What if your bf does not trust you completely?
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Originally posted by retrolover80:A few nights ago, he wanted to send her home. It was dark and she wants him to go home first because he got work tomorrow. He did not trust her that she can take care of herself. Than he say something which annoyed her. And that is the start of it. He apologised to her. She told him not to call her but he still called because he was really desperate and dunno what else to do and he was the "kang cheong" type person. Few days later, he went to her house and try apologising to her. Than she said that he did not trust her.( Which its true; he does not completely trust her). And she now suggest a break-up.
Does this guy deserved to be forgiven?
she sounds very unreasonable...Originally posted by ahmike:I dun get it.... If the bf escort her go home...he not showing caring sign meh???So next time at night i should let my gf go home alone ???
Man...this is confusing Caring vs Trust.... always the same.How do u see caring / trust is diff to ppl each person? -
Can he be forgiven?
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well, she seems very unreasonable over here.. whether or not he can be forgive will have to depend on the ger?Originally posted by retrolover80:Can he be forgiven?
from wat u said, u did nothin wrong.. u just wanted to see her home cos its late.. -
but i did not trust her completely which i should at the beginning of our relationship. Also i did not gave her enough breathing space. i really regret what i have done.
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I really love her. I still keep the tickets for the movies we had watched, also the hearts that she gave me.
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i experienced it beforeOriginally posted by retrolover80:What will you do?
i'm damn pissed off sad and disappointed
i demand for an explaination but till nw
he cant answer mi this -
ur bf doesn trust u?Originally posted by jolin80:i experienced it before
i'm damn pissed off sad and disappointed
i demand for an explaination but till nw
he cant answer mi this -
Trust has to be earned not demanded
It builds up as the relationship develops
It also depends on whether she deserves as much trust as she demands, i.e she used to sleep around with other guys and go home late?
If the both of you really love each other, you won't let such a trivial matter affect the whole relationship.
Give her time & space to get over it
However if she has made up her mind to breakup
Then you probably shouldn't be with her in the first place as she seems to lack maturity and is not ready for a real relationship. -
if boyfriend don't trust u,
that shows he is possessive type
jealous and easy to argue
this type of relations does not last long
if can, it will be torturing
every day fights and quarrels
what for?