which annoyed her. And that is the start of it. He apologised to her. She told him not to call her but he still called because he was really desperate and dunno what else to do and he was the "kang cheong" type person. Few days later, he went to her house and try apologising to her. Than she said that he did not trust her.( Which its true; he does not completely trust her). And she now suggest a break-up.
Does this guy deserved to be forgiven?
If the guy is you you're talking about, then go and reflect on it.
I also apologize for my egoistic remark, which is an incorrigible nature.
with ego,
S.H.I.N. -
Maybe the guy should try reflecting a bit and see how he can improve on future situations?Originally posted by retrolover80:she did nothing. Its just the guy's nature of not trusting other people enough and the guy is always imagining of the worst possible things that could happen. -
dun trust u to take care of yourself or dun have faith in you?
hmm..perhaps he is the possessive kind..and also insecure..
last time my buddy used to have a bf like that..on and off, broke up many times..dragged on a few years..of course she also got other bfs in between. My buddy is very pretty..she always has suitors.
Then this guy became very violent and abusive (verbally)..even scolded her and threatened to take his own life. To a certain extent that he also harrassed me at the wee hours..saying he wanted to commit suicide etc etc..saying he is not a gd guy, did not take care of my buddy and so he felt sorry etc..
Due to the fact that my buddy's mum dun like him, my buddy broke off with him eventually and she said her love for him has died..no matter what, can never bring the feelings back anymore.
I think we need to build up trust lor. How long have you known him and be with him? was there anything you did that made him lose his trust before this? If you still love him, perhaps you would like to give him a chance. But if he ever repeat the mistake again, then perhaps you would really want to consider to break up with him. -
up.
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I dun get it.... If the bf escort her go home...he not showing caring sign meh???So next time at night i should let my gf go home alone ???Originally posted by retrolover80:A few nights ago, he wanted to send her home. It was dark and she wants him to go home first because he got work tomorrow. He did not trust her that she can take care of herself. Than he say something which annoyed her. And that is the start of it. He apologised to her. She told him not to call her but he still called because he was really desperate and dunno what else to do and he was the "kang cheong" type person. Few days later, he went to her house and try apologising to her. Than she said that he did not trust her.( Which its true; he does not completely trust her). And she now suggest a break-up.
Does this guy deserved to be forgiven?
Man...this is confusing Caring vs Trust.... always the same.How do u see caring / trust is diff to ppl each person? -
it's up to you whether you wana findout the real reason for that, another option is to pack up and go, move on, you're still young so don't waste so much time on this, explore new things and experience the new life, cheersOriginally posted by retrolover80:What will you do?
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simi up?
trust must be earned also laa... first of all, are you sure your fren can be trusted completely? watever tat means...Originally posted by retrolover80:up.
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Why was she out late?
Does this happen often - her staying out late, while the guy usually is home early / doesn't like late nights ?Originally posted by retrolover80:A few nights ago, he wanted to send her home. It was dark and she wants him to go home first because he got work tomorrow. He did not trust her that she can take care of herself. Than he say something which annoyed her. And that is the start of it. He apologised to her. She told him not to call her but he still called because he was really desperate and dunno what else to do and he was the "kang cheong" type person. Few days later, he went to her house and try apologising to her. Than she said that he did not trust her.( Which its true; he does not completely trust her). And she now suggest a break-up.
Does this guy deserved to be forgiven? -
up.